I like this girl?

Question

I just started to like this girl the beginning of this school year. She is a very pretty 14 year old in 8th grade. Im 13 and in 8th grade too. But i dont really know if she likes me. She is very popular, where i am not. I am not the most handsome boy in school, and I think she has her eye on someone else. But I dont know if deep down, she really likes me. She is in all my classes. but really doesnt sit with me at all. or by me. but she always fools around. I think. like she says "hey honey" or she calls me her boyfriend. but how can i tell if she likes me or not? Sometimes i think she stairs at me, but i dont know if thats to see if I like her? So how can i tell?

Oh, she doesnt say those things in front of her freinds

Answer 1

i think she likes you, as experience of being a girl they don't just call you their boyfriend unless they are very interested. You should invite her over with some her friends with your friends or something so you get to know her a little better. then, ask her out once you know the real her. good luck!

Answer 2

I think like is the right word and there is nothing wrong with that at your age if she fools around and says things like that she may do that with lots of the fellow students she likes. You know there are a lot of you there and she is just a nice friendly girl from what you say. I think she likes you and many others as well and that is ok, this is the time where you decide what type of girl are attractive to you, how they conduct themselves not that you should judge them but you know what you like about a girl specifically, easy to talk to, friendly, interesting...whatever its your likes and dislikes that is going to let you know if that certain girl is for you or not.

You sound like a nice young man and thinking things through is a sign that you are maturing and know that thought before action can help eliviate bad behaviors, good for you.

You can tell, I can tell by what you wrote that she does like you in a way perhaps not that you hope but she does acknowledge you by saying "hey honey" right? Start a good friendship you are young you will learn that friends, real ones, are precious always. Peace

Answer 3

Does it matter if a girl likes you? Gosh where are these modern youth getting their information? The question is not "Does she love me?" but rather "Is she willing and able?" and if the answer to the 2nd question is a big "YES" then who really cares about the 1st.

Love and Sex are two separate fields and both seem to go best WITHOUT the other as they interfere and complicate matters when these two disparate entities join like a marriage made in Hell.

Love can exist between any two people: man and man, man and woman, woman and woman, parent and child, and really is not subtantially different in any context.

Great sex needs only physical health and attraction. Love really does not even need to enter the picture as it is an unnecessary adjunct. That's why a man can have better sex with a hot young professional girl than with his wife, even tho' there's no love there whatsoever.

As for gals calling you "Honey" or "Sweetie" it doesn't mean crap anymore especially in the South, as its become some kind of stupid custom and it can mislead the stupid man who fancies the chick calling him "honey pie" wants him. It's a dumb habit women have gotten into and it should stop. If I walk up to a strange female and say "What's happening, Honey Babe" I'm likely to get slapped or accused of sexual harassment.

So guys, let's turn the table and start slapping sex harrasment lawsuits on female superiors and bosses that call us "honey" or slap us on the butt when we walk by!

A good rejoinder I learned from a Lesbian whenever anybody male or female calls you "Honey" or the like, and works with men or women is "Don't call me Honey, we don't sleep together!" That'll stop 'em dead in their tracks!

I've always felt a rude comment or question deserves the same, it's poetic justice I say!

Hey America, let's stop making terms of endearment meaningless by their casual use. Call only people you love "Hon" or "Sweetie" and not the guy or gal on the street. Capisce?

Answer 4

When you say "she always fools around" what do you mean? Is this sexually or does she just tease you? Because if she is teasing you sexually, is this really what you want. And if she is really teasing you by calling you honey, does she call other boys honey too? Being popular doesn't matter when it comes to choosing friends. Being smart does. You are still young. Try ignoring her totally. Don't be led along by a girl on a string. Girls like strong men. See what happens. If her actions change, then you know you have something going on for you, if that's what you want. This way, you're the boss, not her.

Answer 5

At 13 and 14, it is hard to tell what you really feel... it keeps changing every day.

I suggest acting on the idea that she does like you, at least a little, but with the expectation that if you don't act like a normal human being, she may stop liking you.

So, be nice to her. Say hello. Buy her a flower or a bit of chocolate every now and then. Call her on the phone and say hi. Buy her a greeting card and write a nice note.

Stay away, initially, from things like "I love you" or "Will you be my girlfriend". Instead, just be friendly. Ask her what she things about various things. Find out what her interests are, and then try to learn enough to be able to talk about them with her. Don't be afraid to ask her to teach you about some of the things.

If during this time you find she is doing the same things back, then she likes you.

If she tells you to get lost, or otherwise brushes you off, move on and try these things with the next girl who catches your fancy.

Don't be hung up, though, on only trying to be friends with pretty girls. You may find that the person for you isn't the most popular or the prettiest one in the room. But she may be the sweetest one.

Answer 6

girls are weird. she probably is just flirting with you to see how you will react. she wants to know if you like her or not. i honestly think you should tell her how you feel. girls love when a guy is open and honest. there shouldn't be all this guessing and stuff even though thats the way it usually is. if she says she just wants to be you friend that is fine. sometimes friendships are better anyway, and you can move on and look for someone else. if she is unsure it is because she may not want a boyfriend at the moment, after all you guys are still very young. and if she says yes, than it's alot easier than you think isn't it?

good luck :)

Answer 7

if she didnt like you, then she wouldnt even associate with you, regardless of social status. But if shes always messing around with you and saying those things, then i would have to say shes FLIRTING!! when she says those things, do it right back, play the game with her. Becuase thats all flirting is is a game....or you could be brave and come right out and ask her if she likes you, dont be embarrased. Thats what i did a couple weeks back, and weve been dating for a month now!

Answer 8

try getting closer to her and talk to her more, see how she reacts to it and then you will be able to tell more. If she doesn't like you now then if she starts to realize that you like her then she might decide that she should give you a chance. If she is interested in someone else then she might be flirting just for fun. But last year this happened to me, I would just flirt w/ this one guy just because he would flirt w/ me and i thought it was fun (this is a guy that i would have never been interested in) so after awhile i ended up liking the guy just because we flirted and remember i had no intention of ever liking this guy, I was just having fun. So maybe if you do like that guy did and flirt w/ her maybe she'll flirt back and start to like it like I did.

Answer 9

Which stairs then....upstairs or downstairs?Anyway in any way that you like your way, some girls can be flirtatious but without any bad intention, maybe by nature she is only friendly and warm..stop imagining things yet..but be courageous , ask her for a date and if she said yes..then definitely she likes you....so good luck friend....just watch out the stairs..or you will fall down..and alas no one will stare at you anymore!wink!

Answer 10

wow, that brings back memories to almost of all us guys !!!
well, your case is a classic one and i encourage you to give it a shoot instead of building dreams and thoughts in your head. Your are still 14 and life is full of things waiting for you.
So, you simply approach her and invite her for something, icecreame, movie, stop by at your house for a project,...etc
The way i see it from my experience, girls most likely go with personality over looks or popularity.
What do you have to lose young man?