single mothers, was it hard to move on with a child?

Question

was it hard to find a man who loved your child like if he was the real dad. im going through problems with my husband n seriously thinking of divorce but im scare of the fact that in the future if i do move on my son will not feel loved. i rather b alone than have sum guy mistreat my son. also i dont want no babydaddy drama if i do find a guy that will love me n my son. my husband cheated n im only thinking of forgiving him so my son will be raised with a father, and ofcourse i do love the father but my main concern is my kid and his happiness. i would sacrifice in every way for my son to be happy. i was raised by both my mom n my dad i have no clue how is it to grow up with a single parent, or a step parent

Answer 1

There are men out there. And there are men out there that just want in your pants.
The thing is if your going back on the dating scene..don't introduce guys to your child right away until you feel they will be in your life for awhile.
I remarried a man that has children and I had a daughter and we both knew when we married eachother it was all a package deal. There are succesful families out there with stepkids and kids and half siblings all living together. The thing is..do you want to go through this? is there counseling you can do to save your marriage?

Answer 2

Your son will feel loved if he has you and his dad can still be there for him just because you two are having problems. Some men don't want women with children but if a guy won't accept your child then they can't accept you because he is apart of you. A real man will accept the chil if he loves you and he will treat your son good.

Answer 3

No, especially when there's a lot of tension in the household. You find out how tough you really are and gain a lot of self-respect. Once you become independent you and the children are on their way. You can do bad by yourself.