It sure wouldn't hurt. Why wouldn't you?
2007-10-16 05:51:12
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Given you've dated this girl for 3 years now, it's assumed her parents also like you as well. Why not have you and girlfriend take her parents (and yours) out to some nice restaurant, where you then can ask her father for girlfriend's hand in marriage???
It's a nice sweet old fashioned social gesture---that can be done well with a hint of class thrown in.
2007-10-16 12:58:40
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answered by Mr. Wizard 7
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My initial reaction was "Heck, No!". Well, you don't NEED to ask him, but I think it's a quaint gesture. I think these days it's a bit antiquated, but they might like it. I know my parents would be all wierded out, but they're just strange that way.
I think these days it might be a better gesture to ask BOTH parents rather than just Dad--it smacks of Daddy-knows-best, and that might not go down well in a modern family. Mom would appreciate being included in the process.
Also, I would ask how they would feel about asking their daughter to marry you. Might sound better. Just a thought.
2007-10-16 13:04:14
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answered by sharonlb27 2
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I wouldn't call it a need, but formally asking both parents for permission to marry their daughter shows them respect which will go a long, long way in building you up as a man of character. It also shows them a level of respect which they will appreciate now and on-going. Believe it or not, it will also impress your future wife too.
2007-10-16 12:54:23
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answered by birdman 5
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Although in our society now it is not necessary, it is ALWAYS the best way to go. It's not just a nice touch. It's the proper thing to do. The parents will see you respect them, and it shows you've got the character to stand up for your love and pronounce it. Besides, what are they going to say? no? if you've been with her that long and everyone gets along its pretty doubtful that's going to happen.
2007-10-16 12:57:23
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think that you HAVE to ask her father, but I think that some Dads would appreciate the act of respect coming from a son-in-law to be. Besides, earning those extra points with dear old dad sure won't hurt!
2007-10-16 13:01:16
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answered by free2bejewel 1
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I think it is a great courtesy to ask for her hand in marriage...not a necessity, but a grand gesture of your sincerity. My husband asked for my hand in marriage and I was 44 and my Dad 75 was soo touched by that.
2007-10-16 12:52:19
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answered by that judi 6
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Yes do so take him to the pub for a quick pint and ask away he will be honoured that u ask him and then he can then discuss the evening with his wife
2007-10-16 12:59:51
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answered by Paul R 2
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You don't HAVE to but it is very much better to, more respectful. He would look at you as a better person, do remember your taking his little girl =) I would ask the father so that he would be very appreciative that you consulted him and care about his opinion =)
2007-10-16 12:52:49
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answered by Lily 2
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I would say no, because it might give them and your lady that you won't go through with it if he says no.
You are going to marry this woman, not her family. You need to worry about whether she will say yes and play your life accordingly.
Then once she says yes you go together and tell her family and celebrate with them
Good luck to you.
2007-10-16 12:56:24
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answered by mn lady 6
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I think I said this already once today. It's the polite thing to do. And, if you are in the south, it is usually expected. It's called respect, and I would highly advise it.
2007-10-16 12:57:56
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answered by Lulu 2
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