2007-10-20 13:31:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the point of thinking he is unattractive?
2007-10-20 13:34:08 · update #1
Absolutely! We women look for a man who has ethics, confidence and self-esteem so that we will feel safe as well as any children that might come out of the relationship!
2007-10-20 13:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It depends on how he shows his lack of confidence and lower self-esteem. If it just means he's a little more sensitive then that can be attractive. If it means he has major issues and lacks motivation then that is a turn-off.
2007-10-20 13:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gubbins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most women consider confidence and self esteem very important qualities in a man and well if you lack this you look weak and nimble. Ladies want a guy who feels proud and well can take care of himself.
2007-10-20 13:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, not AT ALL!
Most of the time, women want to HELP people in general! If a woman were to meet a man she thought was gorgeous, she would want to build his self esteem! Make him feel better about himself. Most women are very supportive by nature! Either they want to take care of men, or they try to FIX what they think is wrong with them! I'm a woman, I know. I don't try to FIX, but I try to build my man up and make him feel like he is #1!!! It's just our nature!!!
2007-10-20 13:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....wouldnt you be turned off too if a girl you date was good looking but low on self esteem and confidence?
2007-10-20 13:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like an engine with a strong battery to start it up but no gas to keep it going.
Confidence in the things you do, in what you know, and in who you are, is practically like holding a straight flush to the king -- nigh-impossible to lose.
Confidence rocks the world.
Make sure it's not arrogance -- the ability to believe in yourself even when you are dead wrong, or to the point of metaphorically trampling others who don't deserve it. Partners who look for that are partners not worth partnering with.
2007-10-20 13:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, women are attracted to men who have self confidence. I have left men for being so insecured and fearful of making any decisions.
2007-10-20 13:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it counts on where you are at ...in some places it will work out for you in others it will not ....if you go to a topless bar and start chatting to the dancers ...it could help you get your confidence .. only if you are of age and can go into those places..also there is a book out called the game you might want to check out ...there is a show on vh1/mtv that went thru this with 8 guys the show was good and to book is a good read ...i hope this will help you out ....good luck
2007-10-21 06:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by buzzy70a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Women go for confident and self-assured men.
2007-10-20 13:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-20 13:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Charles1667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋