My small sis (8 y/o) noticed my boobs the other day. She asks why my boobs are so big and hers R so small. Then I told her it was hard to explain. Then she said if she could see me naked. We are really close. Should I let her see me naked? Nothing sexual. She asked me this an hour ago.
2007-10-20 04:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's young and just doesn't know about this stuff. Tell your little sis nicely that as you grow up, you get taller, as you get taller, you get bigger, and as you get bigger, you change more. Let her see a picture of herself of when she was a baby so she'll understand better. Ask her: You didn't have hair then, right? But then you grew older and now you're a big girl and so you're changing. Everyone has to grow up and change, okay? But just don't tell her about the periods and stuff. It'll confuse her and get her more curious and want to see you naked even more.
You shouldn't go naked even if you're really close. If that doesn't work, you'll have to talk to your mom to talk to her.
Make sure you think twice before acting. If you say soemthing you shouldn't ahve said, it'll get her more curious.
2007-10-20 05:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your family culture. If nudity isn't a biggie in your family and you're not uncomfortable, then go ahead. However since you are asking the question, I'm going to speculate that you are uncomfortable and you shouldn't do it. Always gage your privacy to what your instincts(guts) tell you. You need to tell her that you don't think that's appropriate because it makes you uncomfortable. Then talk to your mom about it, and ask her to help you talk to your sister about growing up. My daughter started her periods at age 9, your mom should have already started talking to her about the changes ahead of her.
2007-10-20 05:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that in your stage of life physical development is a personal matter and you are not comfortable with her observing you naked. Also, tell her that time will clue her in the how bodies develop or to talk to your parents.
2007-10-20 05:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 04:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by newcomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - IT MAY CONFUSE HER. SHE CAN ASK ANY QUESTION, AND ANSWER IT AS HONESTLY AS YOU CAN. BUT NAKEDNESS IS SOMETHING PRIVATE - AND SHOWING HER HOW YOU LOOK MAY BE AN INCENTIVE FOR HER TO ASK OTHERS!!! LORD KNOWS YOU DONT WANT THAT. I WOULD SAY THERE ARE A TON OF BOOKS OUT THERE TO HELP HER WITH HER CURIOSITY - NOT TO MENTION I AM SURE YOUR PARENTS WOULD LIKE TO BE INVOLVED TO ANSWER HER QUESTIONS TOO!!!
2007-10-20 05:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly not ur parents should explain it to her!! tell them what she sed and they can have a chat to her.
and it could be very awkward so no dont do it.
2007-10-20 05:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to ask your mum
dont go parading youself nude in fron tof her she may ell people and stuff
so tell your mum to educate her ok
2007-10-20 05:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chunkylover53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something you should be educating her on. It is a sensitive matter that your folks should handle.
2007-10-20 05:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by docC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your lil sis it's personal leave it at that
2007-10-20 07:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ciao Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha...maybe not...she might tell her friends...tell you mom about it. i think she would give a better answer.
2007-10-20 05:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋