2 weeks ago he took me out on his boat. We had dinner at dark, danced, and went skinny dipping. Are his actions telling me that he's falling in love with me?
2007-10-20 14:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by Charleight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO just means he's into you .
The start of a new relationship has the lust lasting usually about 9 to 15 month's
By the 2nd year your still lusting , but you have more admiration and pride in your chosen partner.
When you reach the 3 year mark , your lust is fading into comfortability , you respect your spouse more and the honour and pride of knowing they are yours needs to be shown more in public then before .Your devotion to your spouse has set in about this time.
By the 4th year it's love and I mean true blown full love.A lot of people confuse lust with love and thats what they base their feelings and emotions on.
Love is about committment , trust , honesty , loyalty , devotion , admiration , the ability to be true to the spouse chosen without 2nd guessing or wondering what if.Love is about the comfortability and acceptance of life as it bring's you peace and happiness and harmony , it's about not feeling the need to get fine jewelry , cars , boats , houses , or going out for romantic dinner's that cost more then the couch you sit on at home to eat pizza.
Hope that helped.Just enjoy the romancing without rushing to far ahead because you may leave him behind thinking he is on the same wave length as you when he isnt.
2007-10-20 14:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that these types of actions are the ones that are meant with the saying "actions speak louder than words" especially in the realm of love and falling in love.
These are romantic situations and fun and im sure you get that butterfly feeling in your stomach every time you think about it, but...alot of your question also depends on your mutual life experiences, ages and your will for love and relationship.
It took me a very long time to understand the reality behind the saying "actions speak louder than words" and here are some examples:
As a female, I used to tell my live in boyfriend that he does not tell me he loves me enough, he is not affectionate enough...etc..etc...etc...BUT when I look at the whole situation, candy, flowers, kisses, gifts, dinners aren't what it is all about, he makes all the beds everyday, has dinner ready at night, watches the kids without moping about another night not with the guys, takes the kids to school and picks them up, does the laundry, makes sure my car is full of gas, locks up the house everynight...the little things...and these aren't his kids by blood...to me...this is love.
Good Luck
2007-10-20 21:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows that he wants to be with you but only time will tell if it is love or lust. Just enjoy it and if it leads to more you will enjoy it more instead of worrying about it too much.
2007-10-20 21:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems he took the time to plan, and is a romantic,. but if he is falling for you- only you will know that.
2007-10-20 21:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by whycantyouallgetalong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sure sounds like he is very interested in you. Give it a little time. You will definitely know if its love.
2007-10-20 21:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋