First problem. I had this friend named brandon. He is awesome. We hang out at his house after school and fool around and flirt and stuff and have sooo much fun. But then at school he acts like he doesnt know me. He even told me to leave him alone and to go away one time. He is very popular and is a year older and so he hangs around with populars who give me dirty looks. (I'm NOT popular) I dont know what to do. I accidentally said on the phone to him (joking around), fine, im not your friend anymore. And do you want to know what he said back? "Fine, one less friend to care about." The sad thing is that I think that he never cared about me to begin with. I feel so rotten inside. What should i do?
Second problem- I have this friend named Candi. She is a spoiled brat. Her mom gives her anything she wants no matter what the cost. Her room is LITTERALLY overflowing with things. She freaks out when I tell her that I am going to get something before her. Like once I told her that I might
2007-10-20 13:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get the iPhone, and she said "No way! I was suposed to get that before you! You have to wait until I get it! Thats the way it goes! This is so unfair!" I cant stand it anymore. I told her that she was acting like a spoiled brat and she said in a high toned happy, smiley voice "I know!" And the sad thing is that she doesnt respect her mom, who gives her all these things. She is even too embarrassed to sit up front in the car with her and does everything possible to get away from her, including begging to go to my place. What should I do! I would be so greatful if I was her. I cant take it anymore! How do I deal with this?
2007-10-20 13:39:38 · update #1
Simple solution to both of your friends,leave them and move on.
2007-10-28 09:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by †[L]oveless®† 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As for the guy, he's complete jerk. He's so worried about his status at school among the popular crowd, that he'll only be your friend in private. That's not a true friend. If he doesn't acknowledge your friendship in public, don't give him the time of day in private. That's that!
As for your other friend, if she bothers you so much, why do you spend time with her? She does sound like a spoiled brat, but just remember that it's only going to hurt her in the long run. It may totally annoy you, but when she becomes an adult she's going to have a serious reality check. It sounds to me like you need to find some new friends.
2007-10-20 13:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These don't sound like true friends, and I would try and stay away from these type of people. The first is ashamed of you, which is NOT a proper glue for good relationships, the other is just a brat and a pain to hang around with. I'd suggest trying to find new friends, as, as far as I can see, they will not change their attitudes, as people rarely change who they are. Also, do not change yourself just to be "cool" and respected by friend number 1. He is shallow and would care for you only til you weren't into the fads anymore. Be who you are, find others that are themselves and you enjoy hanging with, even if they aren't cool. You'll enjoy these relationships much more than these two.
2007-10-20 13:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Miguel C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy never was your friend, and all those that he hangs out with at school must not be his friends either, or they would be at his house after school hanging out. Valuable lesson. Pick your friends wisely, because if they are rotten the stink will go to you.
2007-10-20 13:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋