Need help to have high libido...
2007-10-18 15:34:56 · 9 answers · asked by cherishmhe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are some foods which increase your libido - like seafood, I'm sure if you googled it you would find it on the internet. Also, it depends if you are on a contraceptive pill etc, maybe get him to give you a massage or something to assist in getting you in the mood.
2007-10-18 15:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's smart to get physically checked. Exercise also helps. But also check yourself and make sure that there's not any hidden or underlying resentment towards him for anything. Maybe taking a short trip somewhere to get away together? Tell him what you want that doesn't involve sex (dinner out, etc) and then maybe when he delivers, you'll be in the mood. I've also heard this work: Couples agree to not have sex for a period of time (like maybe 2-3 weeks). Then, it's not such a pressured/guilty topic. Wall-ah...once the pressure is gone, they find it just happens (way before the deadline). Good luck.
2007-10-18 16:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by schmoo105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for goodness sake! Everyone thinks somethings is wrong with a woman who doesn't want to have sex. Your in a funk. Plain and simple. I get that way too and my marriage is fine! So your not a horn ball - that's ok. Alot of it depends on your age and the amount of stress you have in your life. Just relax, stop worrying and let things happen the way they should happen. Your fine. Thinking about it will only make it worse.
2007-10-18 15:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by beenthinkin' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work on you self esteem and self confidence, do something that makes you feel good about yourself, complete a project, exercise, or some other form of recreation.
2007-10-18 17:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better seek marriage counseling my dear. sex is a very essential part of marriage and a lot of marriages have been broken because of the lack of it. seek help asap
2007-10-18 15:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by tox101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you had your hormones checked? ya better get this fixed, before he starts looking at other women...i don't give a hoot how faithful you or he might think...he will start looking
2007-10-18 16:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by bubba gumps light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your motor reved up , read some erotica. Think about what you would like to have him do to you ,and think about what you would like to do to him. they say the biggest sex organ is the brain.
2007-10-18 15:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor and have your hormone levels checked.
2007-10-18 15:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by ash6529 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
exercise helps
2007-10-18 15:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋