2007-10-20 20:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by mony y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we tryed to work thing out for 2 month after he told me it was over with the other woman ,am i wrong ?giving him up while she is so holding to him and willing to FIGHT for him,i do not understand why FIGHT FOR SOMEONE ,she keeps on repeating the words that asonished me ,serious openions please
2007-10-20 20:27:15 · update #1
i would not be willing to fight for a man who was cheating on me, because even if he did break it off with her, what happens the next time there are problems in the marriage? will he turn to her? if u have to fight for the love of a husband than its just not worth it, the constant fear of heartbreak more rejection, the disrespect, the worry of where he is or who he is with. if she says she is going to fight for him than she is not going to give up, the problem is with him and if he wanted her out of his life all he would have to do is tell her to go away, obviously he is not doing it, and he enjoys the ego rush he gets when someone is willing to put their all into sabotaging someones marriage.
2007-10-21 02:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once had a boyfriend who asked me to fight for him and he said he would fight for me. It meant that no matter what obstacles we faced or who didn't want us to be together, that we wouldn't give up. He was afraid that I would just stop trying to be with him and would stop loving him.
As for your situation, you are not wrong for letting your husband go. You shouldn't be in the situation where you are forced to fight to keep your man away from another woman.
Everyone is right, he will probably end up cheating on the other girl anyway, so you should let her have him. What goes around comes around!
2007-10-20 23:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did ur husband ever tell her to make her think there was more to the relationship than he's telling u??
I'd pack his raggedy clothes outta the house and make him go back to the pyscho skank. They sound deserving of each other.
Fight for him? Get real. Show him the same respect he's shown u. So, he calls her his girlfriend eh??
I don't want to sound like I'm slagging you dear, please u deserve a good life, we all do. I can't imagine the torment he's put u through. No HUSBAND should ever put his wife through such garbage. I can see he gets pleasure from rubbing ur nose in it. This is not ur destiny. Move on to better ur life.
2007-10-20 22:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by badkittie2u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off, you dont have to fight for anyone or anything. The girlfriend, I believe, will turn your ex off her. She is being controlling and that will be the deciding factor in where your husband wants to be. If you back off, then there will be no contest.....the girlfriend will be fighting to keep the man that you dont want. Let him decide where he wants to be. I would hate to "win" a man if he didnt want to be with me from his heart. I wont fight for any man. He has to decide if he loves me enough to keep me.
2007-10-20 21:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer here is that there will be no winners, because both genders are sensitive in their nethers. While guys are classically "more" sensitive south of the border, you will have more motivation to knee harder because of this. So either you win and she loses, gets PO'ed and leaves, or she wins and you have a ruptured nut... Again, I'll say, there are no winners here, no matter the outcome.
2016-05-23 23:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by marietta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not willing to fight to win a cheater. What a prize. I would let her have him. He will cheat on her too eventually.
2007-10-20 20:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to fight for him, let her. Let her fight tooth and nail for a man who will eventually leave her for another woman, just like he did to you. You can wash your hands of it, put it down to experience, move on, and proceed to gloat.
2007-10-20 20:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, this woman is not well. If she dares to get physical with you or harasses you, just file charges vs. her. How sad for her.
2007-10-21 04:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is Worth fighting for if she wants him let her have him it wont last if she is that way just let it go and things will get better
2007-10-20 20:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by bigdaddey98235 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something you can fight for !
2007-10-20 20:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by mona_atraki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋