Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

i'm a stupid weak woman ( atleast in that sitaution) i got set up, and lied to, and i fell for it, and now for the rest of my life i'm going to be known as " she is tony crazy ex girl friend" ahhh... you know the only thing i did was react when he was messing with my head, but no that isn't an excuse. i dropped his stuff off at his house, someone keyed his car.. blamed me, he tells people i broke into his house, never happened, i had unprotected sex with him, i let him do things that i do not stand for, and everything was a lie, wow on behave of all woman i'm sorry and some way some how i will find the courage to show my face again =[...oh yeah i told him i thought i was pregnant ( i mean not have a period in 2 months) and he told his whole family that i told him that i was pregnant.. and he told EVERYBODY, .....i never knew relationships were so hard.

2007-10-16 06:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by Emmie S 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi there my name is clarissa i am 52 divorced I was once married to a man of my dreams, His name was Rick we were married in the yr 1991 i thought i have everything going good in my life be happy with the man i loved makin a family the only thing was i could not have children bc when i got rapped by my step dad and there was alot of damage done to my insides that i could not have any more children so if there is anyone out there that feels love is real dont always bet on it, i have learned through my faith in Jesus Christ that i dont depend on humans anymore i depend only on Jesus to help me through things of the world I thought that we were going to be married forever but i guess not and the question was asked my ex why do you not love me anymore and he chose to tell me i dont know how could anyone after 12 yrs of marriage why would someone wait that long to tell you that if you can answer this one plz message me back

2007-10-16 06:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by mommom1980 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hes 20 has his own car and gives me 50 euros.he earns 350

2007-10-16 06:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by ms le mam 2 in Family

2007-10-16 06:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, she isn't my girlfriend anymore. But Sweetest Day is Friday and I thought it would be nice to give her a gift to show how much she still means to me. I made a scrapbook of poems I wrote and some pictures from when we were together, and some other pictures that I took after we broke up. She doesn't know about those because I was always hiding in bushes when I took them, so I think she'll be pleasently surprised.

The problem is, she has a restraining order against me. So since I can't give it to her in person, what would be the most creative, romantic way to present her with the scrapbook?

2007-10-16 06:08:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live in a three bedroom house with my mum and dad, my older brother of 22 has much more in common with my 16 year old brother, they both like computer games and get on better. Me and my younger brother do not get on, constantly arguing. I dont like him, he never does anything for me, and im constantly letting him of, he also makes the room a mess. when I cant stand it.

My older brothers room is a state so it would make sense for them to share a room. But as hes the oldest he has the room, my younger brother complained when i mentioned this, but my older brother understands and would move.

My question is am i being unfair on my older brother? what would you do? where do I stand on this situation. I see it becoming a big problem.

2007-10-16 06:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and me have been together for 1.5 years, and we're both juniors in college. He wants to live with one of his guy friends from high school. I wouldn't have a problem with that except for the fact that his guy friend drinks alot and doesn't seem to have alot of respect for women. My boyfriend says, "that's just how he is." And he also tells me that if he lived with him it wouldn't affect him and me either. I'm just afraid that it would because his guy friend drinks ALOT. My boyfriend only drinks with him. Also, his friend never looks me in the eye, and my boyfriend says that's because he knows I have morals and he doesn't want to do somethin to offend me. He also cusses all the time in front of me. I tried talking to my boyfriend about it, but he get really defensive about his friend. Suggestions? I don't want to be a ***** about it, but the idea makes me uncomfortable.

2007-10-16 06:05:32 · 33 answers · asked by Consultant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this guy for about a month at work-we've been to lunch and talk several times each week. Things seemed to be going good, getting to know each other, etc, kind of moving towards dating. He has always come across as very open and honest and kind, never cocky and over confident like some guys.

So the other day we agreed to meet to discuss a project (nothing assigned to us, just something kind of hypothetical). He said he hadn't thought about it and it would really help him to discuss it with me. Now here's the weird thing: When we finally met, instead of an exchange of ideas, he had totally researched and prepared stuff. I basically sat there while he "dazzled" with research, ideas, and rock solid stuff.

Afterward, I felt bad because I didn't get a chance to add my ideas and felt like he wasn't expecting me to. He really wanted to show off his skills and intelligence. He seemed pretty happy when we parted. Why did he act this way?

2007-10-16 06:04:00 · 5 answers · asked by Ansley 1 in Singles & Dating

I just asked a question here and everyone seems to think that I've blown it with this girl at work. Is there *anything* I can do to salvage this or should I just give up? I don't want to lose my job over sexual harrassment or anything, so nothing too outrageous.

2007-10-16 06:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got married October 6th. Am I really late in sending them out or do I still have time?

2007-10-16 06:03:04 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

My husband owns a home with his father. On the original deed is- My husband, his father and his ex wife. On the mortgage is my husband and his father (not the ex wife)
My husband got the house when he divorced his ex wife.
He lived in it for about 2 years after the divorce was final then when we decided to get married we wanted to sell it. When we put the for sale sign up his ex asked if she could buy it. We were in a hurry to move and said yes. We let her and the children move in under the conditions (verbal agreement) that she would secure her own financing. My husband signed a quit claim deed to her. His father did not. The quit claim deed was notarized but it was NOT filed. Now she is requesting that he sign another quit claim to her, I think because she lost the first one and it didn't have all the right info on it. We have been trying to get her to finance it for a year and she still hasn't. We are now weighing our legal options...what are they?

2007-10-16 06:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My former father-in-law is in a local hospital in critical condition. He lives about 1 1/2 hours from here. So I told his lady friend that she could stay with me so she could be with him. Now, I learned that my father is in the hospital and they think he has had a heart attact. He is almost 2 hours away. I would really like to go be with my dad. What can I do about this lady? She is elderly. She does not drive. Even if I let her stay while I went, she could not get back and forth to the hospital.

2007-10-16 06:02:16 · 9 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family

2007-10-16 06:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love...and its unrequited... I'm helpless...all i can do is cry in the night... Y can't he see all that i am going through??? I've been patient for years but he's not making me feel good about life... I'm only 17 and i am not interested in life!

2007-10-16 06:01:30 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the preocess like for a legal seperation? Is it expensive? And how do I go about getting one?

2007-10-16 06:01:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 06:00:02 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-16 05:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by Luke A. 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been together 16 yrs. I cheated 7 yrs ago when we had just one kid. A couple years later we had your youngest. I came clean and have felt terrible since I cheated. Last yr she wanted out and I got her to stay. Now last week she saw an atty and filed divorce pprs. I got them and never said. We had sex all weekend and I told her last night. She admits to cheating but with no sex. I still think that 16 yrs is a lot to throw away. I got an atty too protect myslef but have told her its not to late to call them off. She still gave me a kiss goodnight and goodbye this morning. She also cried herself to sleep. She said she feels nothing but the sex is because she feels bad. What do you read into this and do you think this can still be saved? Any help will be appreciated. 16 years is way to much for me to turn my back on. I just dont want to turn my back on this relationship and my kids. Im scared to death.

2007-10-16 05:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by browns_86 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 05:58:16 · 36 answers · asked by Lisa0430 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now we have all heard about typical examples of women waiting for their Prince Charming to come on the white horse, etc...The question is: Is this true for men ,too? Do you long for your Princess or you just don't believe in these???

2007-10-16 05:58:03 · 22 answers · asked by Eliza D 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 05:57:15 · 45 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Singles & Dating

Just want to know how many peoples out there who have the similar "such thing" with me..
thank you

2007-10-16 05:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by phlover2803 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, this is the story: my husband and I live with roommates. (they also have a kid) we are 5 people inside the house. Everything good, we have a good time, etc... but when it comes to "consideration for the other people that live in the house" I just want to kill them.... I get so angry!!! listen:: last night we order to go food, I was felling sick so I did not eat my hamburger. My husband said, "well, if you are not eating it, I will take for lunch tomorrow". so I paid my roommates for the 2 hamburgers (because she went to pick them up) Guess what? next morning was gone!!! yes, my roommate’s boyfriend ate it last nigh! why??? I paid for it???? I am so sick that even this smallest thing drives me crazy!!! should I complaint for $7.00??? You think I will sound cheap? they do it all the time!
just to give an idea, before I cook I have to clean dirty plates (from 3 days ago) because she does not clean them and she uses every single pan and knife in the kitchen.

2007-10-16 05:55:55 · 9 answers · asked by :) 3 in Friends

I have a huge problem I have been with a man for 2 years and we have a 5 month old and we ar eplanning on getting married but I am not sure if I want to? We are starting to become diffrent people it feels like and i am not sure if its because having children makes everything so much harder or if we were not reallt supposed to end up together after all? what do i do?

2007-10-16 05:55:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

.... circumcised?

When I was with my ex for seven months, we were laying down together and suddenly she brings up the topic, w./out saying the actual word.

She says, "If you had a son and the doctor asked you if you wanted to cut off his skin, would you do it?" Obviously, she knew I was un-circumcised at that point from previous months. She went on to say shortly after, "Did you ever wish you had the skin cut off of your penis?"

She was from the south so I bet I was her first un-circumcised guy. Was she trying to hint she prefers circumcised and wanted me to get it done? I never asked what she meant, I just answered the questions. I think I said 'yes' to the 1st question b/c "most guys are and it prevents infections." She replied to that with, "Yeah, I heard that, too." And to the 2nd question I said, "I never really gave it any thought as to if I wanted or not."

2007-10-16 05:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

omg, im in so much pain. me and my "boyfriend" are both 20 years old. we have been dating for five years and both go to college. we had been planning marriage and moving in together next year. i found out last week that he cheated on me in the beginning of the semester, after a long night of drinking. He was soo upset with himself and tried to kill himself at first. He spent 3 days crying to himself, texting me and writting my family and myself apology notes. After a week, i realized that i want to give him another chance... i love him so much, its unconditional. Well, when i told him i wanted to make it work, he said its too soon and that we both need time to heal :( he said we need space and that only time will tell whats best for us. i thought forgiveness was my decision. why did he cry to me and say he will wait forever, and now he wont talk to me? hes the love of my life, i dont need time. i forgive him

2007-10-16 05:54:34 · 4 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 05:53:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think they are very nasty. I dont watch them and i will NEVER make one?
And i also dont let my boyfriend watch them.

What do you think???????

2007-10-16 05:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I will have been together for 3 years on Monday, and we have both discussed marriage and know that it is the next step. I want to propose; I know her family very well, and we get along great. Do I still need to formally ask her father for her hand in marriage if we've been together so long and they know me well?

2007-10-16 05:47:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw a girl a few days back in a library. She was very attractive. She came along with her friends there. I was attracted towards her and her eyes showed that even she too got attracted towards me.
Later i went out of the library to have a cup of coffee and on returning back i saw her coming out of the library with her friends.
Once again i saw a brightness in her eyes and suddenly and unexpectedly she asked me if there is any ATM near there? When asked "which bank"-she replied "any bank".But I was not very familiar with that place and i said so. Then she herself pointed an ATM that was very near to that place and said bye dude and so i returned back. On the way back to library i turned back with doubt and she didn't go for the ATM and they were smiling at me.
So what could have i done or spoken to her to develop communication or friendship with her? ( Though i may not see her again. what shall i do if i see her again?)
Gals and experienced guys please share some good idea.

2007-10-16 05:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating