I have been with four people in my life and two of them could not perform sexually in the beginning. The first one got comfortable with me and the issue never came up again. The fourth, I tried to be with for the first time last night and he was too nervous to perform. I guess that means that I've really only been with three people.They both reassured me that it had nothing to do with me and more to do with being nervous to be with me. Is this true, does this really happen? Why? 50% percent of the men I'm with I make too nervous to have sex with me, what am I doing wrong?
2007-10-20 13:41:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are obviously very pretty and probably intimidate them. This same situation occured when I was dating my 1st husband, he could not perform at first either and I found out it was because he was a virgin! It was nerves--that was all. Once he got over it--he was all over me all the time. Just try very hard to make them more at ease and comfortable. Take things slower or something.
2007-10-20 13:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax, take it a little slower, more foreplay, and maybe longer before you get to foreplay..
If you are too aggressive, this makes guys nervous because things are happening faster than they expect....
you've got all night.. take your time..
2007-10-20 20:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your case made me think of a movie my friend is in, mystery alaska.... but anyways, that happens more than one would think but it doesn't happen to everyone. They can just be nervous.
2007-10-20 20:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Victory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex with too many people to begin with
2007-10-20 20:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by tommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you get to know them first. if you are dating for a while they should feel more relaxed and the foreplay should get them going
2007-10-20 20:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its totally possible!! and im glad their reassuing you that its them too and not you. thats funny you intimdate them, joke about with them, make them feel better bout being nervous :)
2007-10-20 20:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally possible. Don't worry.
2007-10-20 20:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by escher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are weird it means there not ready or they do not like you in that way
2007-10-20 20:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get them drunk
2007-10-20 20:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋