I have beens friends no with this girl for nearly 4 years now (we are both 15 nearly 16). In this time we have become really close friends. So much so i really like her, i told her other friend who i no quite well aswell and she told the girl for me about my feelings for her.
Only problem is that she found out my feelings days after finding out another boy liked her. She seems to no give him prority as they never wer that close. I feel a little jealous at times with this as she is the one girl I have ever truely liked and i feel that my chance has just gone. What shall i do? (taking into account i am not that confident about talking about how feel)
2007-10-18 22:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Call her and tell her you feeling, let her know you feel for her and you are jealous when you see with other boy that you want her to stay by you that is why you have been her friend for the past four years that you are keeping her for your future.
let her know you feel and i know she wouldn't want to hurt your feeling as a true friend cause my boyfriend is my childhood friend and he told me his feeling for him before I have any date and we turn our friendship to a date. Now I have a three year old son for him and we live happy ever since and our parents are also happy for us because we have been friend since I was eight and he is ten by then.
2007-10-18 23:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dessy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confidence and maturity are big time chick magnets that work far better than getting the hottest clothes or slick shiny muscle car (although those can help, too).
Assume she wants to date this new guy and quietly accept the fact time you two share may not be happening all that much now. Yes, this is hard to show--but it's best she sees this in you. And it wouldn't hurt for you to seek the buddies for some fun--and work your "babe radar" along the way, too.
Jealousy is a common emotion--but don't let it control you into saying or doing stupid things. You attract the honeys and they'll buzz by you as bees do to a sweet hive.
Pratice safe sex, avoid the clap and have a good day.
2007-10-19 05:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take her out on a flashy date, drink a bit of alcohol (dutch courage trust me ) and tell her, ask an impertinent question, you are on thw way to a pertinent answer.
2007-10-19 05:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by master 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u havto pluck the courage n talk about ur feelings urself.this will make her take u more seriously.she is just confused.the more confidently u express ur feelings to her the more will be the chances tht she will say yes to u
2007-10-19 05:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by aparajita 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y aint u confident? maybe your friend doesnt really want to give that guy the priority. it could be she is waiting for you too and you have been so slow in taking action.
if you truly love her, tell her before she is grabbed by the other guy. your happiness lies in your own hand.
2007-10-19 05:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by smile_: ) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kiss her!!and tell her how u really really felt about her!!!
2007-10-19 06:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her!!"
2007-10-19 05:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chelseachic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋