I've known this guy for about a month at work-we've been to lunch and talk several times each week. Things seemed to be going good, getting to know each other, etc, kind of moving towards dating. He has always come across as very open and honest and kind, never cocky and over confident like some guys.
So the other day we agreed to meet to discuss a project (nothing assigned to us, just something kind of hypothetical). He said he hadn't thought about it and it would really help him to discuss it with me. Now here's the weird thing: When we finally met, instead of an exchange of ideas, he had totally researched and prepared stuff. I basically sat there while he "dazzled" with research, ideas, and rock solid stuff.
Afterward, I felt bad because I didn't get a chance to add my ideas and felt like he wasn't expecting me to. He really wanted to show off his skills and intelligence. He seemed pretty happy when we parted. Why did he act this way?
2007-10-16 06:04:00 · 5 answers · asked by Ansley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No clue
2007-10-16 06:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either cocky and trying to prove he is smarter than you, or he is trying to make himself look good with you by showing his skills. If he tries to over do you, then try to over do him. Maybe it will turn into a competition with some "heat".
2007-10-16 06:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it will have been a clear indication ;;; This man has to be in controlled of all aspect of life . that said it doesnt mean he is not honest and kind but hes a freak contol
2007-10-16 06:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to show you he is smart and superior, not to you, but to other guys you might be dating. He probably really didn't want your imput just to run it by you. Don't take offense,...it's just a guy thing
2007-10-16 06:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about impress you and show how superior he is at the same time.
2007-10-16 06:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋