Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

There is this guy i've liked on and off for about 3 years. I am pretty sure he likes me only because when he drunk he calls me and flirts a lot, and when he is drunk he tells me just about anything and how he is feeling, where as when he is not drunk he is very reserved. and my room mate, who is also his friend told me, when he was home during the summer, he asked her if i had a boyfriend. He is in the Marines and has a little under 2 years left. He is leaving to go back to iraq in march. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel.

2007-10-16 10:13:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jalana 4 in Singles & Dating

okay i need to do a poll. i really need 100 answers and this requires a one word answer, so please it won't take long, just answer.

are you in a relationship? or single?
just put "relationship" or "single"
thanks

2007-10-16 10:12:38 · 69 answers · asked by krista♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 10:09:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 10:08:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cool
quiet
age
height
weight
personality
anything

2007-10-16 10:07:50 · 11 answers · asked by Stephen S 1 in Singles & Dating

First no RUDE answers! It's a long story so u wouldn't know so quit acting smart like you do. There's a love of my life. But I don't know what to do, how to deal. Like I said, it's a long story. I acted dumb many times. " I'm afraid once your heart is involved it all comes out in moron." So true. And "Sometimes our strongest fears of intimacy only surface when we find someone we truly love — and who truly loves us. This is one of Cupid’s cruelest ironies to be sure, but it happens all the time. Probably because when we find something great, we worry so much about losing it." So true. So I don't know how to act, normal, like nothing ever happened? I'm a realistic, factual person. I'm a thinker, I know it's not like that, and I worry. So I can't act like nothing happened because I know it did. So what do I do? How do I deal?

2007-10-16 10:07:46 · 1 answers · asked by samantha wilson 2 in Singles & Dating

by that i mean, your crush, who would that crush be?

2007-10-16 10:07:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do bra's effect the size of a girl's breast? Like if she is wearing one versus not wearing one? I'm not even talking about push up bras or anything just a regular bra.

When we had homecoming her breasts looked a lot smaller than normal and i noticed that she wasn't wearing a bra... will this effect the appearance?

Just a little confused on this.. Serious answers please... thanks!

2007-10-16 10:03:32 · 51 answers · asked by Mr. Expecto 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been thinking alot lately, mostly about how much I want to be married/get married. I know, however, that it won't happen anytime soon. My boyfriend is in college and won't get out for another 5 years or so & he wants to be financially stable enough to afford the wedding we both want. That's fine with me, except that I'm impatient. I was thinking about getting married in the courthouse and having the big wedding later on down the road. Another reason for this being that we're living together when he's home from school and I have this thing about not wanting to live together before marriage, a religious thing. So what do you think? How much do they cost? If you've done this, how does it go? Haha! Also, what date do you qualify as your anniversary. The day you got married in the courthouse, or the big to do wedding? Let me know. I'm just gathering info at this point. Thanks for the help.

2007-10-16 10:03:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiance and I havent been getting along very well lately...he is gone on an out of town trip with seven other co-workers (male and female)...he called while ago and said he got to where he was supposed to be and now he has to go work again...he said to not call his cell bc he is leaving it plugged up to get charged in his room while he's gone (which he has never done) and he'll call me around 9:00 ish...am i overreacting by thinking hes up to no good or does it sound fishy to you too????

2007-10-16 10:02:02 · 31 answers · asked by gracey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was not with her. The affair was on a company trip in Cancun 2003. She was the companies event coordinator and she hooked up with resorts event cordinator. Something was strange when she came home, after a couple of weeks I put a key logger on the computer. D-day.

We have managed, moved ahead as well as possible. He sends her emails on birthdays I have found out. She and her sorority sisters from 15 years ago are going a cruise. It stops in Cancun. Should I say no? It does bother me, she knows it. But all her girl friends from all over the US knows she has the time and money and she really wants to see them.

2007-10-16 09:58:39 · 50 answers · asked by Brightside 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 09:56:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not too sure what it is but I feel so nervous when I try getting with a girl I like. Sometimes I feel like I dont look good enough or that I dont have enough experience. But should it really matter how I look?

2007-10-16 09:54:56 · 3 answers · asked by CKO 2 in Singles & Dating

This friday there is a Halloween party and there is going to be a guy that i like there. but on the same night i also made plans to see my ex. i still love him very much and i dont want to let him go so i want to see him. But also the guy at the party is absoulty gorgeous not to be shallow but he is. He is really shy and quiet but i just dont know where to go on friday ! wheere should i go. should i see the ex of the new boy???

2007-10-16 09:52:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 years old my 5'3" and my mom is 5'7" and my dad is 5' 9" how tall will I get by the age of 20

2007-10-16 09:51:49 · 28 answers · asked by Devonte C 1 in Family

my boyfriend 2 yrs younger, never been married, doesn't have kids. however i already have 2 kids, 10 and 15 yrs old from a previous marriage. i feel like i am just getting my life back. i love my man and I would have another baby to keep him happy, but am i too old? i look quite young for my age, i exercise and take care of my self, but mentally, im not sure i could cope with another baby....help

I asked him what if I get pregnant? and he said, ohhhh I'm not ready, but, yes, someday I would like children.

2007-10-16 09:51:26 · 21 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i read and hear so often that the new spouse usually says, his/her ex is crazy, no good, cheated, only wants money and so on. but when you ask, how they know, its usually: he/she told me all about it. now i am not saying you should doubt your partner, but arent there often two sides of the story? anyways, does it make the new spouse feel better about themselves to talk bad about the ex ? and cant they understand if they were left behind for someone else they might act exact the same way as the ex? opinions?

2007-10-16 09:50:58 · 14 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Why dont women wear pantyhose anymore?? Other then being uncomfortable is there other reasons that women dont, would you wear them if you would get compliments from guys on a daily basis??

2007-10-16 09:50:05 · 30 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, thanks to all that answered my previous question about the shower. My next question is what should I do for the bachlorette party. The BRIDE specifically asked that NO alcohol &/or strippers be involved. This is what I was thinking....Getting together at the pizza place for a dinner, then going to the movies to see a sappy chick flick, then on to Karaoke at the bowling alley here in town. On friday nights after 10pm they close the doors to any persons under the age of 16, so a bunch of little kids wont be running around. Also, they turn out the lights and light up the lanes with neon lights. So I thought we could karaoke and bowl. Also, they have a party room that can be reserved and with it comes 2-4 bowling lanes, so we wont have to be waiting around. The other maids don’t really care for this idea either. They have suggested we blindfold her, and take her to a strip club. I think that would really P**S her off, though. Any other ideas of something fun we could do.

2007-10-16 09:49:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean anything. From your own husband of course.

2007-10-16 09:48:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 09:48:30 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some people say true love is a fight. Others say it should be easy and effortless. What do you think?

2007-10-16 09:45:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on a date on friday. The girl told me at the beginning of the date that she woke up feeling poor that day, but she wanted to come to dinner with me. The date went really well so I asked her what she was doing the rest of the night. She said she was headed home cuz she still didn't feel well, and asked what i was doing. I said I don't know, I would have bought u a movie if you were feeling allright, I then tried to bite my tounge off in my mouth without making it obvious so I wouldn't say anything else stupid. How much damage did I do?

2007-10-16 09:42:17 · 6 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

i am a freshman and this person is a senior but they are one of my best friends and i just need some help on how to approach the subject and then ask them. (i am a fairly shy person)

2007-10-16 09:40:19 · 4 answers · asked by olivier e 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21 yrs old. Ive been on four dates with a girl. Weve made out and weve also snuggled and watched tv. Guys would you ask this girl to be your girlfriend at this point or wait longer and if so,how would you ask her?

2007-10-16 09:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since I moved (August 1st) i had an extremely hard time adjusting to the new area.I'm sure this is normal...

The first day of school was horrible.Im in my sophmore year of highschool; and am normally a social person,but comming in knowing no one was hard.
I was overly upset the first week of school , crying every day ;
but then the first weekend of school , i kinda just sat and just thought about everything
i relized crying was pointless/useless ,and i should beable to handle everything...
Im not able to talk to anybody HERE about how im feeling ,and all of my old friends seem to be getting farther.
If i call them , i dont want to have to fill them in with all my problems. I thought i could just handle it, venting wasnt needed
Now It feels like... i cant feel anymore?
When i want to cry ,i cant.
Its like.. im unable to get upset?
All my feelings seem the same
Im just kinda';numb,and have been this way
I think i need help
is there any advice?I could use anything.Ty

2007-10-16 09:36:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for about 7 months now... i recently had a miscarriage. he has two young children. his ex is crazy.. he has custody of his children. i have not met the children yet.. that cant happen until the divorce is over. he filed for divorce, before we met, and i met him through the court system somehow along the way. he is everything i have ever wanted in a man. he is also 10 years my elder. he was there for me through my 10 week pregnancy and he wants to spend his life with me and try to have a baby after his divorce... am i crazy for wanting to be with someone with so much baggage? I know he is the one for me, granted I am still young. we want to wait til money is right and the divorce is totally settled.. but everyone says i am making a mistake.. but i cant help who i am in love with

2007-10-16 09:35:37 · 19 answers · asked by Elizabeth33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Always look at you and when they look at you they look in your eyes? He acts nervous around me, and we hardly talk but he always looks in my eyes when I see him. I always catch him looking at me.

2007-10-16 09:31:44 · 33 answers · asked by blue 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not sure if I'm sexually into my husband anymore!?! I never get arouse or want to have sex, he asks me constantly if I love him, or if I'm cheating on him. Which I do love him, and I would never cheat on him. Our sex life is so predictable and always goes basically his way...I don't know. I just can't help but think if there is a problem or if this is marriage. HA

2007-10-16 09:31:03 · 23 answers · asked by Leigh08 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I loved my friend
He went away from me
There's nothing more to say
The poem ends soft as it began -
I loved my friend.
i didnt know how much i loved him.2 and half years ago he loved me but i was looking for my soul mate! i didnt know he was the one.i ignored him.never looked back and never let him talk.i asked him to forgive me and he did after these years.but he has got a fiance and soon they'll be married.its too late now.what can i do to forget him? i need him so bad but no way.i need to talk please help me

i dont want to ruin his happiness but it could be me instead of her.im so depresed and sorry.
im happy that he forgave me.but i still love him

2007-10-16 09:30:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce