10 points anyone!!!!! what is it about a woman that makes you think she is speciall!!!?
i really like this guy and he is friendly to me, says i look good etc has definately flirted with me-im quite conservative he has loads of friends is a footballer and is really out going i want him to think im really special and different from the rest what can i do
i feel like im not good enough and slightly intimidated by his friends etc- i do have a good job am doing better than most of them in terms of career- but it also takes over my life and sometimes i feel like im not as social as i should be what can i do so he will like me
he facebooked me the other day i started it by asking how he was
he put back "hey babes im good u ok? looking good by the way?x
what should i write back i really really like him dont want to put me foot in it though if he does indeed just see me as a friend
2007-10-20 05:09:38 · 10 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a great sense of humour
trust me theres nothing better than a girl who can have a laugh and make jokes
2007-10-20 05:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to raise your self esteem a bit. Think of him as just a friend for the moment and answer as you would any male friend until a point comes when the two of you may want to explore more. you need to try to be more social with more people so that you don't get into a relationship with someone just because they are the only social life you have since many get into bad relationships and hung up on one person because of that. The more people - men - that you are social with, the easier it will be to tell if this guy is truly interested in you or flirts with everyone who admires him as a footballer and even the chance that you may meet someone who you like even better.
2007-10-20 12:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question to answere. I am sure that if he has taken an intrest in you, then you should follow it up slowly to see just where this would go. Fast racing relationships usualy dont last long. So just answere back that u r doing great, and thanks for the compliment. Don't be intimidated by his friends. Just be the person you are. Go on a dinner or lunch date and take it from there.
2007-10-20 12:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by oldmanriver1942 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is already showing you that he likes you the way you are. If you change yourself to make someone else happy it is only going to make you miserable and that will end any relationship before it begins.
Who cares what his friends think about you. I mean, come on. I love my brother to death, but his wife - she has a few traits I could live without - believe me. But she is my sister-in-law and I accept her because she is not my wife.
So, send back - "Thank you. So do you".
And then let it go on from there.
And never, never, never let me hear you knocking yourself down.
You are good enough for him.
2007-10-20 12:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by rulestheroostwithkindness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. i know some guys that approach me online like that.
so called language. it's how they get to gals.
just be you, of course.
you're afraid of what he might think of you.
that's what i caught from all that info.
you're making it a pretty big deal.
not that it can't be.
but you are so falling for him.
and he has been showing you some signs of flirtation and so, so go for it. you should so write back.
let the thought come to you.
when you think too hard about it, you could screw up, cause i'm guessing he makes it hard to breathe by then. lol.
but don't think too hard.
and goodluck. & ^^
2007-10-20 12:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by IMBroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl! no matter what you may feel, you ARE good enough! if you feel that you're not social enough, go out on a shopping spree w/ friends one day or take a few days off! answer him! thank him and make convo! :) don't worry, if he seems the way i think, you would be INCAPABLE of putting your foot in it! :)
2007-10-20 12:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by harmonyauthor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you feel like your not good enough then that really means that your too good for him. Dont worry about trying to make someone like you. Let the perfect guy come to you, you have plenty of time...stay single and flirt around...have fun while you can.
2007-10-20 12:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by maggiejo717 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry about it. sounds like he might like u. as a girl there's not much you can do to make a guy like you other than look good! the best advice i can give is just be cool. guys hate drama. if there's even a hint of it with you, most guys are gone
2007-10-20 12:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by the answer is within you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she feels comfortable in her own body an thinks she looks beautiful. Also when she goes shopping.
2007-10-20 12:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
say"hey boi wat u up to.. and that will lead to a long conversation" hope i helped
2007-10-20 12:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋