Everyone is telling me to break up with this dude, even my brain says so but just when I'm about to do it, I chicken out.
How can i break up with someone I love and yet so painfully wrong for me?
2007-10-18 23:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You arewithholding because you can't bear to let go of this sofamiliar person you love. No amount of persuasion will make you change your mind unless so if you know you can't, no one here can help you. Don't worry, when things get really terrible, you won't need others to tell you to, you will automatically sense the time is ripe to do so. As for now, you've not reached this stage yet.
2007-10-18 23:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Spinaround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually evrything is based on u..u have to prepare urself wit a strength b4 u meet him. If u r not strong enuff, u unable to leave him bcoz in urself u still luv him. But few of my frenz said,if u know u cant leave him even u have to, do not meet them to break off. Either by email, phone or 3rd party even this way actually is not good and it shows that u r not responsible person, but again evrything is on u. Care bout other people talking bout u or get them think anything!
2007-10-19 06:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady^angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy as you love him so dearly, but if you don't want to be hurt even more just have courage, just be strong and yourself that he will not do anything to you as long as you have brought the message through. You might as well just send him a message and explain to him later what he comes to confront you.
2007-10-19 07:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. You can't get back the wasted time you spent with someone that is not right for you. Just tell him that you don't want to be tied down right now.
2007-10-19 07:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is call asking for space or to "take a break" dont officially make it a breakup,.. but give each other time and space to get used to not being with each other
if you begin to have a feeling like "hey, i dont need him anymore.. i enjoy more time for myself" then.... you will know it is reallly a breakup.
2007-10-19 06:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ey girl follow your instincts normally they are alwaes right...if you gonna break up with him be prepared for some hostility and anger and probably him asking you back...if he is a nice guy h will understand...also ask yourself if its what you want or its what your friends want...if its your friends and you do it...girl u will regret it!!seeing him moving on will be so painful and it will hurt more...so think before you do it and im sure whatever decision you make...if u got real friends they will support you and wat you have decided...gud luck
2007-10-19 07:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by mouse m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is very hard...but if you keep this situation you just hurt yourself...you don't want everyone labeled you up 'MISERABLE WOMAN' right??
it's ok to cry at first but after that you have to stand up again n find another kind man...^^
2007-10-19 07:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nadia_Yuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "its hard for me to say this.....im breaking up with you..." then leave if you feel that bad..
2007-10-19 06:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋