My Ex and I broke up almost half a year ago and since then she has taken interest in another guy. So far that interest though while mutual is not turning out well and since day one of the break up she and I have kept a still close friendship where she still can tell me very intimate stuff about herself. I have tried to win her back in the first four months but she said she needed to see what else was out there because I was her first long term boyfriend and quite frankly her first boyfriend. I really tried to get over her..but the more girls I meet the more I realize that I could and want to spend the rest of my life with her (I've dated around before her too). We see each other like once a week right now and if yesterday is any evidence of thing, we have a great time well until after several hours pass then it kind of feels like it drags. What should I do to help ensure I won't loose her and that there is a chance we can be together again one day? Thank you.
2007-10-20 14:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you dont want to loose her forever do you mean as a friend or as a girlfriend?
You can probably always stay friends with her if you put out the effort, if she gets a boyfriend you might not see her as often but that doesn't mean that you cannot still be friends with her
As for you guys getting back together you can try your best to be there for her as often and show her that you really care......why did you two break up in the first place??
You can't really make someone like you but you can be there for them, tell her that you care about her and you want to try again..the worst she can say is know and then you can just stay friends.
hope it helps =)
2007-10-20 14:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go back and read what you said in the last paragraph. I quote " We have a great time until after several hours pass, and then it kind of drags". This one sentence says a lot. If after a few hours you become bored with one another, then what makes you think you could "spend the rest of your life" with her? Your exgirlfriend actually sounds very mature and smart. She recognizes the need to meet other guys and not be tied down when she is so young. You have dated around and had other girlfriends, but she has not. She deserves to have that experience which is a part of being young and growing up. If you rob her of this and you end up married, you may live to regret it because she would probably end up wondering what she has missed. If you are truly right for one another, then at some point you very well could end up together; but the noble thing for you to do right now, is to respect her enough to allow her to date other guys and back off!
2007-10-20 14:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by ceegt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and understanding. she'll more than likely realize that there aren't many guys like that out there, which will make her come to you instead of u chasing her. I think thats ur best option.
but u can also Try to date and stuff so that she knows you are trying to move on and not just waiting around on her...a lot of times we want the things it seems like we can't have so seeing u with someone else might open her eyes to how much she wants to be with you. if u do date tho', use caution. that can backfire sometimes. she might think ur really serious about someone and even if she does want to be with you, she may end up thinking its too late and not even try, so its up to u....if u know what kind of girl she is, then u can guage what her reaction might be better than some person online who doesn't even know her.
2007-10-20 14:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by ilovemysoldier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 07:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something more important than whether you keep her or not, and that is the truth. If she is saying you are not the one for her, you need to hear that and not beg, or plead, or play games to try to keep her. You deserve to have someone who loves you as much as you love her. Just because you have not found that person yet is no reason to be desperate for her. You need to mellow out somewhat, and listen to what she is saying lest you force her into saying that which she does not mean and you end up living with someone who is only playing like she likes you in order not to hurt your feelings.
2007-10-20 14:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you really feel. That you have looked around, like she is doing, but it has just made you realize more than ever that you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
2007-10-20 14:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to win her back, you're gonna have to fight for it. Be as romantic as you possibly can and treat her as good as possible. Make her feel special and unique and like no one else you've seen. Try to open her eyes to how good you are for her and make yourself look better then the guys she's been dating (or still is). Those are just some tips of winning her back..
2007-10-20 14:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dated around and it made you realize how much you loved her, if she loves you then it might be the same for her.
2007-10-20 14:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. In my opinion, you should spend less time with her and make her miss you. Then, you'll know. ;-)
2007-10-20 14:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her, then you'll fight for her. Don't let her slip away.
2007-10-20 14:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋