what do you do if your wife cheated on you right before the wedding? That is she came late to the wedding cause she was with another man. she has promised up and down that she is sorry and wouldn't do it again. what am i to do? marry her or what?
2007-10-20 13:27:58 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Gee, it's tough to know how to answer this question. In this question you're a man but 7 hours ago you were a woman asking about your ugly husband who happens to be a virgin? How about helping out my confusion by explaining.........
2007-10-20 14:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty vile and low. I'd never want to touch the woman I married knowing she got railed by some other guy on your wedding day...and was late to the wedding because of it.
If she's that brash now, she'll only do it again. Give her the boot and make her pay all the bills related to the wedding...including the ring.
A divorce is EXPENSIVE emotionally and financially...and you need a lawyer. Dump her now and avoid the legal system's involvment in your inevitable breakup. Protect your wallet man...she can get 1/2 of your cash simply because you were married at all...even cheating wives can make a bundle in a divorce. She ain't worth it.
2007-10-20 13:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I cant say about if my future wife were to cheat on me, since i am a not only straight, but i women myself lol....BUt i can say thaa if that happened to be, but istead of the cheater being me (the wife) it was my man/husband to be...i could never marry him. The trust is gone once they do cheat which will end up being a headache in your marriage. I know that it would always be hanging over my head, and i would be mean if he came home a little late form work, and suspect him of cheating, which would push me beyond my breaking point. Therefore i would serve him divorce papers simply becasue I would not be able to trust him...Just know that he did cheat, and that there is a reason he cheacted on me, I couldnt do it...BUt that is me...i hope what ever happens works out to be in your favor, no body deserves to be cheated on, not anybody, for any reason...I am sorry that you found out my her being late to your wedding :-(.....good luck any way.
2007-10-20 13:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by *♥* N. D. *♥* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm no sure, if you want the real answer ,
and maybe , you dont wish to hear the real answer,
however , this is the way i feel, about this
we get married, after all the running around we do,
we commit, to a new person , promising , to love ,and protect that other person ,thru sickness,and health.
RIGHT? but this anit the case here,
your asking a person to commit, when i feel she not ready ,able or willing to do that ,
see when we commit , we are telling that person,
your the one baby , no more lovers, friends, etc etc
she sounds like ,she stalling ,and for good reason, maybe not to you..... but to her, she hoping that you will forgive her, and marry her, but i guess, she doest really want to know.
the marriage at all !!!!
here how i would try and cope, with this , i would say the wedding off, lets live together, it much cheaper,
also the trust issue, can you trust her again ,
if you cant trust your soul mate, who can you ?
and sorry buddy ....... its not fair ,and its not right, but woman eh , cant live without them right ? or wrong ?
2007-10-20 13:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait...she came late to her own wedding??? But then you ask should I marry her or what. If you have to ask that question.....Run, run as fast as you can. If you know or even suspect that she cheated before the ink was dry on the license, it will happen again. At least postpone the wedding until you feel confident that the two of you will spend the rest of your lives together. Too many divorces!
2007-10-20 13:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by cadillacmema 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confused here. You said she came late to the wedding because she was with another man, but you don't know if you should marry her? What did you do when she showed up at the wedding?
regardless... ditch her. You'll never be able to trust her again, and with out trust there is no relationship.
2007-10-20 13:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Deez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
has she done this before -or it could of happened when she and her friends had her last bash as a single woman -if you love her give her another shot ...put the wedding off a few days if you can and talk to her about this -you are a guy and you will make mistakes too do not hold this against her --or you can drop her fast -but be a man and give her another shot ...later it could work in your favor if you do a bad thing .......this is me talking so just think before you do anything rash ...you may regret what you do if you do not think
2007-10-21 06:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by buzzy70a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not marry her. She is going to continue to cheat with that person. Someone that comes late to their own wedding where they are going to stand up in front of everyone and say how much they love that person and want to spend the rest of their lives with that person, yet they were out boinking someone else!! Ok that brings a new meaning to one last time!!
2007-10-20 13:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. How would you ever be able to trust her again! I think the biggest insult was that it happened the day of the wedding. Find someone who deserves you. She obviously has no pride in herself and couldn't give a rats a-s about you or your feelings.
2007-10-20 13:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Vera K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she has another man and she gets late to the wedding then she doesn't have feelings for you. Just in case hear the whole story agian and if you feel like she still cheated you then kick her ***, honey. Good luck and let your heart lead you.
2007-10-20 13:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by MOMO 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think an annulment would work. Any woman that would do this should not just walk into her wedding and expect forgiveness. How disgusting, jumping from one guy to the next with your whole future involved. I would never believe a word she said.
2007-10-20 17:03:08 · answer #11 · answered by Belle in Florida 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋