Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

No, perverted answers please. I catch her doing this and sometimes it is arousing for me, but if she wakes up she denies it.

2007-10-16 08:05:35 · 18 answers · asked by Opps 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres the deal for quiet some time I have expected of my husband having a fling with his bosses wife...On Tuesday's her husband isnt at the shop ...she works on Tuesday and my husband is there of coarse....its just a small town mechanic_ shop tire shop.He has come home periodically and had lunch here or picked me up and brought me back to the shop with him just so that I could get out of the house. well today I ask if he could come and get me and I would take the truck and wash it and detail it and he has gone balistic on me coming up with excuses why he cant come and get me.You ladies already know that because it's Tuesday and they are there alone thatit is F*C*I*G with my head..I and my sick thinking knows what is going on or he wouldnt be so defencive and trying to say that nothing is happening..ok I know yall are gonna let me vent and have a bad hair day...any advice.I am really angry right at this moment..
4 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-10-16 07:53:54 · 14 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I was the one that found the porn on my mums computer that my bf of 2 years had been looking at, it popped up again so I decided to delete it all and do a full search as an 11 year old uses this computer and I did not want her to come across it as easily as I did. and he has been watching fisting videos?! this actually makes me physically sick, I am crying I feel so repulsed by him. the worst part is this whole time he has told me he hates these movies etc etc. I have looked at porn so I am not a prude, but I did it when I was single and I did not get turned on by fisting. this is driving me nuts, I know I cant talk to him about it because he will just tell me how I need to get my own life and stop controlling his (it happens everytime we have an argument, wether it is him in the wrong or me) and I cant be bothered saying sorry for my feelings. is this the last straw? I love him to bits but I dont want to feel sick!

2007-10-16 07:53:33 · 14 answers · asked by chipped finger nails 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I have a problem with my sex life. I have a friend that I just adore and everytime we have sex it feels like the very first time, ever. I don't have sex often because of my busy schedule and when I do it hurts, it feels like I'm a virgin. It don't just hurt me it hurt him also, what do I do???

2007-10-16 07:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy BA 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the MOH for my friend who is getting married in 2 weeks. Well this past weekend she had her bridal shower hosted by Me. Guest list included all 3 BM, both moms, 2 sis, 2 cousins, and 5 women from her work. (She gave me a list of women to chose from) With me & bride a total of 16 women. We had a "classy luncheon" at my home. 4 round tables completely decorated outdoors, grilled chicken breast salad and non-acholic shower drinks, a cake, several games/prizes, favors, and gifts for the bride. It lasted about 3 1/2 hours. It seemed as though everyone had a great time including the bride. Now however she is complaining because when she asked what we will be doing for the bachlorette party I told her I was unable to host it for her. I asked if she wanted a shower with the girls/mothers or a night out she said she wanted something with the mothers. Hence, I went for the shower. I can't afford to give a bachlorette party too. I spent over 300, on the shower....

2007-10-16 07:47:13 · 35 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1 in Weddings

sometimes i like this guy and he says i hate you and takes my pen or makes fun of me and i know it can be flirting and i want to show that i hate you but i love you at the sam time to who i want to be my boyfriend any tips?

2007-10-16 07:46:51 · 2 answers · asked by h-rexasorus 2 in Singles & Dating

Plz help advice on dating

2007-10-16 07:46:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 07:45:00 · 24 answers · asked by MODERATTO 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 07:44:37 · 44 answers · asked by smitha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you feel????? He rubbed my friends back right in front of me and her husband, but she asked him(my hubby) to. Don't you think he would have asked her husband and not mine???

2007-10-16 07:43:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I have been with this guy for 2 years+ we were engaged and i have gone through hell with him... from cheating to drugs to drinkin.. i stood by his side as he overcame these demons.. Ok well latley he's been working cutting wood and seling wood for winter all day he'll leave at 8am and i won;t see him till 8pm.. ok i understand but he don't even act like he misses me he works all weekend.. never offers me to go with him. he never wants to spend time with me. (unless its for sex) if i even offer to hang out.. something comes up and he has to "work" he's always abusing me emotionally and i feel like nothing to him.. so i left him today.. was that the right choice is he going to change?? or am i just gonna sit here and hope he calls and says sorry??

2007-10-16 07:42:22 · 12 answers · asked by panther 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do people always expect relationships to take care of themselves?

Just as you have to work at your career to succeed or work on your body to have a good figure, you also must work on your relationship to have a good one. Don't take things for granted, put in your effort, and you'll be rewarded.

Attention is flattering. Put in the work.

2007-10-16 07:40:30 · 10 answers · asked by csucdartgirl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

A somewhat new friend of mine seems to think that even though I have a bf, he can still protest his feelings for me every now and then (which is actually every we talk, mainly at college). He feels that he is just being my friend, but still leaving room open for other possibilities.

The thing is, I don't want to hear all that. I have a bf and not really cool with him saying certain things. I also imagine that my bf wouldn't really like that because I would feel weird about him having a girl friend who kept saying these kind of things to him, as well.

So although I've told the guy that I have a bf, and that I'm not really open for certain kinds of talk, he still brings it into the convo at some point. He's a nice guy, but I can't be comfortable when I feel like a person has other intentions behind their words....

What should I say/do please?

2007-10-16 07:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Miss.Understanding 3 in Singles & Dating

Ladies do most of you prefer the nice guy. (dosent like to argue, passive, not really into sports, gentleman, smart, opens your car door) or do you prefer the tough guy (aggressive, outgoing, loves sports, still dosent like to argue but isnt passive when has aggression aimed his way, puts you in your place when out of line).

P.S. just listed some not all of there characteristics.

2007-10-16 07:35:08 · 40 answers · asked by kknumber8 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to this guy since oct 5th, we have fooled around a few times, he calls me almost everyday since we have met, we havent been out on a date or anything just going to his house watching tv, having drinks, or going to his moms house while he cooks, this past sunday went over to his mothers house watched football games and then went to his house and watched more tv, well i went home and he went to his mothers house to check on her for the rest of the night (she just had surgery and cant walk) well he called me once he got home to let me know he made it home safely. I am attracted to him and hes the kinda guy i can see myself with, but how do i know if he wants more from me than friends with benefits, i should ask him but its to early since we only know one another for a week. How do i know it will be more or is it more already and i just dont see the light?

2007-10-16 07:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my GF for over 2 years. We always said we loved each other and everything seemed great. Suddenly out of the blue she says She doesnt feel love anymore and that she doesnt know what she wants. She wants to go out and have fun and maybe meet other guys..then she says no she doesnt want other guys but she doesnt know what she wants. She wants to try and work it out, and for us to be together. She wants me to wait until she figures things out and see if that love will come back. Its insanely hard on me because I always love her and Its hard for me to not say I love you to her, and its even harder knowing that I love her so much but she doesnt love me back. How am I supposed to deal with this? Its affecting everything I do everyday.. all I can think about is if she is going to leave me all of a sudden or if she will love me again. Any suggestions?

2007-10-16 07:32:15 · 15 answers · asked by myoo2182 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 07:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't particulary care for their work ethics but they are the cheapest and they do good work, if you can get them to work. Well, anyway, a few days ago, I was watching them work. There are 2 of them. One of them was on a ladder and he asked 'what are you doing'? I said 'just watching you, that's all'
he said 'you're looking at my butt aren't you? huh? That's sexual harrassment." so I laughed with this disgusting type of laugh and walked away.So then a few days later,they were late showing up. I called this guys cell phone and told him ''what's going on" You were do at 9am and its now 9:45. Where are you?" I left my number and hung up.In less than 2 min they were here. Appox an hr or so after that, the same guy comes up to me and says "you gotta stop calling me and leaving those sexual messages" Again a disgusting laugh and I said "in your dreams" He walked away and has never said anything else.
I have EXTREMLEY careful since then not too look or speak to him,what do you think?

2007-10-16 07:30:37 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs J 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i calm these feelings?

2007-10-16 07:30:11 · 34 answers · asked by FreezingCold:( 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister is going out of town later this week and my whole family wants to go to the airport to drop her off. The exact date of the flight is not known yet (due to some complications; long story) and my friend is also having a party this weekend. I have already told my friend, I don't know if I can make it due to this whole situation but I haven't gotten a response yet (I sent her messages on her voice mail, and e-mails about it.) I'm wondering if she'll be mad at me for not showing up. What should I do? Family comes first, and my sister is going for a pretty long time, a year or two at least, so I want to go to the airport to drop her off with the rest of my family. I know that friends I can see again through out the next few years.

2007-10-16 07:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, this is not meant to be sick, but I just want to compare to what people i know say... If you could perform oral on yourself, would you?

2007-10-16 07:27:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend told me that i couldnt sing! it really hurt! other people say that i am a really good singer! idk what to do! is she just jeleous? srry i cant spell. still she said it meanly and it hurt!!!

2007-10-16 07:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by no name 1 in Friends

They are so unhappy together and have tried to resolve it for years, but go round in circles. He's working mega long hours to be away from her.
I have just started working with a lovely person and I commented that she'd be great with my friend - the conversation evolved and it turns out she knows this bloke well. So now I have two friends, one married to him and one who really likes him alot, and I have kind of told my colleague that his marriage is on the rocks.
How do I handle this?!!

2007-10-16 07:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by jo :) 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf...we been in relationship from about 6 months...initially he was so caring and loving..but now from about 2-3 weeks..i'm feeling as if he is not loving me the way he used to do before..
me and my mom lives alone...and i don't have friends too...so many a times it happen that i really get down and low when i don't get the expected response from my bf..because he's the only one with whom i share all the stuff....and also i don't know..whether it has happened coincidentally that whenever i needed him really...he was never there...and since i don't have friends ..i'm not able to to get rid of certain things running through my mind.....i don't know what to do...i want my bf to have his own enough space but on the other side i want him to be with me too most of the time...as he'll be leaving for australia soon....what i expect is he should spend more time with me
....sometimes i feel as if i'm going wrong and not giving my bf enough space....but really i cant get over lonliness

2007-10-16 07:25:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you're a wedding planner do you get 10% of the total wedding cost...and if so, if it is a $100,000 wedding do you refer to the account as a $10,000 account b/c that is what YOU are making or is a $100,000 account?

2007-10-16 07:24:18 · 3 answers · asked by ladylove 3 in Weddings

I'm not sure if they do this everywhere, but where I come from, during the grand march, the bridesmaids and groomsmen usually wear something that represents things the bride and groom like. As an example: If the groom likes hunting all the bridesmaids wear camouflage or orange vests and if the bride is a nurse, all the groomsmen wear scrubs. These are over the top of their dresses/tuxes.

I am in a wedding this weekend and we are trying to come up with something for us to wear during the grand march. We're trying to keep it cheap also. Some of the interests of the couple: they have a black lab dog, he works on cars and pours concrete, she's a nurse (but we're not sure if we can find scrubs big enough for some of the guys), they both like to drink (he drinks Jim Beam and she mostly drinks Bud Light), she's not really a girly girl, they are in a dart league, and I can't really think of anything else right now.

Keep in mind this has to be something that we can wear. Thanks!

2007-10-16 07:23:38 · 4 answers · asked by spiriteyes1350 2 in Weddings

when a guy keeps saying that you,ve done something to him because he has never felt or acted a certain way in his life,what does he really mean?

2007-10-16 07:23:28 · 25 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Singles & Dating

Why are there so many women out there complaining about women being "objectify" when there are already stuff out there for women? Male strip club, play girl magazine etc..etc..? That basically even it out.

I mean, you never hear us Men whine and complain about being objectify.

2007-10-16 07:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hello, please help me, am into a lot of unhappiness. mine is an arranged marriage, my husband is sweet to me most of the times. however, he had confided in me about a chinese girl he fell in love with. he did not have an affair with her, but had been to a movie. He enjoyed her company a lot and fell in love with her without realising it. When people started noticing them talking most of the time ( theyw ere collegues, but she is not here anymore) he realised he's gone far though no marriage was possible between them. So, before it became an affair( ie a formal announcement/ crossing the limits) he moved away. she did try to make things work, but he dint show much response only because he could not marry her( he is frm a traditional family, and he believes in rituals and family a lot too). He told me though he did love her, its past and its over, and i am the only one he cares for in his life. I felt it was reasonable, and was happy with him. This girl mailed once after our marriage ,

2007-10-16 07:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 07:20:21 · 35 answers · asked by Mrs. Tarrant 1 in Weddings