2007-10-16 12:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by scaredkate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah show some problems you have otherwise you can just type that in google and wala u got millions of answers
2007-10-16 12:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by crazyppldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice! This is an acquired skill. Get the image of someone confident that you know or from movies in your mind and imagine yourself being them when your with people. Don't go overboard and make and a** of yourself, but just imagine that you're as confident as they are and act the part. Keep your body up and straight, but relaxed. Don't talk too much or try to impress. It's like character acting. The more you practice the part the more you become the character.
Just practice, practice, practice and over time it will come and other people will start responding differently to you.
Good luck!
2007-10-16 19:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Duck! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with the library thing, and the pretending you are a star thing. It isn't about faking, just being the you that you feel you should be. When I was a teenager my therapist told me to keep a secret scrapbook of my future. I know it sounds hokie, but I do it to this day. Go through magazines, books, songs and the things that remind you how you want to be add them to the book. Then look through the book to remember how awesome you are. I think my current book has all kins of images of strong women traveling or hiking, poems, quotes about strength, and even song lyrics. It helped my confidence because when I looked through it, I thought about what great taste I have and my personality started reflecting that. Not in an arrogant way, but in a gee, I DO like myself after all way.
2007-10-16 19:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by tattoocandlehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very slow process. You have to start off by finding something that you like about yourself. What are your strengths?
Next, use those strengths to encourage you to do better in those areas.
Start talking to people. As people get to know and like you, you'll feel more confident in who you are. Good luck!
2007-10-16 19:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a library card. Go to the library and get books about self esteem. Make a list of all your good qualities and what you want to improve. You can make it happen and eat more peanut butter!
2007-10-16 19:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to take more risks! Start participating, by giving performances and/or speeches at church, school, festivals, and at political events. Don't be afraid to volunteer for local charities. People will love you for it and will welcome you back with open arms. When you discover you can do those things, you'll amaze yourself! Then, you'll start attempting other feats with more confidence.
2007-10-16 19:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to that ********....
Look in the mirror and tell yourself that your an attractive person and people love you. Done.
2007-10-16 19:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bob C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror and tell yourself youre hot, you love yourself, etc...
2007-10-16 19:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by lovely_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do crstal meth hes probaly on that so he doesent know anything get a girlfreind get good grades and be proud you are you
2007-10-16 19:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to negitive stuff people say about you
2007-10-16 19:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by dweed1503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋