Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

ok so this is my crush. he has a gf, but he is so confusing. i wrote him a note a couple of months ago saying im sorry for all the notes i wrote you i hope ur happy i wont bother you again have a great life.....but now he keeps looking at me and watching me and its really weird im trying to get over him but i dont know if he may like me and he and his gf are pretty steady and all and i just want to know what is going on . if you need more info just say it and i will try to give you more

2007-10-16 09:29:11 · 33 answers · asked by angelgal5382 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm the bride, and i have no idea what to do with my hair. It does not hold curl for very long, it's thin, has no body, and is about to my shoulder blade length with a little bit of layers.

Any ideas??? Pictures would be GREAT!!!!

2007-10-16 09:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by Raeanna P 2 in Weddings

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but i freakd out thinking someone would see us. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. the next day i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny yesterday and that i should do it with someone i luv . he said he was sorry and that he hoped i didn't feel used. was he using me/ did he feel rejectd? how should i move past this?

2007-10-16 09:26:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby really wants a 3some. We are still young. Been together for 6 and a half years. And he has always wanted a 3some. I am undecided if I should or not. Even if I agree, how would I even find a someone?

2007-10-16 09:26:20 · 20 answers · asked by angie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you asked a girl to the movies it would be because you like her right?
And if you invited a girl to one of your football games it would be good to??
ha I know it's kind of obveous buts guys confuse me and I need to knoww.

Thanks:]

2007-10-16 09:26:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I just broke up with my boyfriend because I realized that I wasn't ready for the kind of relationship he wanted. I told him that I just wanted to be friends and he told me that he understood. Well he has started dropping hints that he wants to hook back up and he knows how I feel about that. He was all over me the other day when I thought we were going to hang out as friends. I didnt know how to tell him that I havent changed my mind from before. I dont know what to do. Any ideas???

2007-10-16 09:25:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK THIZ IS WAT HAPPENED IM WAS GOING OUT WITH MY BOYFRIEND BUT THEN WE BROKE UP BUT I STILL HELLA LIKED HIM AND WE SITLL TALKED.. BUT THEN A GUY ASKED ME OUT AND WELL I SAI D YES BECAUSE I TOUGHT I WOULD HELP GET OVER MY BOYFRIEND. BUT SOON LATER ON MY EX BOYFRIEND ASKED ME OUT AND WELLI SAID YES AGAIN.... NOW IM TRYING TO BREAK UP WIT THE OTHER ONE BUT I DONT KNOW HOW!!!! SO WAT DO I DO? HOW DO I TELL HIM?

2007-10-16 09:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together since we were 17, so I don't know if the words of the song make sense, because it makes it sound like we were waiting forever for this love, when we were basically each other's first serious bf/gf. What do you think?

2007-10-16 09:24:39 · 11 answers · asked by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 in Weddings

Oviously from the question i have been cheated on recently but he thinks i am over reacting, he did oral with some bimbo and thinks me not wanting to talk to him is a little drastic, so is there any advice?

2007-10-16 09:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by bebegurl 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a teenager and i have had sex....i am only 13 and our condom broke!.....i just went to the doctors and i found out i am pregnant! i am sooooo happy! is this good or bad? my mom already knows and she is wonderfully happy! i feel like having sex again but i dont know if i am doing it wrong or not! please help me! and no RUDE comments about my age!!!!

2007-10-16 09:24:16 · 26 answers · asked by m&m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 09:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Vwgirl18 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I want to get married now and have the public ceremony later. Is that alright?

2007-10-16 09:23:14 · 14 answers · asked by lulu 3 in Weddings

Ladies, Does tf'ing do anything for you?

2007-10-16 09:22:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

including when you're intimate...
By intimate signs I mean:
lots of cuddling when they're not having sex.
looking in her eyes when they have sex.
talking after sex.
things like that.

Are these signs? What else?
What about signs when you're NOT having sex?

2007-10-16 09:22:48 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Our reception and ceremony will be held at the same location(reception inside and ceremony outside.) The inside decor is done in reds, burnt orange, brown etc, and I thought about using a combination of sunflowers, gerber daisies, and lillies as our flowers. Suggestions????

The Venue's Site:
http://www.deercreeklodge.net/gallery/accommodations/index.html

2007-10-16 09:22:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he was abusive to me when drunk for no reason, and i want to finish with him. however i have a soft spot for him and think i would miss him. shall i tell him theres no committment any more. we're just "playmates", not boyfriend + girlfriend

2007-10-16 09:21:56 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I'm going to get chastised for this one, but i've braced myself for wading through the immaturity that might come.. Anyway:

I am a college junior and have an elective class on Human Behavior. For the particular project that I am asking for your help on I am doing 5 seperate sexualtiy tests from a broad range of men and women, in age ranges all the way from 14-65.

That said - This is a very serious question, just simply asking if you shave your private area - Shaven completely, partially (just bottom, just top), trimmed, completely un-touched, or if you do something strange that maybe i've never heard of, i'd like to hear about that too!

Oh boy, here we go...

2007-10-16 09:18:50 · 31 answers · asked by The Peav 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I don't get along any more. Here it is.
1 I'm deeply religious and and my Husband finds great joy in making fun of what I belive. ( i wasn't active when i met him)
2 He works alot, but even when he has days off he goes hiking with out me ( and no I'm not invited).
I don't think he cheats either.
And if hes not hiking hes playing or watching sports.
3 Because he 'works' all the time he won't make love to me. When he does its on his terms and there is a huge lack of intamancy.
OK so why don't I just leave him?
I don't own the cars
I can't get a job ( it would waste the gas in the cars to drive them to work and back) thats his demand
He has control of all the money.
I don't have a family that could support me.
All I want is one of the cars, and enough money to get set up. ( and yes he could afford that but he refuses. Any idea's ( other than being homeless)
And yes we attend councling every month... for the past year

2007-10-16 09:18:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex suddenly came back into my life after years of being apart. He has only just broken up with his long term ex and they are still in touch. Our relationship ended badly years ago and I really want to know if you think it is a rebound or could this work? Anyone been in a similar situation - did it last or will it be the same as before? Also what to do about the ex (do I worry or do nothing)?

2007-10-16 09:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Specifically when the secret isn't anything that would effect your relationship with your spouse but only effects your friend.

Isn't it breaking your promise, if your best friend told you a secret, and you promised not to tell anyone about it, but then you told your husband about it?

2007-10-16 09:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for two yrs now and it still has not change, its actually worse. When I say hello or speak to him he doesnot respond. Won't even tell his father what his issues are. I have never mistreated him in anyway, he just doesnot want to accept me. My boyfriend tells me I must set him straight. and tell him he needs to respect. and donot go out of my way whatsoever... I need help?
Any advice?

2007-10-16 09:13:27 · 9 answers · asked by Teresa 2 in Singles & Dating

So one day, there's a flex day at my high school.

I'm a freshmen currently, and that day, my mom was suppossed to pick me up from school. (Usually my brother does)

So after school that day, I immediately call my mom to see where she was.
...Phone says the line is busy, so I call it again.
Still no response.

After that, I talk to my friends and look out to see if she was anywhere around, but there were so many cars around that I couldn't find her car.
So I call one more time to find out it's still busy.

After that, I just continue talking to my friends, waiting for her to call, but she doesn't.
So eventually she somehow comes behind me, interrupts our conversation and starts yelling and hitting me in front of my friends saying I didn't call..even though I used the right number.
As she pulled me back to her car, my friends yell bye, but I could tell they were gonna laugh while my back was turned..

It was a pretty embarrassing moment to behold.
How do I deal with this

2007-10-16 09:13:25 · 23 answers · asked by Eli 1 in Friends

not that I would use one, I'm just looking for a laugh.

2007-10-16 09:13:06 · 5 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that some of you, NOT ALL, are out their clubbing hard and doing everything the woman YOU DON"T WANT is doing then when you find a decent woman you say "I want to marry her, because she is not out their in the club, she was a good girl" You were not a good guy. What is up w/ that! I had guy who wanted to go out w/ me a long time ago want me for that specific reason, that I wasn't out thier running the streets a lot, but he was and I was like "Why would I want you, you have played every field in the tri-state area? Why would I want a h_e for a husband!" He got offended and couldn't answer. But my co-worker recently said the same thing, and I asked him why? He says he wanted someone who was more pure than the chicks he was messing w/ I said but what woman would want a man who was out their like that. I mean if my current bf was out thier like that when we met I wouldn't have wanted him. So guys answer why some of you do that?

2007-10-16 09:10:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mum thinks my dad is having an affair with one of his old work collegues. I know its not true, but if i tell my mum, she will know i was eavesdropping (accidently). I am 13 and i have an 18 year old sister, and we both would hate it if they got a divorce over this. they argue a bit anyway over things like this.

2007-10-16 09:10:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im in college. I've been on four dates with a girl and known her almost two weeks and weve made out once and kissed goodnight three different times.I know that she likes me, she is the one who originally asked me out. I really like her too and want her to be my gf. I don't want to ask her too early and ruin it, but I also don't want to wait too long and make her think I'm just playing her. Girls would you be upset if you liked me and asked you to be my girlfriend after four dates?

2007-10-16 09:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfried so much! We have been through so much together that i feel like nothing can brake us apart. We use to live together with 2 other roommates (his friends, i should of known better) we got in a fight and he kicked me out!! Well now the other roommates say i'm not allowed in the house because they think we're going to get in a fight one of these times and the cops will be called, He's actually listening to them!! I have a boyfriend who never stands up fo me! I stand up for him all the time and he never does the same... Do you think i'm being 2 sensitive? What do you think? Whenever i say anything to him about he say's "GROW UP, GET OVER IT"

2007-10-16 09:08:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd welcome any viewpoints/suggestions. I've been with the same person over 10 yrs. We have history and love for each other but we're light-yrs apart in our outlooks and interests. We just had a terrible argument and I'm feeling awful. He's been out of a job and was telling me his ideas.. He'd like to open a sporting good store. I started thinking of loans, pros and cons, profit, etc. Then I wondered something else.. If he'd want me to work for him since I'm his mate. I said, "Do you expect me to work for you?" maybe not the best words but he flew off the handle. I support him but I'm not really into sports so it's hard for me to get enthused about these things. He remarked that I only care about art, poetry, and music. Well, I know about that and have a passion for that. I was only saying if I quit my current job, it will have to for something I have a passion for. Is that so bad? I work, pay all bills, do my best and I feel worthless in this relationship. I can't live on ESPN.

2007-10-16 08:59:48 · 24 answers · asked by javagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Michigan. got served divorse papers today, can't afford an attorney and don't qualify for free advice. got married 10 years ago,had a child and due to myself being abused left after 3 years. We stayed married because he said he would on day inherit money and after 10 years that is a reality as his father has passed. Now I get served and he wants to, get his, have his child support lowered from $109 a month and my child doesn't get any of this inheritence. What do I do? I don't want his money but want my child support. He has hidden his money from the court and says there is none.

2007-10-16 08:57:13 · 7 answers · asked by whata waste 7 in Marriage & Divorce

As opposed to women from other countries/cultures. What is your opinion? And please no silly male and female bashing. only good thoughtful answers kindly.
I am an american born from persian decsent and have been told this from many people, mostly Iranians though, who some have happened to marry americans and mostly ended up divorcing.
A female barber told me yesterday that the worst iranian girl is better than the best american one for MARRIAGE. Of course she was exagerating but she sought to get the general idea across.

2007-10-16 08:55:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships