Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

how do i know if my boyfriend really means it when he says he loves me? how do i know hes not using me?

2007-10-20 06:25:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very much in love with my husband . I know he still loves me . But we are separated at the moment. He left because we have a ton of problem and is not sue he wants to deal with them any more.I am fixing as many as I can . But he just says hes tired of it all and its over. I didn't relieze how much I would miss him and basically told him to leave if he wanted to . But now that hes gone I feel like I am dying inside. he is unwilling to talk me . About anything other than the kids. but when I confronted him He told me he stikll loves me . Just that he tied of everything. Any one have any ideas on how to get him to see how much he is giving up to have total freedom and no responsibilitys

2007-10-20 06:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by looking for ideas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married and want to pick an amazing song for the father daughter dance. My step dad has been in my life since i was 15. He is an amazing man. what would be a really good song for us to dance too?

2007-10-20 06:16:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I meet my gf daily & we do kissing groping etc everyday in the car. She seems to be more interested in sexual touches.
we meet six days a week.
we will marry after 8-9 months.
PLEASE SUGGEST me what other activities we can do so that we get a feeling that we are not just meeting for one thing.
Please suggest a cost effective solution

2007-10-20 06:15:01 · 20 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Friends

1) What is your marital status?
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2) Every marriage should have a “head of household”.
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3) The term “head of household” is determined by gender.
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4) In a marriage, whoever makes the most money is given the title “head of household”.
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5) In a marriage, the more sexually dominant person is the “head of household”.
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6) In a marriage, the “head of household” has the final word in a disagreement.
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7) The “head of household” is responsible for disciplining the children.
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8) The head of household is responsible of the physical security of those in the home.
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9) The “head of household” is responsible for the emotional security of those in the home.
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10) Culture is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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11) Ethnicity is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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12) Religion is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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13) Societal influences are a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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14) The couple’s socioeconomic status is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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15) In a few words, please describe the term “head of household”.

2007-10-20 06:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by nestly7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I meet my gf daily & we do kissing groping etc everyday in the car. She seems to be more interested in sexual touches.
we meet six days a week.
we will marry after 8-9 months.
PLEASE SUGGEST me what other activities we can do so that we get a feeling that we are not just meeting for one thing.
Please suggest a cost effective solution

2007-10-20 06:13:54 · 39 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Weddings

i have a child whos dad wont pay a cent he works for cash but is bringing in great money and wont pay a dime for 6 years . also seeing if there are any other parents out there in the same kinda of situation

2007-10-20 06:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just made a wish... who thinks it will come true??!

2007-10-20 06:07:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For my birthday, my mom invited my friend(or exfriend?) to lunch with us. I haven't seen her in a year. My mom invited her without asking me plus I'm 17 so I should be calling on my own. Is what my mom did right? Her excuse is that "it would be nice." I stopped talking to my friend because she never asked me to hang out(even her birthdays this year and last year) but my mom says it's because "she was busy"....yeah pshh for a year? Riiiight. What should I do? I don't really want to become friends with her anymore even though we've been friends since I was 3. Thoughts about this? Should I see her or not? I don't know...

2007-10-20 05:58:59 · 3 answers · asked by EM23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, so there is this guy, lest call him tommy. I liked tommy for quite a while now, and I'm friends with his friend, lets call him dylan. So, I told dylan that I like tommy, and dylan 'set us up'. dylan said that tommy liked me, and to my surprise, he asked me out to go somewhere 'sometime'. (god knows when that is). He seemed to like me .. at first. but now, he ignores me, and talks to me disrespectfully on msn, like, being jerky. I asked dylan to help me, but he refuses, and said that its tommy's descision. Its been 2 days, and no sign of a date plan yet. How can i get him to plan a date, or at least tell if he still likes me? helppp!

2007-10-20 05:58:35 · 31 answers · asked by kyla_tobi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been cheated on, used, degrated by a guy who told me no one else would like me for who I really am but him, and so on. Guys have always just been friends for me for the most part because relationships flat out scare me. I finally broke in and am in a relationship. He has tried to kiss me twice now and I feel very badly about it because I have backed off both times. I want to kiss him so badly, but I cant bring myself to. I really really like him. Its unexplainable. I dont feel nervous or afraid. I dont know what it is. Do you think its because of my past with guys? He doesnt know about any of my past relationships and I dont want to tell him because I think it would be odd for the both of us. Im 17 and never been kissed.

2007-10-20 05:56:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday was his first day off restriction which means he can leave and come back as pleased but he got to be back at midnight on the weekend and 11 on week day. he got back at 1202 and got kicked out. im very hurt and disappointed. He called me from a pay phone to tell me the news he was crying and really hurt. The security guy told him to come back monday and see what the director says. Im very upset and i feel let down. If he knows the rules he should have been back in time to get in no excuses. he said two people on the bus had wheelchairs so they had to let them off which takes longer than the rest of the stops. I picked him up and took him to walgreens and i got a drug test he passed the test. hes still drug free. My question is if they dont let him back in what am i suppose to do. I cant let him stay with me because before he went in he stole so much of my stuff. im so hurt and i dont know what to do. I love my brother but i feel let down. How do i suppose to help him?

2007-10-20 05:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-20 05:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by tina k 1 in Family

Please read this! PLEASE! I really need your help! Thank you?
Okay, so my computer is broken down, so I have to use my moms. As I was getting on to my mom's computer, this was on the screen. http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.asp?z=y&EAN=9780606139489&itm=1WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?! Is she gonna give it too me? Read it then talk to me? WHAT! What is that book even for? I'm only 13. What does the book mean? What is it about?

2007-10-20 05:53:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this guy who lives down the street and he likes me a lot (I have my sources) but we don't see each other a lot. I really want to get to know him better, but I don't know how to. I also eventually want to tell him i like him...or be more than friends. but how do I make it happen? thanks everyone!

2007-10-20 05:50:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a few friends and sadly to say they are not great friends. Last week they all said they would come over and then at all different times they bailed on me to hang out with other people! or they come for 30 min and leave. Im so confused on who to pick. One girl i have known since 2nd grade but we are not close as before. One girl i met last year and i hung out with her more than any other friend and could always call her but now she is always busy and i asked her to be my MOH and now it might be a mistake. It sucks cause my fiance choose all his guys cause they are very loyal to him. but my girls seem like they just dont care. I think its because we are all pretty young and im the only one who is engaged and they would all rather party and meet guys and im passed that stage. But still they never want to hang out with me. SO how can I pick the girls??

2007-10-20 05:49:23 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

My wife due date is May 2 2008

2007-10-20 05:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by Taumanius F 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 1 1/2 years, i dont have kids, And now im divorced and in another relationship... Dont want kids. Am i a virgin?

2007-10-20 05:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and our sex life is also better than ever!! Anyone else in a similar situation? Life is good :-)

2007-10-20 05:45:23 · 18 answers · asked by Rick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 05:43:48 · 6 answers · asked by the bride to be 2 in Weddings

I have been training and working out for yrs with the army and police, now i found myself more and more having to attend gyms where both sexes are training. This is not a problem or before you feminist have a go, i not being sexiest either. I am saying that as i train, i am becoming more and more distracted by beautiful women in gym clothes, which is ruining my training. But all i want to no is that, as you ladies train in the gym, are you aware that us men look at you, and does it hinder you during your training. I must admit if i am to be honest that i enjoy the sight of a fit lady training but need a tip how you deal with the attention, or me to show less of it.

2007-10-20 05:43:15 · 10 answers · asked by stu07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 05:43:02 · 3 answers · asked by i wished i lived in nanaimo 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother beat me up mercilessly resulting in stictches and broken bones for 12 yrs meanwhile i was sexually being abused by an uncle and was told to keep quiet and this continued for 3 yrs.iwas sent to a boarding school and that was the happiest time of my life. i alway's felt little in the eyes of the people a useless being..and therefore i got into relationship that were always' doomed people always left me.i felt worthless and now i refuse to even look in the mirror anymore and don't feel like a woman anymore just a machine.i hate myself and hate all those around me who have a better life than me.why can't i have what all have? why do people leave me? therefore now i have made my self more stronger and have devised a plan to stay alone and not to expect love or compassion from any1.why do i hate everyone so much?

2007-10-20 05:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by mafraqnavsari 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend were really good friends before we got together. After getting together (like the first week) we had sex for the first time. We have had sex several times since then. Just yesterday, after having sex, he tells me that we should cool the sex for a while but couldnt give me a reason why. I asked him if he may be feeling guilty because thats all we do when he comes over. He said that it was part of it. He then left within that hour, which made me feel like I did something wrong. Later on we were on the phone and the topic came up again. I asked if there was another reason then the one that I gave him. He told me that he has more fun with me when we arent having sex. That he isnt ready for the responsibility of what comes along with sex. Also that he feels pressured to have sex. The whole pressure thing confuses me because he is the one that wants it everytime he comes over. I dont mind not having sex for a while, its not everything. I'm so confused...What do you think?

2007-10-20 05:41:40 · 3 answers · asked by whisper_in_the_wind1186 3 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and i have 3 friend's birthdays in 1 week all 2 days apart. 2 of them are my best friends and are having a birthday party and the other is my boyfriend. i dont get allowance and i want to get all of them a present but i no my parents wont want to get 3 kids each a b-day present

2007-10-20 05:41:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my dog die it on star when i ask people sould i get a cat or a dog and everyone vote dog so i got a dog and when me in my friend when to go get so things for it when we came back the do was die why did it die people

2007-10-20 05:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by fredisha 1 in Family

My roomate was upset because a girl sent him a letter saying that he is a fat clumsy nerd who cant get a woman. As a civil engineering student he used a computer option in which he forwarded the letter to all of his teachers in the civil engineering department. Would it have been best for him to delete the message and throw it away since it was only an insult and not a threat?

2007-10-20 05:35:55 · 20 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

By the relatives? If so how did you deal with it? Thanks!

2007-10-20 05:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by Lover of Blue 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a thirty year old divorcee who am now dating my best friend but here is the problem. He has been totally scarred by his last relationships and I am terrified because I am in total love with him! I just want to know what to do, I can't let him go it would absolutely kill me, so should I just continue to shower him with love and hope that he can move past his past and open up to me or what do you all think! Am I fighting a loosing battle? We have been together for 6 months and we have not ever argued and we have too many things in common I truly believe he is my true love!

2007-10-20 05:33:48 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you can say whatever you want. even if its harsh. Does it sound like a whore ?

2007-10-20 05:33:25 · 29 answers · asked by &hearts Haley &hearts 1 in Singles & Dating