theres a girl i like shes 18 im 18 but my 25 year old sister said shes a slut so how can i tell if its true before actually chasing her
2007-10-20 13:57:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How can she tell youre not a slutt? Double standards mate. If you like her then her past should be irrelevant. Maybe your sister is being a bit too protective. Just make sure you wear condoms if you become intimate with her. Im not saying she sleeps around but every woman/man you sleep with you should think they have a sexually transmitted disease. Until you get to know a person better you should always use protection.
2007-10-20 14:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, You'll know if she's a slut if most of the guys your age or so know what her boobs look like. Or if she is very flirtacious with every guy she passes by. Or if the first person she made out with was a girl. Take my advice. It could help.
2007-10-20 21:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by .::Dedorn::. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care if she's a s.l.u.t.? Are you planning on marrying her? Get to know her first, have fun, enjoy and live each moment to the fullest; experience and take advantage of whatever life throws at you. Be kind and grateful that your sister cares enough to be concerned about your well-being, but assure her that you're old enough to know how to take care of yourself...and don't forget to wear a condom...it's very important...
2007-10-20 21:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of the indicators are things like the way she talks, dresses and acts around others. Another indication is who the girl "hangs" with. You know the reputation of her friends, as well as hers. You probably know already if she is, but I suggest that you ask your sister why she would say that, and ask her for proof in her reasoning.
2007-10-20 21:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell by her clothes, maybe she shows a lot of skins, if she flirts with a lot of guys you could ask her her dating history if shes been with a lot of guys and hasnt dated anyone too long then you'll know, or if you know the same people you could ask them what they think, or it could just be that your sister is just being a protective older sister and doesnt like her and is calling her a slutt so you wont date her.
2007-10-20 21:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take other peoples opinions(even your sister),
develop your own
other people sometimes have vendettas
go talk to the girl, two or three conversations will tell you what kind of person they are....
2007-10-20 21:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably get to know her first - Would you want someone judging you on word of mouth? Honestly, how would your sister know, truly know, what this girl does or does not do? It is not like she is with said girl when she is sexual...and if she is wow...scary.
2007-10-20 21:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch how she dresses and acts in front of guys. Also check if every word she speaks to a guy is said in a flirty way.
2007-10-20 21:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make the direct approach.
2007-10-20 21:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by kahme c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wears a lot of makeup or wears smimpy clothing or is always around and all over guys.
2007-10-20 21:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋