Im 21 yrs old. Ive been on four dates with a girl. Weve made out and weve also snuggled and watched tv. Guys would you ask this girl to be your girlfriend at this point or wait longer and if so,how would you ask her?
2007-10-16 09:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not ask her...that sounds like asking someone to "go steady" in high school. Keep showing a lot of interest and keep asking her out and start hanging out in just casual ways so that she know you like to spend a lot of time with her, not just dates. She will get the idea. If she wants to date you exclusively, then that is what she will do, naturally. If she does not want to date you exclusively, well there is not much you can do. Eventually, maybe after two or three months, you might tell her about your strong feelings, if they are there, and mention that you would like to see this be a longer term relationship. If she accepts, that does mean exclusivity.
2007-10-16 09:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... u should try to ask her at a time like at a romantic dinner or a movie at ur house or her house or something like that. Just say it real casually. Like when u r really comfortable when she is leaning on u or when u 2 are staring into each others eyes or something. If u dont want to, than ask her whenever u want. Hope this helps :)
2007-10-16 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Avery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not a guy my self but hey if u like her just go 4 it no harm done uv made out and have been intermate with this person and not to metion 4 dates as if 4 dates isn't enough just be a man and ask her out. GOOD LUCK.
2007-10-16 16:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by stunning Moss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to ask her... because there's a way that you could make her ask you. If you're interested, send me a message. I'm done teaching this to guys so openly yet, ppl still ask the same type of questions.
2007-10-17 05:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by flygoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to lock her down to one guy? then you better talk about the future. if you want to play the field, wait till she brings it up.
2007-10-16 16:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Moores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i know i'm not a guy, but DON'T DO IT. wait. if you rush things and shes not to that point yet, you'll scare her away!
2007-10-16 16:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... ask her!
2007-10-16 16:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Heather. Love. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her man!!!!!!
2007-10-16 16:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋