This friday there is a Halloween party and there is going to be a guy that i like there. but on the same night i also made plans to see my ex. i still love him very much and i dont want to let him go so i want to see him. But also the guy at the party is absoulty gorgeous not to be shallow but he is. He is really shy and quiet but i just dont know where to go on friday ! wheere should i go. should i see the ex of the new boy???
2007-10-16 09:52:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps.
I broke up with my ex because i thought i he didnt care about me. but when i did he has tried every way to get back with me
2007-10-16 10:06:16 · update #1
The ex is an ex for a reason. Go with the new opportunity. Ask your ex if he is free another night. Don't lie and say you are sick or whetever, he will find out. Just say you made plans with your girl friend to go somewhere and you forgot you made plans with her. He should be cool with that, guys are usually easy going on the plans. Just pick another night for your ex.
Don't come on too strong with the new guy. Just smile and say "hi" make light convo, then walk away casually and let him come back to chat with you- guys like to go after you a little. If you are all in his face he will run away, so be friendly but then play shy and let him come to talk with you.
2007-10-16 09:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by sentfromheaven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is....why is your ex your ex ?
Then I would ask... are you sure you want to try starting up something with someone else while you still have feelings for the ex ???
If I were you, I'd make other plans with the ex for another time, and go to the party to give the new guy a chance.
2007-10-16 09:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Carol K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew why you and your ex split up....it would help me give you better advice. But, mostly an ex is an ex because things went bad or didn't work out. So, if that be the case, then you should definetly go for the new guy. If you must, reschedule another time for your ex. But, if things ended bad or for a bad reason, you should just move on and get over him.
2007-10-16 10:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by jillybean5415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u broke up with the ex move on
unless u have feelings for him still
if u just think that the other guy is hot and thats all
then i wouldnt get in a serious relationship with him
i would say go to the party but thats just me cuz if i broke up with im there was a reason and i dont wanna go back there again
but its all ur decision
2007-10-16 09:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the ex, he already had his turn. Seriously like I could write up a bunch of crap, but why do you want to live in the past when the future is so bright? Take a chance with the new guy.
2007-10-16 09:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Carley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unconditional, if you do love your Ex the suggestionof spending time with someone else besides him alone would be out of the questions. You may not realise but you should move on, give things a go with this new guy. Your Ex blew it Gurlfrend!
2007-10-16 11:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't be to long at the car showroom
do you want the old classic gets you to where you want to go
after a few knocks about the block
or the new sporty model that could be a dream or a nightmare to drive
still why don't you take a test drive in them both
but not at the same time
the sports car for party's the classic for the weekend
2007-10-16 09:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the party - a new friend has alot more potential and becides, I believe once an ex, always an ex.
2007-10-16 09:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does ur ex wants to see you or does he know you will be there also? If your ex knows you will be there, perhaps its your chance to sort out things between you and him. About the new guy, it depends if you will give him a chance to be with you. Think a lot girl befoer going to the party even if we give you advice its up to you to whom you will go.
2007-10-16 10:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by chuminera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are tempted by the new guy then you obviously don't really want your ex...You may not wind up in a relationship with the new guy either, but since you thought about it you are ready to move on....
2007-10-16 09:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋