Ladies do most of you prefer the nice guy. (dosent like to argue, passive, not really into sports, gentleman, smart, opens your car door) or do you prefer the tough guy (aggressive, outgoing, loves sports, still dosent like to argue but isnt passive when has aggression aimed his way, puts you in your place when out of line).
P.S. just listed some not all of there characteristics.
2007-10-16 07:35:08 · 40 answers · asked by kknumber8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good one... Touch though.. you see girls like both. they like a guy that has morals and manners...but dont want a guy they can walk all over.. It depends on the female actually. Personally Im the kind of girl that likes sports... Im very open minded... and I speak my mind . I Dont want a guy that wont tell me when im wrong ... or wants to go to the theatre rather then a baseball game. Some like that more. Being one or the other doesnt make you a bad guy .. There is someone out there meant for everyone. And I firmly believe Opposites attract. But there has to be some sort of common ground.. or shared intrest.. You get a star for this question :)
2007-10-16 07:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer j 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, according the characteristics you use for a nice guy, you make it almost sound like a negative thing and being tough almost sounds like a positive thing. What I like falls in between. I like someone who's a gentleman, smart, opens my car door, may or may not like sports, assertive (neither passive nor aggressive), doesn't like to argue if it's possible to avoid, puts me in my place when out of line, etc.
2007-10-16 07:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I like both. With my personality I'd prefer a more passive person because I don't feel my mood swings deserve arguments, hah. I just need someone to laugh at me and tell me to shut up or hug me and I'm okay. I hate people who argue back because that's not what I want! I personally think being all gentlemanly is too cheesy, but I'd be a bit "=/" if they weren't anyway! I don't care if they're into sports, as long as they aren't lazy. I don't want my man too outgoing, just so I can have him to myself a lot of the time!!
2007-10-16 07:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Karl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HMMMM...how to reply? The truth is we all seem to fall for the jerks, maybe because of the challenge it presents. But the older we get (and the wiser), we learn to appreciate and WANT the nice guy. I know for me personally, aggression is ONLY good in the badroom and no where else. And respect is a MUST. Dont let girls walk all over you though, dont let them take you for granted if you are a nice guy. People want what they cant have and often dont realize what they have until they lose it. I dont know, thats me. I appreciate a nice guy more if I feel like I dont have that security of keeping him. If I know he is super nice and I dont worry, I may be tempted to look for excitement elsewhere. Being "nice" doesnt mean you cant be spontanoues and exciting. Dont be a jerk for the girls. But also don NOT let them walk on you~if they see they CAN, guess what~they WILL!
2007-10-16 07:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like a nice mixture of both. I like the nice guy who has tough qualities like outgoing and who isn't afraid to voice his opinion if he disagrees with something. Healthy debates keep a relationship interesting as long as you don't attack the person's character. But I do not stand for a guy who tries to put me in my place or allows me to put him in his place. We aren't kids so there's no need for that. And being smart is always a FANTASTICAL thing. Yes, I said FANTASTICAL. If you aren't smart then you won't be able to handle a healthy debate.
2007-10-16 07:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Marketing 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be a Nice Guy, and let the girls who like Nice Guys find you!
Well, you can be a little tough if you want. But in a nice way ;-)
2007-10-16 07:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by LilyRosemary 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do U mean tough gentle type? I like someone that can guide me in my life. Which means he must be very mature in thinking & very patient & loving at the same time. Does it fit to tough gentle type. He is smart, mature in thinking, patient with my nonsense, caring to olders, children& poor folks, very hardworking in the sense of business-minded ( the negative side of it is less time for me), responsible to his family & had tough life before before he came to success stage. I guess it's depends on the eye of beholder. If she's the type that U like, everything will be ok.
2016-05-22 23:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who doesn't like a nice guy!! But I also like a man to make me feel safe, so not being to passive is good!!
Smart,gentlemen these are wonderful characteristics!!
2007-10-16 07:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by sammie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dated the tough guys -- I MARRIED the nice guy. Works out much better that way. And nice guys are not necessarily passive -- they just know how to control it better.
2007-10-16 07:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say in between. I don't like passive guy nor do I like tough guys. Someone who knows when to be passive or agressive is good or someone who is well rounded, not a genius and not dumb.
2007-10-16 07:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋