By the relatives? If so how did you deal with it? Thanks!
2007-10-20 05:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by Lover of Blue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They tried. I told them I don't want to hear it. I'm not they're shrink and I suggested they make an appointment and go see one. It's amazing how fast they stopped running to me about it.
2007-10-20 05:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not parent's divorce but arguments all the time. Divorce is a big taboo in my culture. But when my parents argued they always want me to assign side. They put me in a very tight spot, because they always want me to be on one side not the other. Then I just told them to stop do that, because I love them both just the same. If they had problem with each other then they should just talk about it in their own privacy and their space. I told them it not the right thing to do to put me in between their angers and frustrations. Communication is the key to any relationship and I do not appreciate them being so inconsiderate of my feeling.
2007-10-20 05:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by mycorollababy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me say this, we are always in someone else's business. One of America's problem. Why in the world doesn divorcing parents need children in the middle of their mess. If you love both your parents, you will stay out of it. Because otherwise you are going to be upset with one or the other and their divorce is theirs and doesn't belong to you and none of your business. Be happy to you and tell your relatives to stay out of it to. No one's business but your parents...unless they're making it everyone's business and if that's the case they should stop all the confusion amongst family. Be happy and good to you.
2007-10-20 05:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by IWTK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bite the bait. If you suddenly find your self in the middle of this, announce to them that they might be at war with each other but you are not going to be their pow.
If you are wondering, I can tell you this from having more years of life than you. To use a son or daughter to do your dirty work is the work of snakes, cowards, and trailer trash that are not good enough to be in your company.
2007-10-20 05:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In never have, and I feel sorry for hany kids who have had to endure the pain that a divorce brings! Sometimes I think kids are used has pons not unlike a chess game!
2007-10-20 05:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 8 years old my dad left my mum and said it was my fault that their marriage fell apart.
Nearly 30 years later I still hate him.
2007-10-20 06:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they were only married to each other..
2007-10-20 05:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋