2007-10-20 01:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mature adults in mature adult relationships do not spout nasty words, manipulate with silence or spank each other.
Mature adults have conversation, respect each other's viewpoints, and, if necessary, agree to disagree.
If the only way you can express disapproval is through juvenile behaviors or physical abuse, you may want to avoid being in a relationship for now.
Learn to express yourself respectfully, expect the same from a partner, and have a core friendship to base your relationship on.
No schoolyard behaviors. Just honest, adult interaction.
2007-10-20 02:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Talking to each other is the best way to solve the long silence and nasty words between a husband and a wife to try to save the relationship and if the problem cant be solved that way perhaps a divorce. Since there is a problem between the two, I would imagine the one being spanked is not going to allow that peacefully so that becomes domestic violence and someone could end up in jail. Better to talk and work things out or get divorced.
2007-10-20 02:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That all depends on if you get a charge out of the spanking!
If you mean spanking in a playful manner, I don`t see a problem, keeps the lines of communication open too. If you mean spanking with an intent to control or dominate the other person in a negative way, then I would say silence, and therapy.
2007-10-20 02:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What century are you living in Woman??? Spanking?
Who the heck would want to be spanked because they're in a bad mood?!
Fair enough if it's your idea of fun in the bedroom, however as a make up solution for an argument or sulking, you're a bit old fashion, VERY old fashion.
But, hey, maybe your husband and yourself should try this master and slave business, because it definitely sounds like what you're suggesting!
2007-10-20 02:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
None of them are good. Here’s what you need--communication. Talk your problems out like *mature adults*.
Spanking done purely for erotic play is fine. If that floats your boat, spank away, or bend over, depending on rather you are the spanker or the spankee.
Spanking as actual 'punishment' is *wrong, wrong, wrong*. And if that’s going on, you need some marriage counseling.
2007-10-20 02:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not a child nor is he so i would say silence works best for awhile, then once you both calm down you sit and talk about it. And it would be a cold day in h** before someone can or will spank me. LOL
2007-10-20 01:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
yes i take my punishment I submit to him
it clear the air
clears my emotional blockages
and the relationship resumes
with make up sex
gotta love makeup sex
and the pain next day turns me on
2007-10-22 01:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by bdsmslavegirly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no if u r really n love with each other,u will never want to spank each other,,unless its bing playfull n the bed room,,just try bing adults n talk out ure fights,,good luck n finding real love not war
2007-10-20 01:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like some kinda kinky roll playing thing to me
has Mrs Goody Goody been a bad girl.
2007-10-20 01:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by beanerjr 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes 'yes', it helps. but it's actually kind of a circle, you like the one thing better, if the other is going good for you. :-)
2007-10-24 00:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by sash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋