I've been with my boyfriend about 9 months now, and I love him so much. I'm currently in the process of moving in with him, and I'm very confused. I dont' know if I should move in, or if I should even be with him. Things haven't been off for a few months. I try so hard to make him happy and be a good girlfriend, but he doesn't do the same for me anymore. We never go out, he never does nice things for me, and he has no sexdrive for me at all. It makes me feel horrible. It's so hard for me, because I thought he was the love of my life.. but something tells me the love of your life wouldn't do this to you, especially when you told him how you feel and how much it hurts you several times already. I keep making excuses for him. The sex thing wouldn't be so bad if i felt loved at all. He's 26 (I'm 24) and has no sex drive. He was prescribed medicine for it, but never remembers to take it. He says he's always had libido problems, but today I found an (old?) online sex personal. Please HELP!
2007-10-20 04:19:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hit the road jack....and never look back....
2007-10-20 04:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I don't think you should move in with him! There are so many red flags and only 9 months...c'mon girl! Your relationship is 9 months and so many issues...imagine in a year or two from now? How much worse can it get? How much worse are you willing to put up with? I know it's easier said than done but the answer is: yes, you should leave your bf...and you know the answer is yes. Otherwise, you wouldn't have asked on Yahoo answers!
2007-10-20 11:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asking yourself all these questions then I defiantly wouldn't move in with him - mabye you could still date him and see if he comes around but don't take the leap of moving in with a guy until you are 100% sure and you have way too many questions regarding him and his behavior - don't be settling for this guy either - your only 24!!
2007-10-20 11:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by clintoncountygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVING IN WITH HIM IS SOMETHING I WOULDN'T DO WHEN THINGS ARE LOOKING ROUGH IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW. YOU DEFINITELY WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL GO ALL OUT FOR YOU TO MAKE YOU SMILE OR JUST PLAIN HAPPY... TAKE YOUR TIME AND GET TO KNOW HIM A LITTLE BETTER. YOU DON'T WANT TO RUSH MOVING IN AND THEN A FEW MONTHS OR WEEKS LATER MOVE OUT B/C YOU CAN'T DEAL WITH HIM ANYMORE.
I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!
2007-10-20 11:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋