Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

We moved to a different state and to this awful town. I hate it here. It has been almost 2 years. I have tried to make it work. How do I convince my husband to try harder to find a job in our home state and town? I know it is cheaper to live where we are living now, but there are so many reasons (mainly the type of people) which is why I want to move. He thinks he won't be able to find as good of a job at home, but he isn't even trying. I am miserable here and I am having a hard time making friends. The people here and their families have been here for generations and they are cliquey and don't need any new friends.

2007-10-20 14:26:06 · 2 answers · asked by cammie 4 in Family

Okay, I am 17 my friend Delilah(17 too.) likes my little 14 yr old bro,Kenny who is a little freshman in highschool. She seems to be distract Kenny a lot. I mean isn't he too young. When she comes to my house she seems to be wearing the sluttiest thing(I know that's rude but it's true!) My lil bro is not those type of guys he is a short, skinny, long skater hair and green eyes. Yeah he probably is cute but he is my little brother and i love him. And Deliah is those 'wild girls'(Ones that are crazy,love to party, and think wrong)I think she is a little too old and wild for Kenny. I mean Delilah likes him a lot but she is way too much for him and I think he doesn't likes older girls nor he is ready to date.So you can understand, Delilah is rated R and Kenny is rated G. How do I tell Delilah to not give Kenny ideas or what else should I do!?!

2007-10-20 14:25:26 · 20 answers · asked by !@#$%^&* 2 in Singles & Dating

My Ex and I broke up almost half a year ago and since then she has taken interest in another guy. So far that interest though while mutual is not turning out well and since day one of the break up she and I have kept a still close friendship where she still can tell me very intimate stuff about herself. I have tried to win her back in the first four months but she said she needed to see what else was out there because I was her first long term boyfriend and quite frankly her first boyfriend. I really tried to get over her..but the more girls I meet the more I realize that I could and want to spend the rest of my life with her (I've dated around before her too). We see each other like once a week right now and if yesterday is any evidence of thing, we have a great time well until after several hours pass then it kind of feels like it drags. What should I do to help ensure I won't loose her and that there is a chance we can be together again one day? Thank you.

2007-10-20 14:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have a crush on this guy hayden and idk he might have a crush on me to, well this is weird but he said his friend put glue on his arm (i could see he had glue on it) and it was dried and he told me t fell his arm with the glue lol. is that just a weird guy thing or was it an excuse for me to touch his arm? but he also let my firend hannah touch his arm, but that was like 20 min after i touced it. i know this sounds weird cause it is but take me seriously please kindness may get ya best answer! =]

And this is a 2 part question 1.) was it just an excuse or are guys really that odd? and 2.) does that mean he likes me? =]]

oh and btw that not the reason i think he likes me, there tons of reasons but i dont have time to say them all =]

2007-10-20 14:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Im going to be 15 in November. Im about 5'8. AND I HATE IT! I was really hoping to stay 5'7..but now....ugh now im taller than my boyfriend. :'(

P.s (im a girl)

2007-10-20 14:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're both 17 and have been dating for a little over a month, and a couple days ago, after my other friends birthday party, we were making out in my car. She told me to take off my sweatshirt because it was getting warm. I did, then I didn't know if I should have told her anything, since she wasn't wearing a jacket, just a shirt.

Afterwards, we both said we loved each other for the first time! =] , then left happily.

Should I have done anything after she told me to take off my sweatshirt off? Like was that a sign for me to take our relationship further?

2007-10-20 14:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could you tell me how you got over your crush??

2007-10-20 14:18:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I really like this guy hayden (who is 13 and in the 8th grade; im 13 and in 7th), i think he might like me atleast a little because 1) once when i wasnt in class he noticed, and when he saw me in the hall (even though he was walking with is guy friend) he turned around and asked me where i was. 2) once i was in the school office and he came is all wet (because it was pouring rain; FL aint all its cracked up to be ya know!) and he asked me why i was in the office and he kinda flirted in a nervous way. 3) (we ride the same bus) a few times when i look back i see he glances over at me. 4) once when i was on the bus i said something loud and random to my friend alex and i looked back and hayden started laughing, and ya i know it was from what i said cause there was only a few people left on the bus and nobody else was talking, oh and when i looked back he was smiling to. ok that was a lot to type and read i think i lost my point.. OH RIGHT, does he like me? or just being a guy?

2007-10-20 14:15:44 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have this guy friend(more of an aquantance) and I was wondering if he likes me...I've never seen him talk to any other girl before and I don't think he has any girl friends, so I think he talks to me the most out of the whole girl population....anyways, in 1 of the 2 classes that we have together, I sometimes see him staring at me and when I look at him, he shifts his eyes....also, once I got bored so I started puffing out my cheeks and I looked over and he was doing the exact same thing as me...oh and un our other class, he sits infront of me and he always puts his head back and rests on my pencil case, and a couple days ago, my best friend and I were arguing about recycling and so I asked him if he recycled(even though I know he doesn't) and all he said was "maybe"...I'm leaning towards that he likes me, but I don't want to be wrong considering that we don't talk all that much and he doesn't pay a lot of attention to me...so what do you think???

2007-10-20 14:12:58 · 11 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 14:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was wondering if it's a good or bad idea if the women your dating brings up marrage only after a month dating. as for me it's a bad sign for the relationship.
if a women brings up marrage after less then a month or longer then i think i should move on

2007-10-20 14:09:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 weeks ago he took me out on his boat. We had dinner at dark, danced, and went skinny dipping. Are his actions telling me that he's falling in love with me?

2007-10-20 14:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Charleight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering

2007-10-20 14:04:24 · 57 answers · asked by dorsye i 2 in Singles & Dating

so i really like anal sex. Not all the time but honestly there is nothing better than a dp. I am married and the second is ussually a stap on.......................anyway i guess what i am getting at is this wrong? I really like it but i feel a little guilty. Whats your opinion

2007-10-20 14:01:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres a girl i like shes 18 im 18 but my 25 year old sister said shes a slut so how can i tell if its true before actually chasing her

2007-10-20 13:57:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so a girl i like was talking to one of my guy friends and she said, while talking about me "I really like him, he's a really nice guy but he doens't talk to me." Now my friend didn't bring me up at all, she brought me up in their conversation. What do you think this means?

2007-10-20 13:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by Jones 1 in Singles & Dating

cause i mean most of my friends have had boyfriends after boyfriends and i havent not even had a first kiss and i stay focused on my skool work(honor student by the way) lol and i know im big but not that big (kinda thick thick) and i have a pretty face...

2007-10-20 13:47:46 · 26 answers · asked by JuSt a Girl 1 in Friends

if a guy tells you he loves to/ wants to be around you, should you interpret that as a sign that he likes you? we always laugh and talk a bunch, but i'm not sure if he's serious or not...

2007-10-20 13:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As a way to tell someone they didn't want to actually sleep with them?

I think a loser guy possibly used that excuse with me, either that or he lied about doing sexual stuff (but not vaginal sex) with 10 other girls when he didn't do a thing.

The guy claimed to like me but he spent most of the time playing Halo and ignoring me, and made comments about my body, he looked and acted like a complete nerd, I never liked him.

2007-10-20 13:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 13:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 13:44:30 · 2 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been with four people in my life and two of them could not perform sexually in the beginning. The first one got comfortable with me and the issue never came up again. The fourth, I tried to be with for the first time last night and he was too nervous to perform. I guess that means that I've really only been with three people.They both reassured me that it had nothing to do with me and more to do with being nervous to be with me. Is this true, does this really happen? Why? 50% percent of the men I'm with I make too nervous to have sex with me, what am I doing wrong?

2007-10-20 13:41:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

horrible week, final straw with my first love of 3 years, havent talked to him a week and a half. my friends are more intrested in smoking and drinking then helping me. I have no one to talk to or hang out with on a saturday. on the verge of tears. I know its pathetic but anyone have something nice to say to me. I just want a reason to smile through all this.

2007-10-20 13:38:57 · 5 answers · asked by jreeses2673 4 in Friends

Be honest. Do you, or have you ever, loved on of your child more than the other? If so, why?

2007-10-20 13:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...name if you marry?If you are a heterosexual man, how much do you expect(or want) your partner to change hers? Would you be willing to change your name?

2007-10-20 13:37:20 · 2 answers · asked by dede10527 2 in Singles & Dating

Help asking a girl out?
I am 14 years old. My crush has a 1 day difference birthday with me. She talks alot to me in social studies. A couple people know i like her, and im not sure if she does but someone put it on her myspace. I am a little overweight and never asked someone out before, and she talks to me in anything first. I talk back to her, trying not to show i like her, but when i get home i want to ask her out the next day, but i chicken out. No time to ask her by myself, and i don't like askin my friends to do it. I really like her, for her mind and body. She might be just a little bit outta my league. She hasn't gone out with anyone since last year. We have alot in common. Should i ask her out? How?

2007-10-20 13:36:58 · 31 answers · asked by Nate 1 in Singles & Dating

i love when guys tell me that they tink i am sexy and that they want me badly. if i respond to them with sexy words do they takke it as a turn off ? cuz i know one dude that does but i was wondering if this is like this for anyother guy

2007-10-20 13:36:45 · 3 answers · asked by &hearts JaNie &hearts 1 in Singles & Dating

First problem. I had this friend named brandon. He is awesome. We hang out at his house after school and fool around and flirt and stuff and have sooo much fun. But then at school he acts like he doesnt know me. He even told me to leave him alone and to go away one time. He is very popular and is a year older and so he hangs around with populars who give me dirty looks. (I'm NOT popular) I dont know what to do. I accidentally said on the phone to him (joking around), fine, im not your friend anymore. And do you want to know what he said back? "Fine, one less friend to care about." The sad thing is that I think that he never cared about me to begin with. I feel so rotten inside. What should i do?

Second problem- I have this friend named Candi. She is a spoiled brat. Her mom gives her anything she wants no matter what the cost. Her room is LITTERALLY overflowing with things. She freaks out when I tell her that I am going to get something before her. Like once I told her that I might

2007-10-20 13:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5 in Friends

2007-10-20 13:31:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do if your wife cheated on you right before the wedding? That is she came late to the wedding cause she was with another man. she has promised up and down that she is sorry and wouldn't do it again. what am i to do? marry her or what?

2007-10-20 13:27:58 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings