Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

Theres this girl I like in math class and I had feelings for her for over 2 weeks now. Today I planned to introduce myself in class. Usually I sit one seat away form her. Just today I sat directly next to the seat where she usually sits. When she entered the classroom she saw me there, starred at me and went to the back... Now I think I'm a creepy person who didn't do anything wrong. I never offended her or talked to her. I planned on it today but she just had to avoid me for some mysterious reason. I think I'm just gonna give up on her now... What could be the reason why she avoided me? Thanks for reading.

2007-10-16 10:54:38 · 24 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 10:54:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an Indian girl married for more than 1 year.My mother in law is causing too many misunderstandings between me & my husband.Please advise me if my husband can divorce me on the ground that:

1.) My in-laws don't like me.

2.) I don't get along well with my mother in law & can't live with her in future.She is presently living separately from us as we are settled abroad.

I would also like to add that she subjected me immensely to mental cruelty because of possessiveness about her son.

2007-10-16 10:53:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to look like a girl say for hallowen or just curious to see what he would look like as a girl and how far did you go say did you make him shave

2007-10-16 10:53:04 · 19 answers · asked by mean girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I just lost my wife of 12 years to cancer.

2007-10-16 10:50:27 · 23 answers · asked by cutter1r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a guy touches ur butt? cuz i mean that just happened to me today at P.E. it was the voo doo dude. (see other Question's). and do u think he will to it again?

2007-10-16 10:50:05 · 30 answers · asked by aloneness 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 10:50:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some ideas. OK so I want to help the poor for thanksgiving and I am running an event online where for every person who mails me in a video game, i buy a canned food or turkey or something? Any ideas would be appreciated on actually what I should buy and where do I send it to? Like is there a donation website for this kind of thing?

2007-10-16 10:48:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How would this be for telling our parents when we get pregnant with baby #2. We aren't trying for a couple of months and it's all I can think about so I'm thinking of ways to surprise our parents. We would invite my parent's over one night for dinner and my hubbies parents over another night for dinner. I would make a chinese dinner (crab rangoon, egg rolls and egg drop soup). Then I would get them one of these keepsake fortune cookies for them to open after dinner and have a fortune written in them about their future grandbaby coming into this world.
http://www.goodfortunes.com/build_shopcart3.asp?UID=2176101013385575&ITEMNO=SILVER+PAPERWEIGHT&nav=Cookie%20Keepsakes
We are going to get M&M's with New big Brother and Bun in the Oven printed on them to give to the rest of the family to announce it.

2007-10-16 10:48:07 · 5 answers · asked by blank 4 in Family

Okay, all, this isnt about significant other love, this is about family love. I'm 17 years old, and as far as I can remember, I have always felt this way. My parents love me, and they always tell me and it makes me feel REALLY awkward to say it back. I am able to do this with my girlfriends easily..like open up, but I'm ENTIRELY afraid of family love. FOr instance, if my dad kisses me on the head i kinda feel uncomfortable, same with my mom. I also dont like it when my sisters say the same thing (my brother doesnt do it..yay)...i just dont like it. I cant tell them this, I just want to know if anybody else feels this way or can help me out a bit?
thanks

2007-10-16 10:47:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom lets my older brother spank me. So if he was trying to spank me if i killed him would that be self-defence or not?

2007-10-16 10:46:59 · 8 answers · asked by little sis 1 in Family

I havent been caught by my parents or by any form of law inforcement for four years. I am now 16. My dad found my pipe and my weed. I smoke about every other day. me and my parents dont have a good relationship because they never really talk to me, all they do is start scolding me right away. I want to try and sway there opinion on why weed isnt that bad. This question is for parents and people who have been in the same situation as me.

2007-10-16 10:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by BW 1 in Family

My best friend is not really popular or anything. But recently, one of the really cute guys started talking to her. And like, me and her don't really have a set "group" inside of school. And I'm sick of all my friends who are close going to other schools. But, her and this guy started talking and have become really close and like, I am friends with the guy too. But like, she is hanging out with their whole popular group now and it's just like "what about me?" i keep hinting to her that all of us need to hang out outside of school and she just keeps saying that she doesn't think that that is such a good idea. I want to hang out with them but she is just not getting the hint. What should I do? (And when I say them I just don't mean her and him, I mean like his whole group.)

2007-10-16 10:44:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, added to all my other questions. I am living with my girlfriend soon to be wife. She has a child that lives with us FULL time. The grandmother is fighting to see the child in the courts here soon. The grandmother and her son ( father ) dont have any rights to the child since the dad is always in jail and has been on drugs for years. The grandmother wants the child to sneak her to him. Now she wants to say that I am harming the child since I am living with them. Which I am not, I love her like she is mine own. And she would tell you this. I treat them both very well. I also have a son that doesnt live with us.

So what could be possibly said or proved? When there is nothing to be proved... I think this lady just ran out of ammo to use agianst the childs mother.

What do you think?

2007-10-16 10:43:34 · 12 answers · asked by duh..... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not talking about the tv programme

2007-10-16 10:41:39 · 6 answers · asked by sazzyfrazz 2 in Singles & Dating

i like my ex.
but i dont know if i wanna go out with him. like hes sweet but i dont want to hurt him again. were like best friends now and its wierd.what do i do?

2007-10-16 10:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Shelby L 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 10:37:02 · 4 answers · asked by deadeye401 2 in Friends

OK, so I used to be friends with this girl, and then at the end of 7th grade (last year) she ditched us as friends, and we didn't even do anything! So my friends and I decided not to be her friends again.
So then, about a week ago, she told us she was sorry and asked if we would be her friends again. They said yes, but I said no. I mean, seriously. She's just going to be annoying like she was the years before, and will probably ditch us again. I told my friends that they were giving in too easily, and then they got all mad at me!!
But seriously, a simple "I'm sorry" and best friends again? I mean, it wasn't like a one day thing. We weren't friends with her for five months!!

2007-10-16 10:36:30 · 6 answers · asked by Miss New Jersey =] 5 in Friends

Im wanting to get married, im 17 and a half years old and my boyfriend is 21.I was born here in the US and he was born in Mexico. I have been with him for a long time and my family has decided for us to get married. but before i do that i want to know something.

Can i get married at 17 and a half? I know i need my parents signature but i also need to know that if i get married with him will i be able to fix his papers and make him legal at my age or at least when i turn 18? I really need your help.

For all you people who dont understand.......I am catholic and mexican, my religion is when you are with someone for so long you marry them even if your young. So please no rude comments about me being with him at such a young age. you dont understand where im coming from so please just answer my question and dont try being rude to me about my age and my boyfriend. Please and Thank You.

2007-10-16 10:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

pick one! (and if you want give me reasons...)

1. "the greatest is love." -1 corinthians 13:13

2. "love endures all things." -1 corinthians 13:7

3. "be devoted to one another in love." - romans 12:10

which one?

2007-10-16 10:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Same girl, new problem... (recomended to check my other questions before answering.)
I need help. I'll start this out by saying that i'm an idiot, I was going to ask her out, but both days (today and yesterday) didn't work out. Yesterday was because I was trying to ditch my stupid friends who were yelling "Alex wants to ask you out!" To her when she was accross the street. She just answered “I love him!” jokingly like she usually does. Followed by "What. It's not like you like her." after I tried to stop them. Then I waited at the place where she asked me to walk with her two or three weeks back. She didn't come. Today it failed because she went the other way because she had something important to attend to. So the problem is that: She seems to be interested in some other guy, I am (was) sure that she was just waiting for me to make the first move after she found out that I like her. Yesterday, we exchanged glances in math about ten times, played basketball with me for a litle while.Today in the morning she saw me talking to my friend in the schoolyard (she was with her cousin) I saw her laugh looking in my direction. She started a conversation about a random subject. Then we exchanged glances a few times in spanish, we were both picked for the “Big Brother Big sister” program along with a few other kids from our class. She looked at me shyly (which is unlike her) biting her lip. The problem is that: she seems to be interested in this other guy in our class. He has a weird name, and she just says it loudly every time she’s talking to him. Today he was making a joke which involved the words “I love you” he said it quietly, and she from the other side of the room yells out “I love you too.” I know I’m making this sound better than it actually is, but it isn’t. Sorry if this was long and a bit confusing, but I need YOUR opinion on this. Should I be worried?

2007-10-16 10:31:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which would you rather go by the name your birth mom gave you or the one your step mom gave you?

2007-10-16 10:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she is same age but in a year above me. she was in my school sport last term and i couldn't stop thinking about her and i still can't can anyone help by advice

Thanks

2007-10-16 10:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by Joshua 5 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl at school i really like...problem is shes a junior and im only a freshman. i see her every day how do i get her to like me

2007-10-16 10:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by Alex K 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for 7 months.

2007-10-16 10:25:16 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was in H.S. I dated a girl for a year, It was my first girlfriend and she wanted to get married. I cared about her very much, but I said I needed to date before I could mary. After months of arguing about it she broke up with me, and two weeks later started dating my best friend. I was crushed, I lost all my friends (we all were in the same group) and I thought about it every day. Now I only think about it once in a while, and I think I'm a lot tougher because of it. But every time I see a couple or talk to my friends that are in a relationship I'm very bitter about it and I hate seeing them togeather, not to mention I haven't had a relationship longer than a few weeks since then (2+yrs ago). Is this normal? Is anyone else out there as bitter as I am when it comes to relationships?

2007-10-16 10:23:20 · 2 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

i am a 38D and i weigh like 127lbs. how can i stop people from sayin that i had work done when that isn't the case

2007-10-16 10:20:27 · 6 answers · asked by KiSs KiSs 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy who´s married a while ago, and he sends me messages with pictures of him, but not with his family. I reply to him amicably but always letting him know that I´m aware that he is married and not pretending anything more I even told him to send me pictures of him and family. What should I do."He sends them as a friend that´s what he said"

2007-10-16 10:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by LA 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out to a club a couple of weeks ago. well, as i was setting with my friends minding my own, when my 50 year old aunt comes in (who is married) with 3 kids & 3 diff. daddy's, was doing her thing with other men. like being felt up and showing body parts. A bit later she was dancing ungodly with guy and she danced over to me and said "you didnt see me here". I said i didnt want to see you here. i was not going to tell her husband....it was none of my business. so i figured it was no big deal to tell my mom because my aunt has done this for yeeeears and they are very close. everyone knows what she does except her husband. i took it she meant no to tell her hubby and i told my mother. now, my mom is mad at her because she was acting like she was about dead "physically". but she was out cutting a rug with a bunch of men. playing my mom like a fiddle. i didnt know this until after i told my mom. my aunt is mad at me. who gives a ****..she is a slut. Was i in the wrong for telling?

2007-10-16 10:15:02 · 23 answers · asked by yoshismom 3 in Family

One of my friends married right as she stepped into leggally marriagable age, under the special marriage act. She did that as she was emotionally black mailed by her boy friend who belongs to a different religion and economic status. Now after many years, she was well settled in life. But she continued obliging to her legal husband becuase of mental torture because of the fact that she had nobody else to confide in. Her parents arranged her marriage with someone of their liking. The marriage took place according to hindu customs and was registered. Which of the two marriages are now valid? How can she nullify the first marriage which she did in unfit mental state?

2007-10-16 10:14:27 · 8 answers · asked by Lavanya Sriram 1 in Marriage & Divorce