How many times would you get divorced before you said never again?

Answer 1

Anyone can have a failed marriage and you can love again.

However, if someone is failing in multiple marriages, they may want to take a long hard look at themselves and the kind of people they're marrying.

Answer 2

2

Answer 3

You know, this is a good question.

It depends on the person and it takes 2 to make the marriage work. I don't condone divorce, but sometimes people change and in one way or another abandon the marriage--and not only in the form of infidelity. In the event of a divorce like that, I would say that the person just needs to consider how well they are at picking mates. Perhaps tey are too impulsive. Before the person just says "never again", you need to consider the person's age, why they had previous divorces, etc. For example, lots of older people got married when they were 18. That marriage obviously didn't work out, so they remarried a second time. That person may have cheated on them or something so then they divorced and went for a third marriage. Let's say #3 lasts for long time but then things go sour and the 2 people fight to save it, but for some reason or another it doens't work out. Let's say that person takes a good long break and takes a look at themselves. Let's say later they go for a 4th marriage that actually works. I don't thing 4 marriages is good, but its not good to be miserable either.

I know lots of folks won't agree with me, but its easy to point the finger when you've been happily married and have never had any problems. I wouldn't want that for anyone, but its not easy to be in a bad marriage. That person deserves to be able to obtain proper counseling but to remarry and achieve the marital happiness that we all want.

Answer 4

4

Answer 5

I got　divorced once. My second marriage is still going on fine 18 years now. But if I divorce again, I think I will not speak "never". I think, the more you say never, the more you are attempted to try another marriage.

Answer 6

Already said never again...married once, divorced once.

Answer 7

its my second time around and I love him but never again. If i want a child to take care of and raise Ill adopt or better yet get me a dog.

Answer 8

Once. Heck, I don't need to be married to a guy to commit. Really, the only reason you need to get married is to raise children together. If my husband ever dies, I'll never marry again. I'll have boyfriends, but who needs a guy around 100% of the time?

Answer 9

>In my case, it was four times. All of the divorces were caused by marriage (the leading cause of divorce).<

Answer 10

That would be twice, for me. First was 16 years of misery. This time has been 10 years of happiness. But if it ends...no more for me.