Who is more important to you in your life your kids or spouse and if you had to choose 1 who?

Question

if you had to choose for one to be alive an well who would it be

this is just a question doesn't mean anythin would actually happen if you pick one

Answer 1

I would rather go with an option C:

Take my life and let them live.

Obviously most parents would want their children to live, even at the expense of their own life. So the answer to the question is really not that difficult - whatever decision I made, it would be for the life of the child.

Answer 2

hello,

When a marriage is new - therefore it is supposedly kidless.

As marriage goes - come along with it are kids or a kid.

For me, i will pick my kids over him or over a new boyfriend or a new husband.

Kids are helpless human beings and that is why they are called kids. They are the ones the will need me most. If a person picked their kids over their husband or wife, they have earned the greatest love and lovers in the universe.
No doubt about it.

Parents are the only human being in the kids life - Parents that are divorcing obviously have no love for their kids or should I say for other human beings (that if not for these parents - these kids will not be out here in this world anyway.)

So, I hope that parents that doesn't get along and thinking about divorcing each other - should not be too selfish and wait until their kids are grown up and can tend to them selves and successful human beings already. These kids really look up to their parents for guidance and the parents are their examples on how an adult should be.

Just read the lines of the song: Greatest love of all - I can't remember the name of the woman singer - well the singer is not that important but the song.

Answer 3

Both are very important in my life. But a person's spouse should allows be number one in their lives, regardless of how selfish this sounds. I would not want either my wife or any of our children to die, however if put in that position I would choose for my spouse to die as she has lived a good live and would want the same for the kids.

Answer 4

Well, they say that of all the pain that could happen--the death of a child is the worst pain any person can experience...Yes, losing a spouse is tough--but look at how many widowers get re-married and live happily. But the death of a child is very, very rough.

Answer 5

I believe that your spouse should come first...and if do put your spouse first....then you children will be taken care of....This is of course if you have a happy healthy marriage.....If I had to absolutely choose to have my spouse alive or my children...I would choose my children....because my husband has lived much longer and would want to see my kids and our child grow up to be adults....

Answer 6

As my children are very young.. 2 and 4.. they are the most important thing to me in the world. As they become adults, my feelings my alter.

Answer 7

your spouse should be number one in your life. your kids are a product of that relationship, however, i think we often prioritize our children over our spouses and ourselves. i think most people would save their child rather than their spouse. i don't have kids, so i can't say.

Answer 8

My daughter is my everything. I love them both in different ways. but if I had to chose I would want my daughter to be safe, and so would my husband. He would say the same thing.

Answer 9

I could never imagine life without all of them. I pray I've never in a situation where I would have to make such a horrible choice.

Answer 10

My child over my husband without a doubt.