A friend of mine introduced me to her friend 2 years ago and since that day I liked her but she doesn’t know that I like her. Im afraid to go and tell her. A week after we introduced to each other she asked me for my number but I didn’t’t give. A couple of weeks after she tried to chat to me but I blankdher. I been blanking her for over 1 year and 5 months. After that she kept trying and trying to get to know me but I been stupid by kept blanking her. The reason I been blanking her that I have no confidence. I think she liked me because she always stares at me and she always tried to chat to me.
Last Tuesday she walked paste me and she written something ion her hand but I couldn’t see, so today she came up to me angry and said “tom I don’t want to see your face ever again” then she walked off.
I still cant believe what she said today. Im still shocked. What have I done to her? She doesn’t’t even know me. I been planning to go and tell her that I like her. I don’t understand why she said it. Do you think she hates me? Do you I should go and tell her I like her? Or jus leave her alone?
We go the same college and same floor….
2007-10-16 06:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she could be mad because you havnt been talking to her. or she said that because she wants you to talk to her. if i were her i would be mad. Go talk to her now and tell her how you feel.
2007-10-16 06:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rondo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say hey I know you don't want to talk to me but the only reason why I have been ignoring you is because I really like you, I know it sounds stupid, but I am a really shy person and this is probably the hardest conversation I have had, and I know this is kind of out of the blue, but could I take you out on a date sometime?
She'll probably say she will think about it, but she might say yes or no...
give her your number no matter what she says... she'lll probably call you when no one is around if she is worried about what her friends might say. I would have a white rose and a red rose when you go up to her... whtie to signify how much you would want to be her friend, and a red rose to signify how you have liked her for x- amount of time.
If she turns you down then just say could I ask you why you are mad at me?
If she says maybe, then give her your number and tell her that if she just wants to hang out too, you'd really like that...
If she says yes then ask her a time and where to pick her up... make sure you get her a single rose... she'll love it.
2007-10-16 14:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmommy101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duh!
she tried the nice, i-like-u looks and chats .. but no use
u know .. u turned her down pretty good... there is no way she doesnt like u
still she probably doesnt want to see ur face .. well at least not the shy blanking-her-off face ..
so go ahead make a step and talk to her ..
im guessing she was just trying ti stirr things up... but she sure doesnt want to say ur old face ...
2007-10-16 13:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by DuDeTte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A difficult dilemma indeed. Talk to your friend that knows both of you to find out what happened and to know how you can make peace. Try to think what causes this. When you make up, stay on good terms, you dont necessarily have to become best friends.
2007-10-16 13:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rio de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably tired of you ignoring her. Get some balls and go talk to her. Tell her you were just too shy to get to know her but that you've liked her all along.
2007-10-16 13:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u "blank" her if U like her??? I think she's done with you but then again you should talk to her and tell her how you feel....she might change her mind ----I'm just saying she "might"
2007-10-16 13:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by ★Star Girl★™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably feels hurt because ur not returning the feeling. ur hinting at it and backing off. she feels used, and that ur just playing a game with her.
now you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2007-10-16 13:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks can only take rejection so long. You are way too "hard to get". You waited too long man, she's done.
2007-10-16 13:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "blank?" like blow her off? That's awful. Tell her you dummy!
2007-10-16 13:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Eagiusti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your so st upid! she tried to show you some emotion and you just blew her off like she was nothing. you deserved evwerything she said to you.
2007-10-16 13:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Denise B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋