Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

I don't get it, why are u guys so freaked out about relationship... wooo... scary.. what is your problem? Why is a family scare you? and what the hell do you get out of sex? what is the big deal? I just don't get it, after 'relationship' after 'relationship' it all comes down to this... please enlighten me?

2007-10-16 01:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Kerrie 3 in Singles & Dating

my fiance & I love each other, but he keep talking about having a child more instead of talking about our wedding,honey moon our home,etc. it seems that haing a baby is more important than anything els, is it good or bad?? i need aswer from exprienced and adults please

2007-10-16 01:49:56 · 25 answers · asked by Mini fun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 01:49:23 · 4 answers · asked by very hot men 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel very stupid for reveiling my heart to a bunch of strangers but chances are if we ever run into each we wouldn't know who each other are so hey, im taking a chance here. Okay, i moved out of my mother's house about a month ago with my fiance and his mother since things were too stressful with us, plus my now 4 month old doesn't need to be around all the arguing. Well things have been going relativly fine with the exception of the occasional arguing here and there which is to be expected right? Well to give a little background on each other, he was raised in a rough neighborhood with a mother that was there but had her mind on "other" things so he pretty much had to fend for himself. I had a mother who dropped her whole life for me basically and then spoiled me rotten. Right now is a laid back person with a pretty quick temper but is most sweet as candy. Of course there are certain things that you don't like about your mate but as for me, im quiet, shy, and funloving. (see details

2007-10-16 01:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by Poison Berry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I m ugly and lazy.and i want to share my feeling to someone

2007-10-16 01:47:15 · 5 answers · asked by neil r 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy I have been seeing for almost 2 months now. He lives in a diffrent city to me. We have been arguing a lot and he doesn't call me as much any more. Basically he has been taking me for granted. Yesterday we FINALLY had a talk and he apologised if he had hurt me and said that he needed some breathing space and wants to see if he can live without me for a month. He says that he has become off track and he is really stressed out and that he does care for me , i asked if we would still see ech other to which he replied oh we don't need to go out of our way to see each other. I was quite dignified I think and said ok well thanks for letting me know and I know that all you are saying is just a bunch of excuses but its cool and I hope that you are able to get back on track and hopefully not having me in you life will ease the "stress" you are under. I kindly asked him to delete my numbers and my pictures from his phone.
DO YOU THINK I HANDLED IT WELL?? Considering he was quite cold??

2007-10-16 01:45:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 01:40:56 · 16 answers · asked by Kasey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 01:40:18 · 27 answers · asked by cat 1 in Friends

2007-10-16 01:39:00 · 12 answers · asked by Evelyne N 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this sounds like a stupid question but what does a blush on a girls face actually mean, that is when she has been complimented or looked upon by a goodlooking guy.
i know when a goodlooking chick is checking me out i blush too,
the other day i was at work and i was looking at this guys face because he had a little goatee beard anyway his face when all red, i didnt understand why, do you think he might of thought i was checking him out or could it mean something else?
what does it mean to u...cheers...have a nice day

2007-10-16 01:37:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 01:31:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes when my boyfriend and i get into a little argument, i try 2 keep calm and explain how i feel but he gets loud and makes me not want 2 talk 2 him. so i take a break from him by not answerin his calls 4 a whole week and he hates it when i do that. he gets frustrated and says that im wrong 4 not talking 2 him. am i?

2007-10-16 01:31:17 · 42 answers · asked by honeyBee 2 in Singles & Dating

I am writing as I was served with divorce papers last Thursday. This deeply saddens me. More than anything, I want to reconcile our marriage. We have a beautiful baby girl with another due in January. I have fear that I am losing my whole family due to this. This is taking a huge toll on me both spiritually and financially. I want nothing more than to prove to my wife and her family (who is orchestrating much of this), that I am on a good path to finding God and providing a future for us. The papers state that I would need to be present in court by the 23rd of this month. My daughter’s first birthday is today and I’m unable to speak to or see her. And it appears that she is not allowing me any rights to be involved in the pregnancy or birth of our 2nd daughter. I suppose my question is this: Can the courts request mediation or counseling in Texas to see if we can work this out? 6 months, a year…it doesn’t matter. I would just love to have ample time to prove myself to my wife.

2007-10-16 01:31:04 · 11 answers · asked by cjsimmons269 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She spent alot of the day taking with him. We have 3 kids under 5 and I spent most of the day walking them around so she could catch up with old fiends. ( it was a bring you kids with you 15yr HS reunion) Anyway we are vey open and honest with each other. Afterwards I was talking to her about him and asking her how it was to see him. She said that she had chosen me and was happen and would not change that but she did still have stong feelings for him. Even still loved him in some ways. ( Being a guy I could completly understand her having sexual feeling for him but she was talking more about those "emotinal" feelings that I and most guys do not understand so well) She said just give me a day to get my feelings in check and put some perspective on them and then we can talk all you want. Is this normal. He just went through a divorce and I do not know if him bing free added to the exitment of an old boy friend or not.

2007-10-16 01:28:13 · 16 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 01:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by OMG ROLF 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a 2 year anniversary (married) coming up and I am lost at what to get him. I know him so well, but I just can't seem to think of anything that's good enough. What are your ideas? Guys, what have you gotten that you really like? Thanks ♥

2007-10-16 01:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by La Flaca 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why am I short? Well, i was only 5'5 height when i was 7th grade and now I'm in junior in high school. I am still 5'5 height!!!! well, my dad is 5'9 and my little brothers are taller than me. Well, i dont still understand why i am short? Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!! what should i do?

2007-10-16 01:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by ninjajapanboy24 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have went out with three guys in less than four months they have all had good things about them but they were all either needy or agressive? plz help me find that happy medium

2007-10-16 01:11:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but he's one year younger than me, is it okay? What Should I do?

2007-10-16 01:10:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how much is a divorce going to cost

2007-10-16 01:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have decided that I have had enough of sitting chatting on here all the time, so I am leaving and not coming back.

It's been nice knowing you all!

2007-10-16 01:03:55 · 67 answers · asked by LoveBeingAMum 5 in Friends

i'm 16 .. yes still young but i never had any experience with dating/relationships. i feel and reckon i am too ugly =< my whole face looked demented and all outta place and i've got quite alota skin problems =[. my skin complexion is also shades darker than an average asian person. i've got tiny asain eyes and many scars on my face from pimples =[. i am overweight, but not obese.

i find that i can manage to get female friends BUT i can never manage to get a realtionship going =[. i find that they dnt mind my personality but my appearance is prolly what keeps them away from me =[

am i too ugly ? am i too negative? [i'm quite an enthusiastic person] i feel like i'm becoming me emo and unwanated these days =<. oh what do i do? and any advice will be very much appreciated


sorry for this essay xD

2007-10-16 00:44:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met her @ the University when we were both in our first years. I'm 20 & she's 26. We're in our final years now & want 2 get married immediately we graduate.
Is this advisable?
We are deeply in love with each other & she's a stunnin' knockout.
What do you think our parents & other people would say?
What would you say about this situation?

2007-10-16 00:43:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you feel if you are a girl's first boyfriend?

P.S.

She is 22 years old. She is cute and very nice. She did not have a boyfriend in the past because she did not want to..

2007-10-16 00:42:28 · 24 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Singles & Dating

my husband put divorce case against me and i put 498a against him as he took away all my jwellery and also subjected me to physical ause 4-5 times. I tried for 2 years to reconcile with him but he doesnot want to and said if i would have not put 498a he would have thought of reuniting. Now there is no chance. he has applied to quash the 498a in high court . can i change my decision to not wanting divorce and how can i reconcile with my husband.

Even after getting beaten up and also robbed off from jwellery he says he has not done any bad thing but i seem to have done worst thing by putting 498a case.

but even i have decided if there is no reconcillation , anyways my life is going to get spoiled so why not spoil it fighting for justice. i really want to know how justified it is to beat a wife and take her jwellery and then say that i am divorcing you as you put 498a

2007-10-16 00:39:45 · 7 answers · asked by vandana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently met this guy who i really like but i don't know him that well. We have chatted a bit and the body language and eye contact between us is very positive. I get the feeling he might like me too but i don't know if i should make the first move & ask him out. I don't want to frighten him off but also don't want to miss the opportunity. What should i do? Any ideas?

2007-10-16 00:22:18 · 14 answers · asked by scillybird 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant sleep..so far i did not get a full 5-6 hrs of sleep for 3 days now...i would say for those three days i have slept about 10min.....( i cant see a doc) also i have a 1inch cut on my head..its very deep...what could happen if i cant get help with that?? my mom and dad said i will be just fine but my dadd is the one who hit me on my head....(drunk)..i have pics if you dont think this is true...plz only real answers..nothing mean!! thank you
(im a 14year girl)

2007-10-16 00:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by jj j 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that I'm very fond of and am attracted to him. I know he likes me but we live in different states. We stay in contact but not that often and I would love to know if this could turn into real love. I cannot stop thinking of him. We got together once, kisses and all that and now we just chat ...like friends as we havnt discussed our feelings and I cant bring myself to bring this up with him. I invited him to visit..now he is going to on his next free time...he's knee high in work. I dont want to be pushy, Im not the type. Also, we dont know each other v well but there was always this attraction/connection. We're both single & no kids.

2007-10-16 00:20:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I love my boyfriend, weird to say. It's the first guy I've ever said it to and I mean it. I'm 13 and We've goin' out for a while. His friend I tihnk likes me too but Isee him as a best friend. He's very protective over me and wants to beat up anybody that steps in my path. What should I do? He hasn't admitted to liking me but he'll say stuff like nice butt or you look really good today. What should I do without ruining our friendship?

2007-10-16 00:18:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-16 00:17:58 · 13 answers · asked by squirrel 1 in Singles & Dating