Backstabbing Friend?

Question

I have a friend, her name is Nina and last year she start liking this boy named Ian and she ditched me (an asian girl) for a girl named Mariana, who now i hate so much!! And now I don't have that much friends this year and I fell bad for myself because I think that I hate myself, just letting a friend backstab me like that. What should I do?

Answer 1

Nina was never a friend. You were a convenience for her.

Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.

Answer 2

Backstabbing friends is something I know all too well.
My best advice is not to beat yourself up about it,what was gonna happen happened.

Answer 3

Honey, take it from me . I have a supposed "Best friend" of 20 yrs and most recently she threatned my life over me just trying to protect myself from her!

Answer 4

What repeat that dont get it...