like for ex. are you willing to breakup with a guy who is not good at bed?
2007-10-16 06:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not a good enough reason. I love my husband and we work together to make the sex good.
2007-10-16 06:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Becci 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Sorry dude, but it's the truth -- sexual performance is very important in a relationship, not just for guys but for women too! It's worst on men, because women take longer and need more stimulation than men do --- take a deep breath learn some yoga and find your staying power -- more importantly, watch lesbian porn to learn how to be a better lover --- 2 of my male friends said it's the best way to learn. Good luck!
2007-10-16 13:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the relationship is good, then the sex is just about always good! If your lover isn't as good as you think they should be, there are always little ways of letting them know what really turns you on. There is no need to break up with someone you care immensely about just because the sex isn't all that.
2007-10-16 13:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think sexual part is important unenjoyable sex won't last longer. I think you need to train him first then see the result if still doesn't work don't waste your time with a rock , go to find the real hot sex.
2007-10-16 13:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by AAPP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it'd be really low of a woman to dump a guy (and vice versa) because of his bedroom performance. What needs to be done when things start to dim, is find new ways of pleasing one another. I think companionship is more important than sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is important and is a powerful way of showing love, but not a reason to dump someone. Experiment.
Edit: Would the lady who posted below me, please give me your number?! Hahahaha. J/k.
2007-10-16 13:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Only a fool thinks that sex is not important. It is in like the top two of things that matter.
2007-10-16 13:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by dpilipis 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy, but I have had women answer this for me. Try before you buy is the standard policy. In other words, its important and will be an issue later if its not good. Would you want to be stuck with a dud?
2007-10-16 13:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by bloodshotcyclops 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it is very important to me. i wouldn't necessarily break up with a guy for that (he'd have to be pretty lame in bed for that to happen). but my current bf is unbelievable and i wouldn't leave him for anything (but partly because he's so good at it)
2007-10-16 13:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
LUCKILY FOR ME MY BOYFRIEND CAN DELIVER AND EVERYTIME BUT I HAVE BEEN IN RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST WHERE IT JUST SUCKS BUT WASN'T CAUSE TO BREAK UP THERE'S MORE TO A RELATIONSHIP THAN SEX AND I WOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE I DIDN'T FEEL SOMETHING FOR.
2007-10-16 13:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, breaking up with someone over their sex performance is stupid! there are ways to improve this!! and sex isn't everything in a relationship anyways!!
2007-10-16 13:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love isnt all about the sex ... I would not ever dump a guy because he couldnt perform well , Thats just not right... If you work togethor on it then everything will be fine... Reamber SEX isnt everything ....G o o d L u c k !!!!!!!!!~
2007-10-16 13:47:00 · answer #11 · answered by virgo2207 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋