i recently had break up with my g/f simply because our family opposed the relation. we wanted to get married but consition is worsed now. we are not on talking terms since 6 months. what to do i love her and want her back in my life. i feel very lonely and dont want to get married with any other gal. moreover, we will not marry against the will of our family...............life sucks!
2007-10-20 22:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by butter-boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you have a choice to make, however difficult it is. You need to choose between this girl and the approval, support, etc. of your family. I don't know enough about the girl or about your family to give you advice on what to choose, but I can only advise you to be level-headed. Don't let your love cloud your judgement, but don't forget that just because they're your family doesn't mean what they do is right. If you won't marry against the will of your families, then you can't marry her, it's as simple as that. It would help alot for me to know why your family is against it, as it is I can't actually tell you my opinion on what the best choice is, I can only tell you to think long, hard, and carefully about this. Try to think at a time when you are completely relaxed and as devoid of emotion as possible.
If you decide to go for her, you need to seriously talk to her about it. I personally would advice you do that in secret if you can, so you don't burn any bridges beforehand in case she doesn't want to. If you decide to stick by your family, then you just have to get over her. It's not something that just happens over time, don't let anyone tell you that. You have to work to not think about her. Mentally slap yourself anytime you think about her and try to distract yourself as much as possible.
2007-10-20 22:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Aqua The Fox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the smash-up is contemporary, that's comprehensible which you're feeling so unhappy yet while that's been a mutually as you should flow on. yet once you particularly love her, think of it over what became the rationalization of the smash up? Can the two one in each and every of you nevertheless fix it? Does the lady nevertheless want you decrease back? once you have the solutions to those questions then set a gathering together with her and communicate approximately it. Ask for yet another risk in case you are able to sense she loves. yet despite her determination, be a guy and appreciate it. good day to you
2016-10-13 09:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even I am facing the same problem. I know how difficult it is. But if you want her than you will have to against your parents. I think first you should talk to your GF because you just can't take your own decision as both of yours life is related to it. After that talk to parents. Try to convince them. I'm sure they would agree b'coz they love u.
I'll surely pray for you...."Love Conquers All"
2007-10-20 23:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Darshana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY not your families....they wont be living your lives. If you want her that bad and she wants you the same...the families will have to accept that and who each of you love. YOUR LIFE!!! Not theirs
2007-10-20 22:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to tell your and her parents that they have to accept your decision and it is not their choice to say if you are right for each other or not. It is your life and your have to make your own choices. end of story...
2007-10-20 22:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kay d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look buddy......i dont like to talk in a indirect manner
time has come to make a decision
this becomes the difference between winners and loosers
dont be a looser.........choose ur gf
2007-10-20 23:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by jitu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just get rid of your family if she loves you still now or get rid of her if she does not loves you and live for your family
2007-10-21 22:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try persuading your family...tell ur parents to decide only....i hate it when all the relatives want to decide, in asian/indian culture
2007-10-20 22:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be a very good, Please wait everything will be all right, I wish so.
2007-10-20 23:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋