We get along great and he's more attentive to me than any of my older b/f's were! THe only thing that bothers me is that were always so physical....not that thats a bad thing but there is more to life than making out! I think he's totally hot and a great b/f but I am worried about his age and the stages of life we are at!
2007-10-18 23:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by river_runner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are going to be a school teacher when it comes to a real relationship-- I call it "Relationships 101", when I date a younger guy. It is tough, and can be very aggravating.
He is also still in his sexual peak, and you will just have to live with that dear!! You won't see yours until you reach about 35-40 years old.
2007-10-18 23:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about the stages of life that you both are at, then you are likely at different stages in your lives. If so, then it may very well pose a problem. Tell him that you do not want to be so physical and would rather spen time with him so that you can get to know him better. If he has a problem with this, then it is likely that he is more focused on physical things more so, and this will cause a huge problem in the long run. If he has no problem with it, then that is wonderful. Some 25 year olds are on your mentality level, and it will work out great. However, there are a lot of things you have not experienced yet....like you can when you are 21. Do you think he will go with you so that you can get this out of your system and support you while you experience these things? If so, then it should work out just fine.
2007-10-18 23:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried about those things. The physical part is human nature. He is at or close to his sexual peak. With that aside, you have to realize that he hasn't experienced life as a true adult yet. What happens when he turns 21 and wants to hit the club scene? He might get a thrill out of being with someone your age right now, but what happens when he is able to go out and meet people at places where others might be trying to meet him. He still has a lot of things to experience before he can say that he is truly mature. I am not trying to discourage you. I am just saying there is more than just what you are feeling to take into consideration.
2007-10-18 23:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer that you dont. you might feel stronly about the person.. but, these kind of relationships usually doesnt work. For fun yea why not, but if you are taking it go next stage. i prefer you not to do so. the age difference is only 6 years thats not a problem. like if you were something like 31, and the guy was 25.. wouldnt have been a problem. but there is a significant difference between 19 year old and 25 year old.
2007-10-18 23:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by binay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i'm in a similar situation . only that its the other way round. i'm 20 and have a crush on a 25 year old lady. personally i don't think i there is any thing wrong with it. time will tell whether ur relationship will last or not. so dont worry too much about it. just relax and nature will take its course.
2007-10-18 23:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by skywalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, at this age guys are like this. you have to either put up with it until he gets over it or just brake up. that is the nature of his age. Let me give you a counter example. I am 19 and dated 17 year old girl who is a senior at high school. Her thoughts and imaginations were exteremly different. And the social life that she was in (high school) is exteremly different than mine. So.... it is really up you... just one thing: make sure that he really likes you.
2007-10-18 23:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is just in for you because he is still in his early stages and he wants to be seen as the cool guy who is able to persuade older women to date him, and when that stage is over he will probably be digging the younger girls, please don't be too seriouse about this matter otherwise you will have a nervouse break-down. Just take it as a fling
2007-10-18 23:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of happy cuples with big gaps in age diference, if it does not stop you from being happy then stop worriing. And enjoy life
and as for KRAFTY: no it is not wrong.
2007-10-18 23:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pliz answer my question ...im 22 and i got a crush on a 17 girl ,, is this normal?
2007-10-18 23:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Krafty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋