Does a girl not being confident with her body turn you off?? cuz i hate mine and dont know if i should try to be more comfortable with it or just not say anymore that i think that i am fat
2007-10-16 12:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people find insecure people annoying. I'd hate to be in a relationship with a girl who is always whining about their body and how they hate it and how they are fat blah blah blah.
If you are over weight GENUINELY (not just a warped self perception), then eat healthy food, stop eating junk food and soda, and get some exercise. Then you will have a toned body you can be happy with, and you kill two birds with one stone.
2007-10-16 12:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm.... everyone like to mix and know confident people but not those over-confident type. If you always dont feel confident about yourself... it affect peoples, friends around you., it can be a turn off if you are extreme case. If a guy like you, he will accept and like the way you are....
2007-10-16 20:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by BunnyGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying that is a turn off. I don't know why, but guys like a girl thats confident and secure. It probably bothers you more than it bothers them.
2007-10-16 19:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by MZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really see how it would turn me off. The thing that would matter though is how you see yourself and what your comfortable with being. That is the person your bf will most likely love or like pending of course on the type of guy he is(insensitive/sensitive).
2007-10-16 19:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys already except that a girl is going to be a little self conscience about her body, the important part is to not be too much so, because that is a turn off
2007-10-16 19:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't turn me off but I am not a high school boy.
You should work on portraying confidence. That is what most guys find attractive (even as shallow as high school boys can be!)
2007-10-16 19:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different men have different tastes. Be comfortable in what/who you are and you will find someone that likes you for who/what you are.
Yes. It's very frustrating for a man to deal with a woman he cares for trying to cover up parts of herself in bed that he's already familiar with. If he didn't like big gals, he wouldn't be in bed with you. Relax. Both of you will enjoy it more.
Cheers :-)
2007-10-16 19:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you need to be confident because if your not then it is a turn off.
2007-10-16 19:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. a turn off. You should already be happy with yourself... worrying like that means that you're all wrapped up into yourself, and may not be a good partner...
2007-10-16 19:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes confidence is a turn on, so that would be a turn off
2007-10-16 19:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋