2007-10-20 18:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by Hector 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwwww! just be cool, and remember (this is important): the girl you are going on a date with is just as shy and nervous as you are! anyway, if i were u, i would either take her to the movies or just take her out to the mall and walk around. hold hands. and dont rush the kiss on a first date (not at 13 yrs old!). the important thing is to be cool, and i wish you the best of luck man
2007-10-20 18:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in 8th grade too =]
This stuff is so exciting!
Anyway...
You should probably take her to the
movies (it's foolproof).
You should pay for her ticket, and if
she persists, tell her that she's worth
the money (she'll listen to you after that).
Be funny. Girls ADORE funny guys. In fact,
it's the number one thing most girls want
in a guy.
Don't get too serious on the first date, or you'll
scare her away. Don't make out in the movie
theater. Wait until the third or fourth date for
that stuff. For now, just give her a peck on the
cheek and a hug before you drop her off.
Be nice and courteous. (A.K.A. don't be a jerk).
Don't be a pervert.
DO NOT say "You look bangin'" or "You look hot!"
Sure, it will get a girl's attention, but you're already
past that step. You've got her on a date! At this point,
you should move beyond "hot" and "bangin".
Say something like "You look cute" or "you look nice"
or "you look PRETTY".
Put your arm around her shoulder, pick her up,
hug her, do innocent, sweet things like that. Do not
attempt to shove your tongue down her throat. It
will gross her out.
And be laid-back. Just be cool and chill don't flip
out. Just see it as hanging out.
You should wear NICE jeans (not old beat-up ones)
and a polo from A&F or Lacoste or Hollister or
something. Try horizontal stripes; they make you
look bigger and more muscular.
Overall, just have fun.
Good luck! =]
2007-10-22 18:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by allisonnnn :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are in the 8th grade. Maybe take this person to a movie that both of you will like. pay for there ticket. dont bring your little friend along too. Pay for anything at the concession stand. And sit and hold hands. and at the end of the night when you are saying good night tell this person you had a great night and you would like to do it again. Kill them with kindness and dont be too forward. meaning dont make out with this person on the first date. a kiss on the cheek is ok but making out might just scare her off. let her decide if she wants to make out. dont push! good luck!!
2007-10-21 01:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Justin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are 16 to date.
2007-10-21 01:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok its bad to date in this age wait for few more years if u cant take all precautions and be in safe position u should not suffer in future thats it
2007-10-21 01:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by praveen k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smell good! brush your teeth. don't wear a ball cap or baggy clothes, you don't want to look like a sloppy person. be nice and just act like yourself =]
2007-10-21 01:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick a cucumber down your pants.
2007-10-21 01:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by wx_guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont let on your nervous..... shes probly nervous too.
Have FUN
2007-10-21 01:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dani<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't move too fast.
This especially means don't have sex.
2007-10-21 01:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋