We live in a three bedroom house with my mum and dad, my older brother of 22 has much more in common with my 16 year old brother, they both like computer games and get on better. Me and my younger brother do not get on, constantly arguing. I dont like him, he never does anything for me, and im constantly letting him of, he also makes the room a mess. when I cant stand it.
My older brothers room is a state so it would make sense for them to share a room. But as hes the oldest he has the room, my younger brother complained when i mentioned this, but my older brother understands and would move.
My question is am i being unfair on my older brother? what would you do? where do I stand on this situation. I see it becoming a big problem.
2007-10-16 06:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think the 3 of you should sort this out, it´s not your parents’ problem, it´s a problem between you and your brothers.
I think, that your younger brother might admire his oldest brother as he is already an adult and he is somehow jealous of you... on the other hand, your older brother is much more permissive with the youngest one, because he is the smallest... honestly, to be the "middle one" is always a bad business, all problems are for you and you are constantly overseen by the family…
2007-10-16 06:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 22 year-old brother needs to be out on his own. Hopefully he is going to college and will graduate soon so that will free up his room in the spring.
You are in the same boat... hopefully going to college and doing what you can to get out of your parents' house and on with your own life.
Your parents and their kids all need to have a long talk about the rules of living under that one roof, and for how long. They need to set some limits and time frames for their boys to be getting out on their own.
2007-10-16 06:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that your older brother would be gone but ask your parents if your little brother can move in with your big brother. Tell them that you are not comfortable with your little brother being in your room.
2007-10-16 06:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kaden H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 06:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur parents. Tell them it's better this way because....
2007-10-16 06:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you hould move in with your granny or some other family member
2007-10-16 07:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everyone agrees then where is the issue?
2007-10-16 06:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋