How can i move on my Ex BF? helpppppp me?

Question

I loved my friend
He went away from me
There's nothing more to say
The poem ends soft as it began -
I loved my friend.
i didnt know how much i loved him.2 and half years ago he loved me but i was looking for my soul mate! i didnt know he was the one.i ignored him.never looked back and never let him talk.i asked him to forgive me and he did after these years.but he has got a fiance and soon they'll be married.its too late now.what can i do to forget him? i need him so bad but no way.i need to talk please help me

i dont want to ruin his happiness but it could be me instead of her.im so depresed and sorry.
im happy that he forgave me.but i still love him

Answer 1

You lose, thats about all there is to say. Sorry, you just need to move on.

Answer 2

Love and life are two wonderful things. But no matter how wonderful they are, they sometimes make us miserable more often than we'd like. Only YOU can answer your question and only YOU have the solution. I can say anything and everything to make you feel better but the bottom line is, YOU have to take it upon yourself to pull yourself out of that little rut you've dug yourself into.
From what you have said, it sounds like he has moved on. Two and a half years is, I think, long enough. Stop punishing yourself. How do you expect other guys to notice you when you're mulling over your ex-boyfriend? If you keep going on like that, the only thing you will attract is more negativity and I am pretty sure you don't want that!
Now get off your butt, pretty yourself up and go out.. have fun.. meet other people.

Oh and don't worry about the soulmate thing. Your soulmate doesn't necessarily have to be your lover, boyfriend or husband. If indeed he is your soulmate, both of you will know and feel it. Don't force the idea. For all you know, he might not be the one at all.

Answer 3

Find some help, of the Professional variety.

There is no answer to 'how do I go about forgetting someone.' You can no more 'forget someone' whilst you are busily 'trying' to forget someone.

It's a silly an impossible thing to try to do.

People often say, 'I need Him / Her because they make me feel ~ this / that etc.'

No they don't, they don't MAKE you feel anything ~ unless they stand on your toes or poke you in the eye. You feel whatever you feel because ~ as it were ~ in that person you find yourself a key to able to be all the things that you want to be / feel.

Do NOT make the mistake of 'making this other person responsible for what / how / the way you feel.' It's not fair of you, not fair to him and it's your ignoring your own responsibilities to yourself.

You made the mistake you can now see clearly, and it hurts. I understand that only too easily, and you are paying the price for it, and that I can relate to very easily too. But, if you let it stop there in regretting and continually asking for help from here, then you are going to spend a lot of time regurgitating the same old question ~ and reading a lot of silly stupid and uncaring answers.

You acknowledge that he has someone else in his life, good. What you also have to acknowledge is those things you now see in yourself ~ the values that you give to what you disposed of, and learn from them and your lesson in this.

To do this, please go find yourself Profession Help.

Good Luck.
Sash.

Answer 4

sometimes life is a ***** because we have to learn something and that is the only way we learn, by heartache. You love what he was then, perhaps what he is now, but he has moved on and now you must as well. There is someone out there for you and now you have learned to not let him escape this time, so when you do find him, the love will be more than what you are feeling now and the rewards much greater. Try to get out and meet new people - perhaps the one for you will be one of them - and do new things to learn about yourself and you may meet him that way, but if you keep looking back you will miss all that is in front of you and that is where your future happiness is. Good Luck to you!!

Answer 5

I don't think you can move on with him.....he's already in love with someone that he's goin to marry and it took you a long time to realize that you love him but after 2 and half years you can't expect him to love you becuz first you pushed him away and now you want him....i don't wanna sound mean but jus let him be happy....you can't control who you love and things change with time.....he has moved on and i am sure you weren't waitin for him for the past 2 and half years so it would be better if you leave him alone and jus be happy that he forgave you

Answer 6

Move on.. and stop blaming yourself, no need to cry over spilled milk. Maybe you guys are not meant for each other. Its hard to forget someone most esp you guys had memories to cherish but remember no wounds that time cant heal. Wish your Ex BF his happiness. Have a positive outlook in life. Just put in you mind that you are beautiful, young and vibrant person. And you deserve someone else, much better one. and try meeting someone... also

Answer 7

There is no need to forget your ex surely ?
Things just didnt work out ?
thats all?Hes moved on....... found a lady & is getting married.
You too can move on get discovered by a nice guy get engaged get married .~~such is life ....we win some ~~we lose some!( we cannot win every time~~now can we??)
good luck!!

Answer 8

You have to get some help in dealing with this, otherwise you might end up doing something that you will regret soon.
If your ex is happy and content with his actual relationship and he has moved on, you should too.

Answer 9

look try going on dates and stuff if you love him you will let him be happy get out and about with freinds ect and you will meet omeone else that is best advice I can give

Answer 10

I suspect you'll only move on when you're ready BUT, you only live each moment once, so GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE (for your own sake!!)

Answer 11

You need to move on and find a new man. I recommend you go out tonight, get drunk, and wake up lying next to a stranger, whose name you can't remember.