ok heres the deal for quiet some time I have expected of my husband having a fling with his bosses wife...On Tuesday's her husband isnt at the shop ...she works on Tuesday and my husband is there of coarse....its just a small town mechanic_ shop tire shop.He has come home periodically and had lunch here or picked me up and brought me back to the shop with him just so that I could get out of the house. well today I ask if he could come and get me and I would take the truck and wash it and detail it and he has gone balistic on me coming up with excuses why he cant come and get me.You ladies already know that because it's Tuesday and they are there alone thatit is F*C*I*G with my head..I and my sick thinking knows what is going on or he wouldnt be so defencive and trying to say that nothing is happening..ok I know yall are gonna let me vent and have a bad hair day...any advice.I am really angry right at this moment..
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2007-10-16 07:53:54 · 14 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get down there and then write and tell us what happened.
2007-10-16 08:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop by on Tuesday and surprise him, watch his reaction and perhaps hers as well. If it's business as usual take note and then perhaps stop by every other Tues at different times of the day and go from there.
If it's impossible to get there suggest that he come home on Tuesday every so often and see what he says. If it continues then hint that you are puzzled as to why all of a sudden every Tuesday seems to be the days that are just too busy to come home. Perhaps say something like " You know if I didn't have complete trust in you I would think that your having an affair or something..." and watch his reaction. All in all you should see changes in your husbands reactions, his personality, his appearance, if he becomes more irritable or isn't in the mood often or especially on Tuesdays. If nothing has changed much then he might be innocent or he might just have no conscience.
Are you sure there is something going on or are you just reading into something or creating your own version of events.
2007-10-16 08:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just show up there unannounced? Don't you have a friend that you can call for a ride if you don't have a vehicle? Maybe at lunchtime? Either to catch them in the act or put your mind at ease.
I would think if your man isn't having an affair with the bosses wife, perhaps he thinks you will make an a** of yourself to her and he thinks he needs to keep the two of you apart so his job isn't put on the line? Just a thought....
2007-10-16 08:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by peggy m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are making some huge leaps without much proof! Have a friend stop by the shop to see what is going on or better yet, go to lunch with a friend and both of you stop by next Tuesday.
2007-10-16 08:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by NeeNee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
aww sweetheart..if you have another car then you could always just show up at his work...yet if you dont have another car maybe get a ride without telling him your coming? you will probably have to catch him in the act to know the truth...and like the old saying goes...if you think he's cheating he probably is...but some of us have overactive imaginations (like me!) but it sounds like i would be doing some research and kickin some major A**!! and why would the bosses WIFE be coming in alone? especially with your husband there...where is the boss at? i wonder if HE thinks something is going on...hmmm....honey i wish you luck...and i really hope nothing is going on with him...
2007-10-16 08:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u really need to go there on Tuesday sometime, in spite of what he says, if he put up such a battle u know why. there is something going on that he doesn't want u to see, u have every right to be angry.
2007-10-16 07:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you know that something is going on between your husband and the boss's wife....why don't you confront him? Go to the shop and catch them in the act....even if you have to call a cab...
2007-10-16 07:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
can you find your own way down their? If you can that is what i would do . One way or the other you will know something bye the time you leave . Good luck and i wish you the best
2007-10-16 07:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds suspect to me. He might be seriously thinking about it and just hasn't acted on it. Or he's done stuff with her and hasn't sealed the deal. Or he's cheating already.
2007-10-16 08:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know hes cheatin get for real go down there and get angry with both of em! Cheaters are losers and i hate em!!!!!
2007-10-16 07:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
when he comes home act all horny and offer him that thing all guys want. if he refuses then you know something is up. because no man who has not had sex in the last 3 hours can refuse oral from his woman.
2007-10-16 08:09:15 · answer #11 · answered by rainboy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋