Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

Of course you did. :)

I am going to be doing my first wedding soon as the main photographer; and I wanted some feedback on some things that people liked from their own wedding.

I'd like to hear some ideas that you truly liked that your photographer did; and ideas that maybe you didn't like so much.

Thanks for your input!
Oh, and P.S., it is a beach wedding =)

2007-10-16 13:00:28 · 10 answers · asked by toonlink 5 in Weddings

My realtionship of 3 years, the father of my child seems to be going down hill. He is dosen't seem to care about what I have to say or my feelings.

2007-10-16 12:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by American Women 3 in Marriage & Divorce

work. We have tried several times but it can't work. We are too different, we want different things out of life. We can't meet in the middle. I had a great time while it lasted..but it is over. I don't mean to sound selfish but it can't work. I told him we could try to be friends...he said it hurts to much. He calls me at least 2 times a day wanting to talk. Now he wants to do lunch. I am trying to prevent turning into a b----, but I do not know how to handle this situation. I thought I had it under control. I thought it was over. I want it to be over. Any suggestions?

2007-10-16 12:55:51 · 6 answers · asked by simplesimon 5 in Singles & Dating

does anyone know any wedding songs in spanish ?

2007-10-16 12:55:42 · 5 answers · asked by celicell 1 in Weddings

I asked a question last night about guys and it seems as if one has showed up--just like that.
He's someone that I've talked to for a minute, but never really talked to him. Just an acquaintance. I've got to know him a little bit. I found out that we have so much in common. He's supersweet and has the best smile in the world and always makes me laugh.

I want to get to know him more than a friend. He's what I've been looking for. He's a little geeky (I love geeks), a bit taller than me (I love that), and just perfect. The downside: I don't know if he has a girl or not. What if he does? How can I deal with that? And another, he's Hispanic and I'm black. I don't know if into dating black girls.

So when I get to know him a bit more, I want to hit it off and be a couple.

I want it to work out. God's really answered my prayers!

Thanks for your help. :-)

2007-10-16 12:55:08 · 2 answers · asked by Glamou 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married since May of 2007. He is in the army and has been stationed in Korea since June 2007. He and I used to have great communication, talked about everything, but lately whenever we talk, there is a lot of silence on both sides. I'm at a loss for what to do. I have asked him if anything is the matter, and he says nothing is bothering him or upsetting him. Yet it continues...I don't know how to keep our connection strong with so much distance between us, especially so early in our marriage. Any advice?

2007-10-16 12:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this girl for a little over a week now, although we're technically not an item yet. I was going to bring her flowers when I saw her tonight, but someone said it would be akward.
Should I get her flowers or not?

2007-10-16 12:54:20 · 1 answers · asked by Chrpica 3 in Singles & Dating

i no only 4 but i need alot please if any one knows like other songs about rough ties please tell me thnk

2007-10-16 12:52:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

DO U KNOW ABOUT LOV3?

2007-10-16 12:50:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've become great friends with my ex-bf, who i still love. We agreed to reamin friends when he broke up with me, and also said, "We can try again another time, if you want".It's been awhile since the break up (nearly 6 months) and I've been hoping , wishing and dreaming..just to have one last chance with him. I once told someone i did'nt really know very well about my feelings for him...and then went and told him about it!!!! My other ex-bf (also now a good friend), who i dont have feelings for still likes me...and now he knows this too. Today at school, a day after they found out about where my feelings lie, they gave me some odd looks, and frowns...I'm geussing they're dissapointed in me still likeing him. I'm beginning to become hopeless...but im not giving up on him... hes too much to lose...

Whats your thoughts on how he reacts to me still liking him?
What should I Do???

2007-10-16 12:50:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

were on the phone playing 21 ? and im blank.Hes getting annoyed.so help.i just dont wanna sound stupid.

2007-10-16 12:49:43 · 36 answers · asked by Kandice 2 in Singles & Dating

Does a girl not being confident with her body turn you off?? cuz i hate mine and dont know if i should try to be more comfortable with it or just not say anymore that i think that i am fat

2007-10-16 12:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him 4 yrs. ago, he doesnt have his ged. so i tried to help him bought whatever he needed books, notebooks, even bus pass to go to school. Well 4 yrs, after he still doesnt have a ged. because he cant afford to pay $15 for a transcript but has money to go to san francisco and buy games etc. It gets me mad, because he shows no interest in doing anything other than his video games, but will whine about my job, my car, and what other people have. But yet he wont attempt to do anything about it. we have a baby together and i thought "maybe this will give him a reason to study" but no, i want to be successful and be able to send my child to college, be able to afford health insurance for us. but not him, its a big turn off because i never thought he was so pesimist. It sorta makes me not want to be with him. Any advise?? He also gets mad when i tell him i want to be an accountant, he thinks I'm trying to put him down because he didn't finish high school. But he wont even try.

2007-10-16 12:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She does so much stuff thats mean then goes around and calls me a bad person, like shes married with a kid and you'd think she would be more mature than she is, but she so unappreciative!! aaah makes me so angry i could go on for ever she just does so many things that tick me off, she such a hypocrit, and shes no fking narrow minded!! aah why do i dislike her so much!!??

2007-10-16 12:45:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you were reading a story about a girl who had a choice between:
--A hott older guy she once had a fling with but he is now with her friend
--A cute guy who cares about her and broke up with her a while ago because he thought she was shy, but he realized his mistake and now regrets it
OR
--A dorky best friend who has liked her the whole story but she doesn't really like him like that

Who would you want her to end up with?

Thanks lots!

2007-10-16 12:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so here's the story.

ME = super shy & quiet & flat-chested
I hardly talk to anyone. No one ever talks to me! Inside, I'm a nice person. It's just that I'm super shy. I could never get a guy, right...?

Anyways, so there is this one guy. I never noticed him much and we hardly know each other. But one day he slipped me a note saying that he thinks "my body is nice" and wants to know if i want to go out with him.

well, idk, i never had a BF, and i dont have many friends at school. (i have two sort-of close friends) i just started public school, which is why it's like that.

so anyways im really shy and im not sure what i want! i always wanted a boyfriend, but i want a friend friend too! how am i supposed to tell him? what am i supposed to decide? HELP somebody!

2007-10-16 12:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl ilike, but she had a bad expierence with this guy, he broke up with her twice, told her he wsa cheating and everything, a week later he called her sayin he loves he and wants her back and wont cheat, he sent flowers and told her to call if he still had a chance, she did, then he went to her restaurant were she works with another girl, she broke down and left work. then he called her all kinds of dirty stuff over the phone like dirty c unt wh ore,etc.then he came back asking for another chance, she said its damaged, but he said let him fix it, she said ok. she said she shouldnt love someone like him, what does this meen? after saying she would let him fix things, he never calld back, what do you think will happen? the first time he broke up with her she said she would never talk to him again IF SHE COULD HELP IT. when she met him once she was all over him but wouldnt let him kiss her. and she would test him when he wanted to meet, he would get mad and cus at her.

2007-10-16 12:44:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok went to bar ran into one of husbands pals and had way to many drinks both of us hes married and im married but we had sex husband knows and his wife found out what can i do?

2007-10-16 12:41:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I am driving, especially at night, it is hard to see. My current glasses were in my purse that was stolen. The glasses I am now using are about 7 years old (I'm 50 years old). While we are trying to get a handle on the income and expenses for our business, we have someone helping us and she says I need to wait 6 months before I do anything. There is no guarantee that in 6 months I would have the go ahead. The LASIK would be about $250 to $300 per month, interest free, for 12 months.

I almost ran a red light a couple of nights ago since I couldn't see well. This is a NEED, not a want. I don't want everyone angry with me but waiting is not an option.

I am not a child and I know what I need. They just don't understand the need or they just discount it. What is your opinion about defying everyone and getting the LASIK while my husband is out of town for 10 days?

2007-10-16 12:40:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-16 12:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by scaredkate 1 in Singles & Dating

mine would be kind,silly,and fun ya diig. my best friend ravyn

2007-10-16 12:37:44 · 18 answers · asked by [[iM .]] K3LViN'S L4DY ~ 3 in Friends

my dad said this to me a week or so ago and its just really disappointing. he is a very busy man but he still never listens to anything I say. I'll tell him something 4 times on the phone until he understands and he used to make fun of me in front of family to feel better about himself. what a disappointment's of a father. when I become a father I promise myself I will never be like him. even with I'm working 70 hours a week I'll still listen and pay attention to my kids,

2007-10-16 12:31:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I got back with my ex a couple months ago we have been off and on because of rumors...and now we are thinking of getting married...we both want to but people are telling us we're too young and we should wait...we're both 19...we both are sure that there is nobody else we could imagine ourselves with and we want to do it but we arent sure...are we too young??? should we just move in together and try living together first??? or should we trust our instincts and get married

2007-10-16 12:26:44 · 26 answers · asked by new mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she's catholic and wants be to be one and she hates that I stay at home with my kids,

2007-10-16 12:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my fiancee and i are both into r n b sp we need the perfect 1st dance song..any suggestions?

2007-10-16 12:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Weddings

OK my boyfriend and I have done absolutely everything there is to do sexually...so I need ideas, I need suggestions of things to do

2007-10-16 12:25:44 · 3 answers · asked by whitwhit188 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 12:24:42 · 24 answers · asked by Mari 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 12:23:38 · 28 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 12:21:47 · 17 answers · asked by Patricia 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have a cousin named 'Stacey' and she's 33. She has a daughter named 'Lucy' who's 16. Anyway, Stacey has always been a wild child. She used to sleep with any and everybody, catching several STDs and drama along the way(She told me all this; this isn't gossip). Anyway, regardless of her disgusting behavior, her daughter Lucy is a very good young lady. She's very into soccer and she's a straight-A student. She doesn't have time for boys. The problem is that her mother keeps insulting her and saying things like, "You try to act all quiet but you're probably some secret ho or something. I was very perfect and good when I was young(a LIE!), and you better be like me!"

It disgusts me what a liar Stacey is and I would love for Lucy to know what kind of a trashbag her so called "perfect" mother really was(and still is!). Should I let the "truth" spill out or should I just watch my my poor cousin try to live up to some false standard that her crazy mother set for her??

2007-10-16 12:21:32 · 14 answers · asked by DumbBlondeNY 1 in Family