Why do i hate my sister so much?

Question

She does so much stuff thats mean then goes around and calls me a bad person, like shes married with a kid and you'd think she would be more mature than she is, but she so unappreciative!! aaah makes me so angry i could go on for ever she just does so many things that tick me off, she such a hypocrit, and shes no fking narrow minded!! aah why do i dislike her so much!!??

so* fking narrow minded

Answer 1

Everyone we interact with in life, including our family, brings us challenges and lessons to learn. Your sister is bringing you the lesson of patience. She is also an excellent example to you of how not to act, what not to be.

To learn this lesson, you must show patience whenever she tries your patience. Just smile and nod and say "you may be right." You can follow up with a calm, "That was a pretty mean way to state your opinion. You should try being more tactful or gracious." Never rise to the bait she presents when she upsets you.

If you spend time alone with her kid, try to be a much better role model. When her kid sees both you and your sister in the same room, definitely show this child a better example than they see from their mother.

Answer 2

If she's such a bad person why do you talk to her at all? Most siblings don't like each other....but are you sure that she's the problem and not you? I have a loser sister who says a lot of stuff that you said....she has no job, she sleeps around and expects everyone else to pay all her bills. (literally ALL her bills). If I were to win the lottery tomorrow she would expect me to buy her a house and even give her a few million dollars. When she blew thru that she would expect even more money. I don't talk to her...and try to stay away from her as much as possible.

That's what I suggest you do. If you are a good person and do what you are supposed to do...screw her. Don't hang around with her...and don't talk to her. You'll be better off in the long run NOT associating with losers.

And just because she's family doesn't mean jack. You're not obligated to do anything for her. Especially if she's not grateful or she's mean.

Answer 3

You are really lucky to have her as a sister----she has taught you how the real world is!!!! You are ready, you've gone through boot camp, and survived.
Treasure the moments of hell she puts you through---they mean you are strong and ready for competing with, and beating out other vicious people you'll run across later in life.

"Only" children, adored by their 2 parents, have all this horrifying reality hit them at once, when they go out into the world. Pity them, and congratulate yourself.

Answer 4

Some people are just miserable people.
Perhaps one day she mature.
Tell her to get in contact with you in the future when she grows up and to stay out of your life till then.
No one needs constant abuse from others no matter who they are.

Answer 5

needless to say you have has an argument over some thing it quite is huge now yet on destiny years, it is going to be a minor small component which you will laugh at. p.s. this would possibly not be a question... yet aw nicely. ^^

Answer 6

She has a bad attitude ur not the bad person she is
thats y ur soo angrey at her try to ignore her and just dont listen to her listing to her thats what makes u so angrey
<(^_____^)> just helping

Answer 7

You dislike her because of the things she does. The more time spent apart the better your relationship will get. Works this way with lots of sibilings.

Answer 8

I have someone like that in my life. I am learning to let go of my anger myself. Whenever he walks in the room, I am already tense and ready for something else bad to happen. Usually I am right. Actually, do you have any advice for me?

Answer 9

Sounds like you answered your own question

Answer 10

Here's something wise to embrace: God gave us friends as an apology for family.