Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

my fiance and i are trying to come up with a good first dance song... the problem is..

hes a drummer, hes in a band, hes not into country love songs ..ya get what im saying.. we need a good slow dance song thats got a rock-edge to it but is about love and doesnt sound like we're at a concert haha

any ideas???

2007-10-16 07:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been dating my boyfriend for six weeks now. This guy who likes me is aware of it respects it, etc. But he likes me, and I think I like him. But I also like my boyfriend. I'm willing to "flirt" a lot with the guy that likes me...which I do. & I'm willing to have "sexual fancy's" with him through phone... (lol xD) Umm, he said he wont because I have a boyfriend 'cause that'd be weird... yeah...I'm not cheating type but my boyfriend latly has been quiet, boring and ... it's just bores me lol. But this guy I can talk to on phone just about anything no silence on phone for eight hours straight... So what do I do? The guy that likes me, I don't know if I want to date him...but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. (even if I already have...) This guy might only like me "to get into my pants?" Not sure. His girlfriend he dated for over a year, just broke it off with him two days ago because she "loves" another man. Lied to him, etc...(real hoe) anyways what do I do? What do I ask myself?

2007-10-16 07:18:58 · 18 answers · asked by LifeSavers 1 in Singles & Dating

its more likely then not going to fail and the consequences of a failed marriage especially for the man if there are children involved are enormous. the mother can go off get remarried and have all the support from the new husband plus make her own money of course and the ole ex husband still has to shell out a thousand bucks a month for a child he sees rarely and who is usually brainwashed to favor the mother. it seems like it is advantageous for a woman to get married have kids, divorce and then get married to someone new , she will have extra money for the next 18 years coming from the ex. why on earth would a guy want to get married these days with things being the way they are.
I'm sure this question will offend some people but it really shouldn't, if you open your mind and think rationally rather then just jump to the defense of women ,you will see that im speaking the truth as screwed up as it is,it shouldn't be beneficial for a woman to divorce her husband.

2007-10-16 07:15:47 · 23 answers · asked by None 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do i need to know regarding types of foods she can eat and sensitive stomach?

2007-10-16 07:15:15 · 2 answers · asked by mastermind delinquent 5 in Singles & Dating

Guy is 54, divorced, and has kids as old as his new bride. She's 24. I feel that the fact he has money did play into her decision to marry him, although she says it was love and not money that influenced her.

What do people think of a marriage with this age difference lasting?

2007-10-16 07:13:40 · 20 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been reading questions about how much rent should I make my kid pay. Most of the posting are over 18 and their parents make them pay rent. WHY?? My parents live nicely (but we are not rich) and they have joked about me paying rent....but they would never make me pay them money to live there. (I don't have kids) BUT if i did and as long as they worked and went to school i wouldn't ask then to pay me to live there. What do u guys think??

2007-10-16 07:12:24 · 19 answers · asked by heyheyhey 1 in Family

http://s157.photobucket.com/albums/t42/jennifermay2979/

2007-10-16 07:07:59 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend of 6 months broke up wit me saturday. i was really upset at first. now i dont even really care anymore. there is this other guy i like that i was kinda talkin to while i was wit my ex and now he wants me to start dating him. i really like him. i just dont know if it is to soon or what.

2007-10-16 07:06:02 · 39 answers · asked by ms. Wilder part II 1 in Singles & Dating

i just found out my wife of 7 years cheated on me 1 time 4 month ago with a guy she knew in high school while visiting her parrents with the kids.. the guy is all of the way across the country. however she has been e-mailing him love letters, phone sex and nude pics of her self. as soon as i found out, she admitted it. i asked her to call him and tell him it was over and she did. how can i tell if it is really over between them or should i let her go.

2007-10-16 07:04:42 · 29 answers · asked by adampsly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she said she feels disconnected from me lately and she doesn't know why and then she said she needed some time to straighten stuff out a something about it almost being a year and her needing to be sure of of this relationship. and then she was like I want you to have fun and forget about me during this break and see if you still want to be together.

Sounds like a bunch of BS, so I right now this ISN'T a break to me, I guess maybe to her it is but my mind is in Bye-bye mode, am I right?

2007-10-16 07:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Donnell H 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently ended a relationship with a man I am madly in love with. Its a long story why. He says he loves me too. We work together and now he will hardly look at me. I am sure he can tell how miserable I am. Why is he doing this? It makes it hurt even more.

2007-10-16 06:56:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 23 years and have been eligible for disability for over a year though I am 57. I spent years raising his children when I could have been contributing to my own benefits. We divorced after 23 years and I'm told I can't draw on his benefits until he dies.

2007-10-16 06:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by midnite rainbow 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's a story about a bride who is suing her florist for $400,000 for the wrong color flowers are her wedding reception. Anyone else feel like sending a sympathy card to her poor husband? I think he might have a "lot" to look forward to for the rest of his life.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12784368/

2007-10-16 06:55:37 · 6 answers · asked by Alan 7 in Marriage & Divorce

just looking for that perfect word to describe a relationship between 1 guy and 2 girls where it is a relationship and everyone is happy without jealousy

2007-10-16 06:54:14 · 9 answers · asked by kerrianne2002 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm newly single with 3 children at home. I'm slowly working into our new routine and trying to make the best of this new chapter in my life. I have begun journaling and that has helped me cope w/the loss of my old life; however, I feel like I need a little more to do to get at my true potential. Any books, websites, etc. you can suggest that will help me over the "hump"?

2007-10-16 06:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by Laura G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter is nearly 18 and does not do a scrap around the home just lies in bed all day and out all nite with a boyfriend of 21 i clean and cook and walk my younger to school which is 3 miles there and back no bus service my husband left me at home twice this year to go on hol with his mum taking my kids i had a falling out with her husband 2yrs ago and i did say sorry but they still blanked me and my husband goes out at weekends and leaves me at home with kids dont say where he is and dont phone me only when there is a need am so depressed what should i do

2007-10-16 06:50:20 · 25 answers · asked by astra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My Fiance' and I are getting married in April. His father is deceased and his mother left at a young age. When we started dating, my family accepted him as their own. He knows how important the father-daughter dance is to me so instead of making me miss that opportunity he decided to ask my amazing grandmother to give him the honor....she accepted but we are having the HARDEST time finding a song that shows the respect, love and how grandmother made him feel at home, without sounding like I am marrying my brother or something!!! any ideas?

2007-10-16 06:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-16 06:46:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know a married man who sleeps around with anyone and everyone he can. Its like he is trying to build up his numbers. I mean he is going after 16 yr olds also! He and his wife have been together for 11yrs. He is gonna lose his job, his wife and everything! Possibly jail time. What can I say to him to get him to realize what he is doing? I want to help him change but will he ever be able to stop after cheating for so long??

I know its not my problem but no one has the guts to tell him whats up.

2007-10-16 06:43:12 · 34 answers · asked by solelone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

wants, needs, and feelings of their own?

2007-10-16 06:42:40 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would you get married, stay single?

**Include your approximate age and if you have children or not.**

2007-10-16 06:41:16 · 43 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 06:40:27 · 1 answers · asked by Ernesto G 1 in Singles & Dating

like for ex. are you willing to breakup with a guy who is not good at bed?

2007-10-16 06:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for about a month. Hes driving me freaking CRAZY. He has interviewed with a several really good companies but nothing has come of it. He has been given the option of taking his old job back, which is less money and a total step in the wrong direction. He is really down about it and I have tried to be totally supportive, by not being negative. Why is he blaming his having to take his old job back on me? He quit his most recent job, because he and I have agreed that he was working for a female Attila the Hun. But, I feel like kicking his A$$. I have told him over and over its just for the time being until he can find another job. Does anyone have any advise for me? Because I feel like I am going to explode and have to go to anger management soon! I take kickboxing and I have been hitting the punching bag as hard as I can, but I cannot seem to get rid of this overwhelming urge to beat his a$$.

2007-10-16 06:34:04 · 17 answers · asked by Freakalicious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and i really have a thing for adults. well older men, i love to be loved by older men and i dont know why

is this normal at all?

2007-10-16 06:32:05 · 36 answers · asked by shorty margera 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine introduced me to her friend 2 years ago and since that day I liked her but she doesn’t know that I like her. Im afraid to go and tell her. A week after we introduced to each other she asked me for my number but I didn’t’t give. A couple of weeks after she tried to chat to me but I blankdher. I been blanking her for over 1 year and 5 months. After that she kept trying and trying to get to know me but I been stupid by kept blanking her. The reason I been blanking her that I have no confidence. I think she liked me because she always stares at me and she always tried to chat to me.

Last Tuesday she walked paste me and she written something ion her hand but I couldn’t see, so today she came up to me angry and said “tom I don’t want to see your face ever again” then she walked off.

I still cant believe what she said today. Im still shocked. What have I done to her? She doesn’t’t even know me. I been planning to go and tell her that I like her. I don’t understand why she said it. Do you think she hates me? Do you I should go and tell her I like her? Or jus leave her alone?

We go the same college and same floor….

2007-10-16 06:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you found out a guy was interested in you and you like him do you daydream or fantasise about things to do with him before you have even gone out with him for the first time..Things like going dancing , concerts or remodeling a house???

2007-10-16 06:26:51 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 6 in Singles & Dating

Well this is my story my husband and I dated for 6 1/2 yrs he cheated on me once before marriage, we got married in march and he cheated last year in april but he didn't dare to tell me until August of last year. Eventhough it was while we were dating it still hurt allot since he has been my first one and my only boyfriend. He is sorry and i know he is, he is a great husband he treats me like a queen, responsible, hard working man.. i truly can't ask for more. Here is the problem i don't trust him at all, I mean after all the horrible pain he caused by cheating, lying about it and telling me months after, im always thinking he might do it again, eventhough he says he will be very stupid to do so. We have been married for 7 months and we are expecting a baby in January he is very excited and so do I. I think im turning into an obsessive person as im always checking his phone, his email, his phone bill i havent found anything but all this obsessive behavior is not letting us be happy...

2007-10-16 06:26:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

am a housewife and do all the jobs around the home my payment is a packet of fags a day off my husband no weekends out etc i have a daughter that spends her days in bed and goes out with boyfriend at night he gives her money when she asks and she is nearly 18

2007-10-16 06:25:50 · 15 answers · asked by astra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This hot girl that I was dancing with for a couple hours said I looked so hot, that she wanted me to put my junk all up in her trunk... So I told her ok, and to go out to my car... When we got to my car, I gave her all my junk that was in there... Broken lamp, old smelly sneakers, and a bag of McDonalds from a couple weeks ago... I said thank you and drove home.... The next week I saw her at the same club, she was all pissed!!!! I don't get it?!?!

2007-10-16 06:22:10 · 24 answers · asked by Darius W 3 in Singles & Dating