2007-10-18 15:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by karam1982rahman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whatever the judge told you to do. so cough it up and go on your way, aint life a beach.
2007-10-19 00:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little late to decide you're not ready to be a father. The child is going to have a rough life without a set of loving parents to raise it. You need to GET READY NOW and step up and be a man. You need to supply your child with the money, time, love, and things every child deserves. That is your responsibility. You should have thought about the possibility of a child when you were having sex with someone you weren't commited to enough to stay there and be there for the family you made.
2007-10-18 22:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were not ready to be a parent why did you not use proper protection? Having said that, it is too late now so now what you have to do is support your ex girlfriend through the pregnancy and at the childbirth and afterwards you will have to financially contribute to the child's upbringing and be there for him/her as his father. The law states you will have to financially support the child. How often you are there for the child as his father is up to you and your ex girlfriend to work out together with the emotional well being of the child being your main priority. That means you have to think in terms of what is best for the happiness and health of the child.
2007-10-18 23:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have thought about being ready before you made a baby . Now you have to take responsibility for the baby weather you are ready or not. Step up to the plate and act like a man.
2007-10-18 22:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have thought of that before you slept with her....now it's too late. It's too bad if you're not ready, the baby is here! Congratulations, enjoy the next 18 years of responsibility.
2007-10-18 23:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You played so you have to pay......many people aren't ready to be a parent, but you really need to step up and be a man and as good a father as you can be. Probably not what you want to hear, but its really too late to do anything else. Do right by your child. Best wishes
2007-10-18 22:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pay child support. That is all you can do.
You have sex you better understand that NO MATTER HOW PERFECT THE USE OF BIRTH CONTROL there is always a chance. So don't do it if you can't commit to a child.
So now you'll have to support that child. Of course it is always smart to ask for a paternity test. Make sure it is yours. But if it is you have no choice. The choice is hers... if she keeps it you'll have to support it.
2007-10-18 22:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by MelancHolly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a joke right? If someone was in this serious situation would not spell like Yoda. Wish I had a snappy response.
2007-10-19 00:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little late for that, don't you think? You now have a responsibility help care for the baby, both financially and emotionally.
2007-10-18 22:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Charles WE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry Charlie - you may not be ready for baby but baby needs parents! Be a man. Take responsibility. Do what you have to do. If you weren't ready for baby then why'd ya have sex and knock her up?
Baby needs $$$$$$$ XXXXXXXX & OOOOOOOO - don't be one of those dead beat dads. Do what you know you have to do. Take care of your kid!
2007-10-18 22:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by beenthinkin' 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to grow up and support the child. If you can unzip the pants, you can open the wallet. Called being a man. Don't use it (the erection) if you aren't ready to lose it (your youth, and your money).
2007-10-18 22:58:58 · answer #11 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋