3 LISTS PLEASE
2007-10-20 03:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by Yahoo Answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Surround yourself with positive people that care about you.
Keep busy
Only love can break a heart, only love can mend it again. After you feel comfortable, let friends know you are dating again.
2007-10-20 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Consider why it is you broke up in the first place. Do you really want him back or do you just want him back just because you feel that you can't have him? Were one (or both) of you abusive, controlling, mean, or possessive? Did one (or both) cheat? If any of these things happened, you'll want to think long and hard about going back to that kind of relationship.
2. Be the person he fell in love with. He was attracted to you because he felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around him. Laugh and smile.
3. Use the past to your advantage. If he's ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with him.
4. Listen carefully to his choice of words. If he ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into the conversation again. This subconsciously tells him that he and you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.
5. Casually ask if he'd like to do something non-committal, like have a drink with friends, play miniature golf, play tennis, etc. Something friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun. Skip out on the serious talks for now. You'll have plenty of time to talk about that later. That's very threatening to a lot of guys. If he initiates it, follow his lead. But don't go heavy.
6. Let him know you were thinking about him. Remember that one time you two went to dinner at that great new restaurant and had a fabulous time? Leave him a short email telling him you ate there recently and thought of him. And, by the way, how is he doing? This is a non-threatening way to have a light conversation, and also, a small request for a reply back.
7. Invite him to talk to you. Express regret things weren't working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you've been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective!
8. Pay a little attention to your appearance if you have been neglecting yourself in that department.
9. If you just broke up(less than a couple weeks) completely ignore him. He will call you if he likes you. If he doesn't then nothing you say or wear will change that.
2007-10-20 18:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Cut all contact. #2 Seek comfort from close friends and family. #3 Keep yourself busy, and time will take care of the rest!
2007-10-20 10:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by The Midnight Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new to pay attention to, they say there are a lot of fish in the sea. Why get hung up on someone who wants nothing to do with you? That's where a lot of violent confrontations begin.
2007-10-20 10:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cry talk to your friend and find someone else.
2007-10-23 21:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl i realy dont know but when you do plz tell me
2007-10-20 10:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by &hearts Haley &hearts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋