I meet my gf daily & we do kissing groping etc everyday in the car. She seems to be more interested in sexual touches.
we meet six days a week.
we will marry after 8-9 months.
PLEASE SUGGEST me what other activities we can do so that we get a feeling that we are not just meeting for one thing.
Please suggest a cost effective solution
2007-10-20 06:13:54 · 39 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I cannot believe I am reading this.
Good luck in your marriage, you sexually frustrted religious freaks.
2007-10-20 06:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by mishkin 5 · 7⤊ 5⤋
You need to stop spending all your time when you meet in the car. Are you saying this is the only time you see each other at all? If so that is not really a relationship I would want to base a marriage on - its so one dimensional. When you say you will marry after 8-9 mos does that mean you are already engaged and have a wedding planned or do you mean that after 8-9 mos of these meetings where your grope each other you think that it will be time to get married so you can have the full experience of a regular sex life. If its the latter then you need to talk to your gf about making your relationship about more than just the physical. Trust me the physical burns out and changes and then what will you have. Have a conversation, rent a movie, go to dinner do anything that doesnt involve all the groping and see what happens - you may or may not want to marry this person after the physical aspect is removed from the formula. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-10-20 06:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by livelongandprosper2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to keep away from the physical side of one another when you are in love. Perhaps you could find some mututal interesting activity, such as walking, running, doing exercises. You could also do volunteer work in your neighborhood where you could work off the energy and keep busy during the time you are together. You could try to see each other less, which would be asking a lot of you both. If you cannot control these impulses, please remember to use protection so that you do not end up having a child before it is wanted. You could try to move up the marriage date also. I wish you the best and know you are having a bad time controlling your passion.
2007-10-20 06:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the park, take a walk, play catch, watch movies, go to dinner, or play a sport of some sort. That might even help with the sexual frustration, too, lol. You do need to find something else to do to keep ALL the focus off groping each other in the car, or your relationship is going to fizzle out.
2007-10-20 14:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this when I am just getting to know someone but it is fun.
You ask one question, anything you want and th other has to answer. Then they do the same thing. It can go on for hours and it is really interesting.
You can do it over a picnic or a walk.
Last time I did it we were staring at the stars in the bed of a pick-up truck.
2007-10-20 17:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just get out of the car. Do anything but sit in the car. There is pleanty of time to explore each other sexually but the rest is what will make it worth while.
2007-10-20 06:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmmmmm many things!!!
1.Go to the movies thats cool...
2.Take to a fancy restaurant
3.Go take pictures with each other
4.Get with some other coupled friends and plan something you all can do
There are endless things that you can do besides just grope each other lol
2007-10-20 06:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow. You *are* meeting for just one thing. So why don't you try just "hanging out" with your gf....like go to the park, or movies, etc. Do something besides just makeout all the time!
2007-10-20 08:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
news flash
u r just meeting together for one thing and that is likely not going to change
ull get tired of groping sometime after ur married and actually start to see the person for who they r
if thats what u base ur marriage on u likely will join the statistic of faled marriages
GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER APART FROM THEIR PARTS
2007-10-20 06:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about walking in the park, window shopping in the mall, dinner and a movie, rent a movie? There are many things you can do together that cost little or nothing at all.
2007-10-20 06:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by missyvixen1217 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just go on a date. A picnic, the movies, bowling, a concert, mini golf, dinner at a resonably priced place. Have a DVD night with your favoirte movies ect.
2007-10-20 06:17:51 · answer #11 · answered by heartzablaze215 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋